....srsly
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Thread Topic: ....srsly
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And I don't see why you can't just suck it up and hug your own mother.
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Unloving, that isn't how you came across at all. If you wanted to fix this miscommunication (And I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't care how she felt at all.) Then you need to let her know what you actually meant. Come clean. "Mom, I'm sorry if I came across wrong earlier. I'm really just not comfortable with hugs. That's all I meant by that." Three sentences of clarification. All the effort it takes. Or are you uncomfortable with making sure people know hat you really mean, as well?
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Don't have to, true. But I don't have to refrain from calling you a dick either, doesn't make it hurt any less.
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If she had told her mother that she was uncomfortable and her mother actually genuinely loved her, her mother would have cried. Then she would've started distancing herself from her to try not to make her uncomfortable and that would've been a worse situation. I've known some ladies that would actually abandon her for that.
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Unloving you really have no concept of common courtesy. None at all. You really are just a selfish child. And I have no sympathy for you.
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Megan, good. I'm glad you don't understand. You're lucky.
I don't even know why I'm still arguing about this tho. Because I'm not obligated to let ANYONE touch me, not even my mother (who somehow thinks she's entitled to touch me just because she's my mother, which actually makes no difference) and that shouldn't be seen as rude. It shouldn't be seen as normal to have to touch someone to display your love for them?? -
Not touching someone because she didn't want to doesn't make her selfish, it makes her untrustful and self-preserving.
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Exactly, I don't see how that's common courtesy. I don't see how touching people = love.
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I never touched my mother before she died. We can speak. We just have to have a conversation. "I love you." "I love you too." Boom. The end. No physical contact needed.
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If they ask you to so they can feel a bit better and a bit happier, then getting over your discomfort is for love. You don't want to get over your own discomfort for love, we call you rude and selfish. We don't have to, but we shouldn't have to have a reason to call you that. Luckily for us, you provide one hell of a reason.
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Why do you keep saying that? How am I lucky? I know what it's like to be uncomfortable, so I do understand. What I don't understand is why you're so uncomfortable to the point where you can't even give a hug to someone that lasts only five seconds.
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Glad you agree.
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Late post.
I shouldn't have to let anyone touch me just so they can be happy??? -
I'm going to guess that arrow was misplaced.
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