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Dear Epic:

Sorry to say but...no. It doesn't mean she likes you. I do stuff like that all the time: laugh at the most unfunny things, but I don't like them. She sounds like just a girl who loves to laugh, not necessarily someone who likes you.

If, you disagree with me, which is perfectly okay, come back and give some more details. I'd be able to help you more.

And yes, you can call me Dr. Nikki xD
Good luck!
-Nikki ;)

@Nicole:

You're always welcome! I hope your friend feels better, and I hope I helped....at least a little bit :)

@Luv:

Well, really, it all depends on you. You need to remember that forever is a long time and if you ever get bored, then you should come here...if you're in the mood of course.

But, don't let one site rule your life: if you have limited innternet time, try to discover other websites. Examples of websites that could distract you, other then GTQ:

-Youtube
- FmyLife
-I-Am-Bore d
-DeviantART
-Fa cebook

There are plenty more, discover them for yourself and make your time on the internet worthwhile. If you aren't enjoying yourself here anymore, then leave. Simple as that.

But, if you ever feel like taking a new quiz, chatting in the Forums or making a poll out of boredom, you will always be welcomed here. Don't let other Users hold you back... even if it's me.

Good luck, book buddy!
-Nikki ;)

@Nicole:
Sorry, I got cut off. Here's the rest:

Comfort her and make her feel loved, that's what your friend needs right now. But, don't be fooled: she doesn't need you as a mother. She needs you as friend. SHe needs you to step up and be her friend.

I hope this helps you and I sincerely hope your friend feels better. Remeber: be a true friend. Comfort her, sympathize and try to see things through her eyes.

Good luck!
-Nikki ;)

@Nicole:

I feel really, eally happy that you're coming to me for advice...makes me feel special! And also, I'm happy that I'm helping...if that makes sense. And it's perfectly fine with me that you come to this quiz: I check almost everyday, and it's nice to see people commenting.

Now about your friend...

Your friend just got adopted today/yesterday? Hmm. Well, this is my take on it:

You saying "Hey Mom" must have triggered something within her: raw emotion. If, she had indeed known her parents, you having a real mom must make her feel horrible, and you saying "Hey Mom" might have reminded her that she didn't have real parents and her home is now with stranger and/or 'fake' parents.

If, she had never known her parents from the beginning, then her being adopted might have either left her very happy or depressed. This is because she would have never known the love of her real parents and longs for it, whereas, you saying "Hey Mom" might have reminded her that she will never have that: a real Mom.

Seems to me like your friend has a lot of bottled up emotions from having to be adopted and is having trouble dealing with it. You saying "Hey Mom" has to have triggered something: she couldn't bottle it all up anymore, it forced her to go loose.

Now, please don't feel guilty: it wasn't at all your fault. It's not like you could have known or avoided it.

My advice? Now that you have a bit of an understanding of what's happening, try and get her to open up. Sit there with her, comfort her and tell her, "it's okay to vent. I'm here, and I want to listen. You can tell me what's bothering you, I only want to help you. You're my friend, and this is hurting me too." or at least, something along those lines.

Give her time: pushing her too hard will just make her close up even more, it's up to her. This is a very hard time in her life and the best yo

Aw, your welcome. Any time, I check every day :D

I hope I helped :)

Aw, thanks Jack! Means a lot, that`s really nice of you :D

Good luck with the girl, too ;)

@Brit:
I dunno. Your life, not mine xD

@Tabsta:
Welcome ! Whatever I can do to help...

@Acra:

Thank you! That really does mean a lot...I hope I helped :)

@Jack:

Sorry, but I can't really tell you what to say. To each his own. But, here's a little help, for starters:

I'm absolutely sure you've heard this before, but be yourself! The thing is, a lot of people, maybe even you, slip under the radar. Meaning, that you might go unnoticed. So, be yourself, but exagerate: speak up, let people see you, socialize more often. Don't try to go unnoticed.

Secon d, defend her: if she's in a fight, being told off or people are trashing her, then defend her. This will always be appreciated, and will also leave a good impression on her.

Another thing: compliments! Whether it's "I like what you're wearing" to "How are you so smart?", all compliments help fuel a girl's ego. Always, no exceptions. So, pay her a few compliments once in a while, it will help your case.

Hmm... what to say? I think I've helped you al I could at the moment. If you really like this girl, and are willing to go the whole nine yards, then you could always draw her a picture, if you're a n artist. Write er a poem, if you're good at that. Or, be mysterious: every girl likes that. Leave a little flower (a rose, maybe) in her locker with a little note. Be chivalrous, that works miracles.

It's the little things like these that can go a long way. But, remember: if she really, truly doesn't like you, then there isn't much you can do. So, you be the judge: either keep going after her, or let her go. Either way, there's plenty of other fist in the sea, so if you fail, you'll just bounce back.

Good luck with the girl :)
-Nikki ;)

@Desandnate:

I think that's freaking awesome xD I hope you enjoyed your ice cream.

-Nikki ;)