tbh/my flaws
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Thread Topic: tbh/my flaws
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Fun challenge; take a shot every time someone mentions anger lmao
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So like give me my tbh, but also acknowledge my flaws.
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you’re too fücking cute
don’t know how to handle it -
you're too nice
like who is that nice -
ily u guys but im not perfect
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well hey, it's my tbh about you
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okay, well
nice critique
sometimes you can be distant and it can be mistaken for being angry or upset -
^
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luxioooooo (i don't really know you that well, but you seem really kind!)
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you can be kind of insensitive and rude sometimes but idrku so i can't give like examples
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I have noticed that you are quick to dismiss others' feelings without really taking the time to understand them. I've watched you publicly scold your friends in a way that was much more damaging than positive, and it came as a result of you not being willing to understand their feelings. I believe that you need to take the time to remind yourself that not everyone thinks the same way you do, and it is unfair of you to parent your friends or treat them differently due to their unique reactions.
To take that one step further, I also believe you tend to criticize and scold people a lot. Even people you don't really know. However, you don't seem to take the time to work on yourself. I can't tell if it's because you simply feel better helping others, or if it's because you genuinely feel as if you are justified to give advice/critique to everyone around you for some reason.
Which brings me to my final note— I think you focus on the people around you way too much. You really ought to give yourself some time and love. You don't need to be everyone's therapist. You are not obligated to be one. Call out toxic and/or bad behavior if you need to, but don't force yourself to consistently take care of everyone. Sometimes, you need to take care of yourself first. And that's OK. Just taking even a single day for yourself can go a long way, if you need one.
Disclaimer: I haven't interacted with you much recently, nor do I know what interactions happen between you and others off-site. Therefore, my perception may be invalid & based off of old former knowledge. But if it's not, I hope it helps you in some way, shape, or form. Additionally, this is NOT intended to be an attack on your character. I am only trying to share my personal analysis/perceptions. -
Dw
No I usually want advice when I'm sad, so I assumed everyone else was the same/they were telling me about stuff specifically for advice. My therapist was like "no sweetie" and I was like *surprised pikachu face*
I wanted to make that part clear :) -
So now I have to remember to ask what people want me to do instead of going into auto pilot advice.
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Oh, I understand that entirely. I often assume that if people come to me, it's because they want advice. Hard to remember that there are times when people just want to ramble to you. 😅
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Yeah no dw I understand what you're saying and I didn't take it as an attack
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