My crush called me ugly :(
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Thread Topic: My crush called me ugly :(
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rashfield Newbieim feeling so sad about it :'( he said he didnt like me because my friend went up to my crush and asked, "hey do u like georgia? she likes you"
and hes like, "ewwwwww i dont like her shes ugly and a fat cow."
what do i do plz help ive been crying about it for 2 hours already. btw we r both 11 years old. he might be older idk. -
This does happen sometimes, yeah.
Find someone else who likes you and stop wasting time on someone who doesn't. -
Don't worry about it. A guy that thinks like that doesn't deserve your love. He sounds like a stupid asshat from what I' reading.
plus, you're 11, you've got plenty of time to find Mr.Right. For now, just enjoy your childhood. -
I would personally get really mad at them and then basically be like "Screw you." and not like them again. But then again, I am older than you. So, um, just trust me, you'll get over him.
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:/ that sucks.Don't waste your time with that guy.Have fun being a kid still,you'll miss it when your older.
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Screw them. Find someone else who's worth it! :)
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SilverBlueMoon NoviceOnce, I overheard a conversation a couple of boys were having, talking about the school's most attractive girls. So one of them asked the other if he would ever consider asking me out. I cannot recall his exact words, but he claimed that he would go out with every boy in school before he asked me out.
This from a boy who had a reputation for going for every female that breathed.
And yeah, it hurt. I'd be lying if I said that it meant nothing to me. Well, I still rememeber it, two years later.
But you know what? I finally realised that someone like that-someone who loves only with his heart-didn't deserve me. Just because I wasn't tall, skinny, tan, blonde and blue-eyed, he decided I was below him. But it was he who was below.
It's the same for you. If all he can see is the exterior, then he doesn't deserve you.
And don't you even consider that his claims might have had any truth to them. We all go through the awkward phase at some point. When I was your age, four years ago, I was kind of...chubby. My mouth was lopsided, and I hadn't grown into my giant buckteeth or sharp nose yet. He might think that you're not so lovely now, but I'm betting that in a few years he'll look at you and say "Wow she's beautiful." -
SilverBlueMoon Noviceoops, I meant eyes, not heart, in the second text-block.
And I don't know if what I said makes any sense, but it's what I feel. -
Don't worry about it darling. Surely you wouldn't want to go out with a rude selfish pig anyway. If that rude boy thinks you're ugly he is horrible and very mean. He is also very wrong.
Judging others by their looks is very bad and rude. I would not ever want to go out with someone if they only liked me because of the way I looked. A beautiful person is someone who cares, is sensitive and respectful.... You are a beautiful person and have nothing to worry about.
That boy is not someone you want to hang out with. Obviously he holds himself in high regard and judges others by their looks.
Wipe the tears away and cheer up. A guy would be really lucky to have you. When you get a bit older you'll realise this. Only go out with a guy if they're friendly and really nice. You want someone who loves you for your beautiful personality and caring nature rather than your outward appearance.
Remember, this was only one guy. There are plenty other fish in the pond. Smile and your face will light up. Your beautiful personality will shine through. Stay strong. :)
Love Angela x -
SilverBlueMoon NoviceWow...if only I could speak as eloquently as that...
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Short version: f--- that guy. There's better people out there.
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^That sums up everything in this thread.
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