do tbhs on me
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Thread Topic: do tbhs on me
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Even though I don't know you eggstremely well because I'm a noob I think you're cool and funny sometimes you also have some drawing talent my Shakey hands could never accomplish
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WolfLove, I'm sorry that I haven't been on the ball with responding to you whenever you come on :/// but thanks ig, you're a good person
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Have you been seeing the same therapist for the entirety of that time? I dont wanna get too intrusive but if your needs arent being met perhaps its time to try something new
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you don't gave to apologize, i'm not always the conversationalist i'd like to be :)
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"If I was around normal people who absorbed social cues, they would understand that a lot of the ridiculous things I tend to say and my oppositional behavior is a near cry for help and attention, and there is nothing malicious behind it."
I'm going to have to call bulls--- on this. If you know very well that what you do is wrong and turns people away, why do you continue to do it? Why do you continue to hurt the people who make attempts to get to know you and be kind to you? You continue to flip a switch on everybody, regardless of what they say or don't say. And the fact you can control your behavior and choose not to because "wow i'm oppressed" is just wrong. There are people who lash out who can't control it, and they'd give anything to be able to. You seem to get kicks from hurting everyone around you and seeing who will continue to support you despite that rude behavior. It's not only gross, but it's highly concerning. -
I noticed the other day when I tried to discuss my mistake that you ended up ranting to me because you were so people starved. I do feel bad for you in that regard, but if it's easy for you to lash out at me and others instead of trying to work through problems and be a genuine person, then I'm not sure you necessarily deserve help nor attention. From me, anyway. Everyone deserves to have a support system, but what you do right now is toxic and almost abusive to the people trying to be nice to you.
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You do understand that when you behave like this, shove everyone away, and then get mad when nobody is around to comfort you.. it's all your fault, right? I'm just making sure that you're 100% aware that you are digging your own grave.
Like right now, I'm trying to tell you what you're doing so that you can self reflect and salvage some of the friendships you've destroyed. And your immediate response is a meme followed by "this is so old, let me be edgy instead of admitting she's right." This is the reason why people do not talk to you. This is why people do not like you. You have some moments where you are a good person, but they are overshadowed by how much of a s---ty person you are. And for what, might I add? You'd gain MORE by being a DECENT person than by being mean/annoying/rude/everything you have been recently. -
It's okay to be paranoid and have suspicions that people are out to get you. The world isn't pretty. I'm not going to lie and say everything is perfect. But you are the only one who can control what you do about it. You can choose to be a dick because "well someone was a dick to me, and they ruined me, so I feel entitled to be a dick to everyone else" but that doesn't get you s---. You might feel good for a few hours, maybe even a few days, but the world is not forgiving to people who accept the negativity and decide to use it against others. You're smart, I know you know that's true.
There are people who will care for your well being, but if you choose to attack everyone because of paranoia or whatever your reasoning is, you will NEVER be able to make a connection with those types of people. Ever. The people who are s---ty to their friends are the people that get nothing in this world. That is just a fact. Don't get me wrong- even good people are treated like s--- by society and others- but they do get things at the end of the day. -
And just for clarification, I'm not saying all of this because "uwu let me get back at Drew" or anything like that. You asked for honesty, and I'm hoping to god that you will read through these posts and actually digest them and listen to what I have to say. I know I am not alone in my thoughts about you. I'd like to see you make connections that stick, and I'd like to see you actually change for the better and not keep falling back into this endless toxic cycle of yours.
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jill is right
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You try too hard for attention. When I first met you, I thought you were genuinely mean, but I realize now that you often feel down, just like I do, but you turn this into negative energy for destructive activity. You're not a bad person, so please stop doing the horrible things you've been doing to other users!
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WHAT HORRIBLE THINGS? LMFAOOOO I HAVEN'T BEEN DOING ANYTHING
I literally made some semi-joke about terfs and a mod got their knickers in a twist 💀💀💀💀 and just posted gore to shock people -
You called names to the users, and yes, the gore.
I could've been some ten-year-old you told to get the f--- out your thread!!!
Maybe horrible is too strong a word, but it certainly wasn't nice.
First impression's the strongest, and your first impression to me was you posting gore and calling newbies "annoying---"
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