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@Umbrella:
A) Awesome.
B) Cool.
I dunno what to say xD

@Nicole:

First of all, I'me xtremely sorry for the misunderstanding. You did everything you could to protect your friend, and for this happen is just horrible.

Second , call your friend. If not, visit her house. Try to tell her that the problem won't go away if you guys don't talk about it. Hopefully, she lets you in.

If you do, first things first: apologize. You did nothing wrong, obviously, but apologize for the situation. Don't try and bring up him liking you, instead bring up how much of an ass he is. Immature, I know, ubt it's true. And it might just help her.

If she's one of those sensitive chicks, skip the insults and sympathize: tell her how sorry you are, how she could have never deserved this, she's worth so much more, etc.

If, by chance, she does blame you, explain to her tht you warned her. That you tried your best to tell her. If she's still pissed, call at least once every day, but give her time. She's suffering right now, and being pushed into this will not help her in the least.

If the douchebag tries to ask you out again, just keep rejecting him. Eventually, he'll get the message. And CONGRATS on beating the living crap out of him. God knows he deserved it.

Good luck, I hope everything works out....especially for your friend.

-Nikki;)

@Ashley:

Yeahhhh h you're in the friend zone. Sorry, but you seem to be one of his buds. You can always find out through one of his friends, but, fron what I can see, it seems like he doesn't like you...yet. If you're interested, flirt a little: he'll get the message ;)

-Nikki;)

@Lunatic:
Oh, that really sucks.

Well, I get that too, but I nned to know: is it like a giant knot? In that case:

-Lather conditioner: crazily. Like, overdose on conditioner and center it into the clump.

-Grab a pointy brush: not those soft, weak ones. I mean the ones with pointy, slightly painful bristles. The brushes that are made for coarse hair.

-Make a fist and hold on TIGHT to the spot of hair above the clump. It might be a small space to work with, but make sure you grab it hard enough so if you pulled your hair, it wouldn't hurt too bad.

-Brush away! Crazily, as in hair will most probably be pulled out in the process. Go nuts and brush until you see it start to go away.

If that doesn't work, I suggest cutting it, then fixing your hair to cover the spot until the hair grows back. Sorry.

Good luck....hopefully, your bad hair days are almost over.

-Nikki;)

@Tails:

Perfectl y natural: the song's that get stuck in your head or that yu love are memorable, not necessarily based on the subject matter.

-Nikki;)

@Ashley:

It's hard to tell....I'd have to say to stay safe and not jump the gun yet. He might just be acting friendly.

Ways for you to figure it out yourself:
-Spark ing fun, random arguments
-Teasing (Playfully)
-Trust ing You
-Compliments
-Touching (Pillsberry, Taser, massage, etc)

If there's any more info you can give me, it might help me understand the situation more. :)

All the best!
-Nikki;)

@Ky:

See, the thing is, I've never been in this type of situation before. So, just keep that in mind.

Now, he's soulmate perfect? Personally, I doubt that. The more serious the relationship becomes, the more secrets end up spilling, if you know what I mean. So, be careful with your heart: you might not know him the waay you think you do. Just a forewarning, do what you will with the information.

Sec ond, you're not the only one afraid of commitment. Now, if I were to guess, your age is most prbably between 13 and 16, am I correct? If so, it's okay to wait: if he's trying to push a serious relationship onto you, just relax. You don't have to go through with it, since BOTH of you have to agree if you want to move the relationship to the next level.

So, try to keep things where they are now. Or, if you're the open relationship type, tell him. Over IM, FB, I don't know, as long as you make the message clear. Surprises would not be very welcome in this situation.

I don't know what to tell you, but in my opinion, distance relationships don't tend to work out. Especially when you're a teenager. If you want to keep him, don't break up with him, but don't say I didn't warn you if something relatively bad happens.

So, my advice? Relax and enjoy the ride! If it gets to bumpy or too serious, just slow it down: plain and simple.

Come back if you have anymore trouble, I'd be happy to give my opinion on the subject.

-Nikki; )

@Ashley:

Oh, how interesting. You sound like one of my friends xD

Ooh, a pet unicorn? It's okay, I'm immune to stabbing...his name is Noodles? I'm guessing he's Italian ;)

KK, come whenever you're bored or have trouble. I don't mind, either way :)

-Nikki;)

@Nicole:
KK, whatever makes you happy xD

No, I don't know Nicki Minaj...my name isn't even Nicki. Though I love the song Superbass :D

OMG I love PLL!!! I read the books and now I watch the show. Actually, I just finished wathcing the Finale: what did you think of it?

Hehe...aweso me.
-Nikki;)

@Nicole:

Nice to hear form you again :D You should seriously check out the Forums on this site...we could chat :)

Anyways, (totally random) about your problem: you're in a real dilemma. Now, I've never been involved in anything like this, so keep that in mind.

But...you have two options here. The first one is what I would do:

It's not the 'nicest' way for him, but it's probably one that will benefit your best friend. Next time he comes to you, tell him that if he tries to flirt, ask you out, etc. ever again, you'd tell your bestie. Explain to him that what he's doing is wrong and that you're not the kind of girl that would hurt her bestie that way. Tell him that he should be faithful to his girlfriend.

Also , be very clear to explain that if he breaks up with your bestie for you, you WON'T go out with him. (Unless you actually want to, which I don't recommend) Be very, very clear in explaining that you're a good friend, and good friends don't date the exes of their besties.

Now, if he does happen to approaach you somewhat 'romantically' again, tell your friend. But, be gentle...very gentle. Explain that it started happening a little while ago, and you didn't tell her right away because you cared about her feelings and didn't want to hurt her. Apologize right away about not telling her right away, even though it's not really your fault.

Your other option, of course, is to tell her straight up and hope she breaks up with him. You risk ruining her relationship but hey, it's not like the guy was good in the first place.

Congrats on Josh, though! On a less helpful note: did you say yes? Do you like him? I'm guessing you do and if so, I HOPE you said yes :D

All the best, hope everything works out! (Come again anytime)

-Nikki; )

Welcome, Epic. Come back any time!
-Nikki;)