Please help me

Thread Topic: Please help me

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    Tragic Newbie
    My stepdad went on a rampage while I was spending the night at my grandparents and became violently towards my mom and shattered the back door. My grandma left the house that I’m at to try and stop him while my grandpa stayed with me and my brother.

    While on the phone with my grandpa, the line went dead and he got a text saying to call the police. He did and they went over there. At the house there is glass everywhere and before the police came my stepdad was attempting to drive to my grandparents house. We were told to lock the doors.

    Currently, the police have taken care of my stepdad but our house is trashed. Glass everywhere and my poor mother an emotional wreck.

    I am terrified and my hands won’t stop shaking like mad. This may be the last time I speak to all of you for a week or more. Goodbye.
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    I wish you all well and I hope that I can come back eventually.
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    LordDark Advanced
    Holy s---, please stay safe. I am so sorry you are going through something like this.
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    LetsTalk Newbie
    Ellie, please stay safe. As Jill said, it’s f---ed up that you have to go through this.
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    Apparently, since before they were married, when I was four, my stepdad hated me and would treat me terribly. My mom said that she’d never marry him those many years ago because of that, and he walked out, but then came back and apologized. Since then, he has emotionally abused me and my mother, but she had no way out and was scared for years of what he might eventually do.
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    Be careful and stay safe. God will watch over you.
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    That day that I said to please delete my thread and the post, it wasn’t my mother going through all of my things. It was my stepdad, and I was too terrified of him in case he’d seen any of the things I’d said about that.

    Thank you all of helping me these last few months. I adore you all so much. I hope I can stay once this all blows over.
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    absol heart Hot Shot
    Stay safe, buddy. Keep your wits about you and be there for your mom. She may be an adult, but we’re all human. She needs emotional support from you just as much as you from her sometimes. If she asks you for something, dont ask why for now, just do it. Spend time with her. The companionship and quality time between yall could be really beneficial to the both of you.
    Side note, dunno how old you are, but its never a bad idea to look into picking up a firearm in case things, well... Go south, ya dig? Better to have a solid means of self defense rather than not. Doesn’t have to be fancy or nothin. Most people will cower when staring down the barrel of a gun, loaded or not. I suggest the same for your mother. When a man like your stepdad is out there, its good to have protection.
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    Faceless Knight Advanced
    please stay safe. if your stepdad isn't going to jail it really is worth considering having a gun in the family
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    The Coldest Sun Hot Shot
    I'm here for you if you need to talk. I'm so sorry this has happened.
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    Sorry. Stay safe.
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    The Actual Boss Advanced
    You’ll be ok, don’t panic first and foremost. Its alright to be scared of course. Just keep aware of his behavior changes, and be sure to start making a plan B if things get bad. If it gets rlly bad u guys need to get away from him (I have a bud whos going through very similar stuff and I told them to leave and live somewhere else if possible, which theyre doing now, and theyre doing better than before)
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    Spoon Advanced
    i'm terribly sorry to hear that, i hope you and your family have a safe recovery
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    S_E_ Senior
    ❤❤❤
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    Eggaly Novice
    I hope things get better for you

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