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my parents are okay but they are very hypocritical thinking they let me do whatever I want and they don't let me have any social media, let alone a phone, go over to someone's house without permission and clarification from their parents and I am only allowed to go to selected people's house because my parents do not know the parents of my friends. and i am practically a perfect child, i get good grades, i rarely get into trouble and I'm always behaving (around them). i don't understand why they are so overprotective and strict
livya1 -
its mostly my dad who is strict. I'm 14 btw. I have to go to bed by 8:30 or 9, i have Life 360 on my phone, and i get grounded a lot. Whenever i 'have an attitude' or do anything wrong I get yelled at and grounded.. i do my best i school but i get mediocre grades so yeah. im f---ing tired :(
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i am 12 i am sad and loney i am not allowed to any friends as they think she is a distraction i am not allowed to date,i cant wear the clothes i want,they are so strict they took 1300 kms away from my home i have secret discord account to talk bff and my parents dont know abt it.if u want to be my friend my discord account is divina.raina#8065.i m supposed to get all As in school , iam not allowed to listen to music and my mok found abt my bf so she broke me up with him my dad is always comparing me with kids like what other kids are doin i am queer and my parents dont know i a totall messd up pls help me
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Apologies if I curse in this comment. This is a rant.
At the age of 14, I don't think you will be surprised if I were to tell you that both of my parents are African. My mom is more strict than my dad.
I'm STILL not allowed to go out by myself AT ALL without supervision, I'm not able to cook dinners for my family (since I was told not to use the stove or oven to cook my food), I STILL have a bedtime (I have to sleep by 9:00 pm), and there are cameras in the house!
My parents don't trust me, and I'm already entering my freshman year. I would be SO happy if I got to do at least one of the things that I've been restricted to do. To make matters worse, they find my 12-year-old brother MORE f---ING TRUSTWORTHY THAN ME!!!! He has his own room and I have to sleep with my 10-year-old and 8-year-old siblings (both are girls). Why? He's a boy. AND I'M A MOTHERf---ING TEENAGER SLEEPING WITH CHILDREN!!!! I really wish I didn't live like this because now, these rules are messing with me emotionally. I started becoming more anxious about certain things (walking by myself, talking to friends, etc.), and when I try to address it with my mom, it ends with either a "no" or "what you're saying is utter nonsense".
I really hate myself.
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I'm a 16 year old girl that has been abused by their parents quite often has no friends, when ever I get a new friends number my parents delete the number and block it so I have no way to talk to friends, they force me to family dinners where my grandpa is a pervert that touches my but and tries to tickle me. I sleep all the time cuz I'm so sleep deprived and stressed out. They have to pick my outfits everyday for me cuz they don't let me wear what I want, I look like a freaken grandma, I have a secrete stash of cloths my aunt bought me that I pack in my backpack and change at school or anywhere else but I'm scared to death that they'll find out, my friends parents that my parents don't know about have tried letting me move in but I'm so scared of doing that, I don't know who to talk to I'm so scared I've cut myself starved my self for weeks, and they don't notice, we live in my grandmas basement cuz my parents were stupid and lost our last house cuz my dad lost his money thinking he could build the next Disneyland. They go through my whole phone every night that I have to put away at 8pm everyday. I work my butt off at my job to where I'm working 13 hours a day then coming home and going to bed, I have no where else to go now so I escape to work. I hope someone has a solution for me I really need help asap, I'm terrified of my parents, there all super Morman church people I don't like it. I look at others parents and cry so hard cuz I wish they were my parents. My parents probably have not said anything nice about me to anyone they talk to. They talk crap about me to anyone who asks about me. I hate it please help me!!!
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Oh also I'm adding that I have really bad anxiety i have panick attacks to where I pass out and my parents don't believe me, this last girls camp was so scary I was having super bad anxiety and one of the leaders noticed and asked if I was OK a couple times until I broke into tears and told them everything, she said that I'm her new favorite daughter and helped me through camp. I didn't what to leave because I finally feel loved by someone, I wish she was my mom, I really wish she was, she said I can text her anything I need to then delete it right after, she understands everything I'm going through which has never happened before, I wish she was my mom so bad I cry about it all the time
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I got very strict parents. I am a 12 year old girl and i wanted to take this test to see if my parents are actually strict. Studies shows that if you have strict parents, you can have sleep deprivation, eating disorders, anxiety, low self-esteem and poor academic performance. Lately, I sleep late and i always take naps so my mom gets really mad and shouts at me. Sometimes, i think about either killing myself or running away. If i run away, i think about how to survive, where to go, etc. My parents wont let me go to sleepovers just because they could probably be "dangerous". They expect me to have A's. My mom is the most strictest and we usually fight about why i dont talk to people my age, why i always take naps during the day, how chores needs to be done, and she wont let me dye my hair or pierce my ears. If i want something, they would always say, "Is it because your friends have them too?" and i would get really mad because thats not the reason. The reason is because i want it. And sometimes, they would be like, "Oh look see? Theyre more behave and they respect their parents" and when i say to stop comparing me to other kids, they would say that they are not.
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Im also adding that i had a miserable childhood. My dad was drunk so we left him (he still texts me but i block him. He wants to call me EVERY SINGLE YEAR on my birthday), I lost a sister, we had no money at that point and we were hopeless. Also, I can have social media but they control it. I cant have tiktok but i secretly download it and uninstall it.
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I was just reading this and my parents are the same way they even abuse me when I don't listen to them or try to run away, they're so strict my friends parents have tried letting me move in with them but then my parents blocked and deleted all my friends numbers so I can't talk to any of my friends, its so hard I don't know what to do and I'm 16 now so it's super hard not being allowed to date or talk to boys til I'm 18
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hey its gonna be fine i m still living on that hope my dicord is divina.raina#8065
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I am 14 years old and I have strict parents. They yell at me for everything. Grade below and A, forgetting my chores (which I have a good amount of), and talking to my friends past 9 pm (my bedtime is at 10) are just some of the things my parents yell at me about. I am allowed to have NO social media, if they find out about any social media i do have they strictly monitor it or they tell me to delete it all together. They go through my phone almost every night, which I have to give to them before I go to bed. They are ALWAYS tired and cranky. I am allowed to go nowhere with my friends unless my mother is there supervising. My mother has to know all of my friends and their parents, however there is no way for her to know if she knows them all. I hate their guts. I more than once have brought up the idea of boarding school but my parents shoot it down immediately, and get angry. I actually could do with some advice. I am constantly breaking their rules because I need to to be able to breathe. Then she goes around advertising how perfect of a family we are. I am so sick of it. Family is so suffocating.
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I should add that I don't mention I want to get away from them when I mention boarding school.
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Life is so unfair. Im 12 but i already think about my padt and my future. My oast was already miserable because my dad left me and my mom and i lost a sibling. We had no money at that time but i was a sunshiny kid i guess. Now that we have a home, a dad, its great. But my mom gets really strict and wont let me go to sleepovers because they can be "dangerous". Im moving out in highschool so i can get the freedom soon. I hope we can survive together and sometimes, you just gotta be honest with them because they will see it eventually. Good day!
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my discord is divina.raina#8065
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My parents aren't too bad. I'm an almost 15-year-old girl. I'm allowed almost all social media, I have my own phone, and I'm allowed to go out. They go through my phone sometimes, but only when I'm acting weird. They don't really care who I'm friends with as long as they arent changing the way I act. I do have to go to bed before midnight, and I can't have my phone in my room at night. I'm allowed to wear makeup, even though I don't. They don't really care what I wear as long as my private parts arent out lol. I'm sort of a tomboy so I wear big tees and jeans most of the time anyways. I'm allowed having people over, and I'm allowed seeing other people when I want, as long as we don't have something else planned with the family. I read some of the other comments and I was like "wow i thought my parents were bad," Anyways, hope you guys are staying safe : )
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You are so lucky :_(
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I have strict parents: not allowed to watch youtube\, only allowed to watch tv and be on my phone on weekends, can't have snapchat (im 13), not allowed to wear a 2 piece swimsuit, not allowed to have a sleepover. my curfew is before 9 (so at 8) right when im finsih school they tell me to get a book cant do nothing else.
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My parents aren't really *strict*. I think I had strict parents, and I have anxiety, so yeah.
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I can't do anything anymore. My parents are scared of getting Corona virus so i'm at home, grounded. I cant go on any electronics and i cant see friends (My parents told them that we arent friends anymore). They support me on becoming a mechanic, but I CANT because they dont want me to injure myself. My allowance is $2 a month. And candy doesn't even last an hour! If they died i would just laugh at the funeral. Im gonna move out
14, Guy
M921613-
dude, school must be canceled in ur state too, kind of a bummer tho cause the corona viruse means i cant take my retests in school
awp2 -
please dont say that
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Umm, Just saying. That last part is very unnecessary. Plus, your parents do those things to protect you. And they won't do those things if they didn't love you. So yeah. STOP BEING REBELLIOUS AND LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS FOR ONCE. JEEZ. Sure yeah, if you wanna get corona then GET IT. I'M MORE THAN SURE THAT YOU'LL REGRET IT ONCE YOU'RE ABOUT TO DIE.
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Do you have strict parents? How would you know how it feels to be depressed and not have freedom. Covid just gave them more excuses to keep us kids home. Were not rebellious, we have freedom of speech and authority to act how we want. Parents just try to take away our freedom to be a person in the United States. Have you ever had a history class? Then you'd know that the amendments say that we are allowed to have freedom of speech and to not be slaves or prisoners to those who cast us wrong. We are allowed to act on ourselves, and be free people. That's what America is about, freedom to the people. So how would you understand if you have strict parents who constantly remind you that you are their property, and you can't do anything of your own self-value? You are belittled every day for stupid stuff, and of course, you can't take this pain and suffering anymore. So of course we're gonna speak up about it, and let our voices be heard. We're not being rebellious, we're showing our parents that we are citizens of America, and we know our rights. Were not the ones yelling at them, or talking down to them, if anything were the ones reminding them of our self-value, and that we're human beings. And if that seems rebellious to you, then you haven't been around long enough in the 21st Century. Umm, just saying.
TiannaJ1 -
have my disocrd divina.raina#8065
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My mom will NOT let me have a boyfriend until I finish collage! I currently in 7th grade but, I have a boyfriend ;3 They don't know and I'm never telling them.
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Your result was the truth I got 81% strict and when I say I have strict parents I mean it I have the most strict parents ever they made me delete snapchat and Instagram and every other chatting app cuz they didnt like my friend. is it me or any other brown kids can relate.?
JassicaG1-
i will never get social media
awp1
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I think I have strict parents. Im 17 and my curfew is 5am my parents dont care about my grades and I have a $300 dollar allowance I can nearly go out with my friends because my parents refuse to give me any more money and everything that I do seems to not be enough for them fore example I try to go to class at least 2 a week and thats not good enough for them.
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OMG YOUR CURFEW IS AT 5 BTCH YOUR HELLA LUCKY TF $300 dollars budget OMGODDD
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broo u lucky
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so, u think ur parents are strict bc you get $300, a 5am curfew, AND THEY ONLY MAKE YOU GO TO CLASS TWICE A WEEK
? bro, id switch with u in a heartbeat
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How are your parents okay with you going to class only 2 times a week?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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Do you have strict parents?
Your Result: Let-Loose Parents 91%Your parents totally lets you do whatever you want! There's absolutely nothing to worry about with your parents, but sometimes strict parents can do you a little good (not very much, of course). Parents like yours are dreamed of by a lot of people. If you think your parents are quite strict, then maybe you should re-think that a little!
30% Average Parents
20% Totally Strict Parents!Kell16171 -
I’m 13 and I can’t even wear jeans outside and when I’m on my phone I feel like my mums gonna take it so I hid it, like I’m a Muslim so I have to cover my hair and even if there’s a bit of my hair showing she’s goes crazy like tf. THERE ARE GIRLS AT THEIR WHO DONT WEAR SCARVES LIKE ARE U f---ING DUMB AND THEY WEAR JEANS AND STUFF THERE SO LUCKY ITS CRAZY BUT IDC WHEN IM 16 I DO WHAT I WANT 🤣🤣
layla11 -
Hi, I'm 13 / girl . I love both of my parents don't get me wrong but, my mom is too strict. I can't use my phone whenever I want. I have to put it in her room at 9:30 pm on weekdays and 12:30 am on weekends. My dad lets me use my phone whenever and wherever, but since my parents aren't together, i'm with my mom more often. my mom doesn't let me take it to school which is fcking STUPID. if i ever need to call or text her from school, i can't. i have to use my friends phone . its even gotten to the point where i have my parents' numbers saved in my best friend's phone. and if i do ever use my phone on the weekdays or weekends, i can't use it until after dinner which is stupid! my friends never know when i have my phone and i don't have my phone. i can't ever be put in group chats and group facetime with my friends. i can't have instagram, snapchat, or any other social media. she tries to limit the amount of time i use my phone. she always says "when i was younger, we didn't have our faces stuck in a screen." YOU KNOW WHY, YOU DIDN'T HAVE ONE. maybe if you were my age in this generation, you would. and when she takes it, she says "find something to do." theres deadass nothing for me to do because i'm an only child and there's snow everywhere. i would go live w/ my dad but i'm to nervous to ask.
dqzzle1-
i can only go on my phone to text them or call them and nothing else at all
awp1 -
yo your lucky i cant watch tv or be on my fcking phone on weekdays she says get a book also my curfew is at 8 on weekdays and 10 on wkends
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@jainaDeliho okay but like..... i cant even go out on weekdays an when i do go out it is only every other weekend and when i go out i have to be back by 8:00 or 8:30 at the latest. i am not saying your parents arent strict but like....
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@jainaDeliho it is the same thing for me, except I don't have a curfew because I'm only 13, and I can't drive lol. And my parents also don't tell me to "get a book"
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I'm 13 btw
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God damn I hate my dad I wouldn't honestly care if he got hit by a train he is an a**hole who only cares about himself and his othe kids I think he thinks I'm an disspapointment to him or something.my sister does gym so it's all wow her and s**it. And I can't do gymnastics I sometimes think of killing my self but then I think that I would live a wreck of destruction at my funeral and I have people who love me at least I think I'm not sure anymore.when we're on holiday we aren't allowed to use any devices and my step mum gave me a round towel that said hills and she got it free from a pet store and I have to wear it because it was my only towel I also have blue fish goggles which are also freebies from the skin cancer society. and my sister who's 7 teases me and I can't say anything or Julie will ground me and make my lofe more of a living h*ll I honestly think he doesn't give a f***k and he never probably loved me anyway. I sick of there judgemental s--- about how I'm not good enough. When I was like 9 I was told by Julie that I smelled
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She doesn't even know I have this is this unfair
I have split parents my dad is meant to pick me up for my b'day I haven't really liked my dad even from a young age when I was like 5 I used to tell him that I hated him and that I hated living at his house multiple times hoping it would change something but he just asked me whether I still hated him and I would say yes and he would just say ok like it was a normal conversation.anway he didn't pick me up for my birthday and said he was going to Aussie for a work trip with the other car salesmen.and his wife went with him and they went snorkelling but his wife's b day is in the Same month as mine so I'm pretty sure that he went on holiday with his wife on my birthday the week after that he took his kids on holiday to the South Island and the went skiing for a week and missed school and they tried to keep that from me .
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She doesn't even let me go down town before or after school although I do I have a social media Instagram account that she doesn't know about its got a fake name and my friends don't know i just watch there feeds and stuff. But I get embarssed when I have to say I don't have a phone or social media. I think I have depression and anxiety. I get worried about mufti days as my friends chat over Insta about what there going to wear
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I'm 13 girl and I'm not even allowed to chat on hayday suposebly according to my mum my parents are split I swear at school and I'm not that goody to shoes like my mum lets me watch Netflix m movies but I'm not allowed a phone or social media. Is this fair?
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My dad is nice! ofc I love him. Expect he over does thinks. I'm 16 (girl). I'm not allowed to wear dresses above or right to the knees. Always below. I'm not allowed to wear pink lipstick. He'll kill me. lol. I'm not allowed to have ANY social Media. Even tho I have IG sc FB and twitter secretly. I'm not allowed to paint my hair. He'll shave my hair bold. Not allowed to paint my nails. ( I need to turn 19) He thinks its slutty. I can't have sleepovers. Only at my grandmas house (Now I stopped cause it gets boring every time) I'm home schooled So The computer I use, is only for school. NO GAMES or he'll get really mad. I got to bed at 9. No rated R movies. He wants me to get my permit at like 20. Not now. If I buy something with his money he gets all mad. Like today for breakfast I got a these breakfast sandwich's and he didn't really like that. If I want to go out, I need my mom with me everywhere I go. Literally. And If i wear a shirt that is just a little, LITTLE opening, He wants me to wear a jacket. (When we go to Church). He loves me and wants the best for me. But he just pushes too far. And one day He might lose me and I might do things that I will later regret.And I don't want that. I guess things are the way that life meant to be.
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YALL I CANT DO NOTHING I CANNOT WAIT TO GET OUT OF THIS HOUSE MY PARENTS ARE INSANE YALL LIKE 12 OR SOMETHING IM 16 LOL YALL OKAY WAIT TIL YOU GET MY AGE AND ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A FEMALE OHHHH BOY
mallory0 -
My parents are strict in SOME ways. They won't let me have ANY social media. I'm not allowed to WATCH Youtube videos, or have an channel. Little do they know I have a Twitter, and a Youtube channel. My parents won't let me play shooting games, or watch shows like Walking Dead (I'm 12 and a half). My mom won't let me have a phone until I'm 14..the hell? What's wrong with having a phone especially in THIS day and age.
