men focus too much on appearance
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Thread Topic: men focus too much on appearance
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Every guy wants to date a Victoria's Secret model, or a cheerleader, or a p---star, or whatever. But how many men really can? It is a very small number. I think my personal solution is going to be lowering my standards reasonably, and really focusing more on the personal connection. Beauty fades, but real, pure love lasts forever.
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Agreed. :U
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Fairygal NoviceAw[no urls] That sounds pretty sweet! :) The part about the personal connection and how that's pure love. I think this also goes for women also.
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FireSoul NoviceSame here Fairygal
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agreed
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Wildflower Newbieagreed
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Yea it goes for women a little bit too. But men are dicks about it.
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I have dated two girls who have fit what the average guy's standard was.
Those two relationships combined didn't last half as long as the one that was based on personality instead. -
I agree, all the guys at my school only care about the girls looks, so they go for the school sluts who care only about there looks and only date to date.
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FLgirl92 NewbieMen do focus too much on appearance. I can't tell you how bad it is to think a guy wants to be with you, only to have your heart ripped out when he dumps you for the skinny popular girl who tries to make your life hell. I guess that's more the high school version. I had that happen to me a couple times. The worse part is that it doesn't hurt any less the second time. But that's my personal experience on the matter.
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Men do judge on appearance, but women are still worse.
I sat there and listened to a girl friend of mine explain in great detail the process of how one becomes friend zoned. She explained how girls can't date guys that they know too well because they can only see them as friends. And yet this very same girl has never had a relationship last more than a few months without her getting dumped. Then she has the gall to wonder why all the guys she dates end up being jerks. I told her that a guy she knows likes her a lot. That he can't get her off his mind. That he has declined other girls and tried to know her better off the tiniest hopes that someday she might see how much he cares.
She guessed who it was right away. Said that she knew he liked her and that he didn't have a chance. That he was friend zoned long ago but she doesn't have the heart to tell him so.
Men may judge girls off of looks, but that still makes a hell of a lot more sense then what women do. -
FireSoul Novicebarberbob- girls are scared to ask out a guy that she's super close to. I've made that mistake before, he only saw us friends and nothing more. We're scared to be rejected by someone so close to us cause it makes everything else feel really awkward. Especialy if its someone you tell everything to, cause then you'll be too scared to open up to them.
Boys in my skwl judge girls by their boobs, butts, beauty and raice. I know, really swak right and super racist. If a girl is not their raice they won't go out with her, but not all guys are like that, just a lot of them are. -
AquaWinter NewbieWell for most guys its all about looks. But there are also some idiotic guys like my ex who dumped me [well i'm one of those typical popular girls in our school] for a girl who's average. For me he's nuts to do that. But the fact is he cared true love not looks. Standing ovation for those guys like him.
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FLgirl92 Newbie@FireSoul- Yea I've seen that too, where men discriminate with women based on race. Half the guys at my high school said they didn't like black girls. And there were black girls at my high school too. And there are black guys who only want to date girls who aren't black, white girls especially. And when I dated a black guy my senior year, both the guy and myself had really nasty things said about us, sometimes to our faces. Oh the joy of growing up in North Florida.
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