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I am 13 year old and my parent are really strict. I have the best grades and i have won so many prices for being an exellent student. I want to make my parents proud. But when summer comes i get really sad because my parent will not let me do anything with my friends like sleepovers and not even going to their houses for a while. I do not have a boyfrieng and i don’t want one. But everytime my friends ask me to hang out with them i have to say no because my parent won’t let me. Like, what should i do????

I have strict parents but according to this quiz I've let loose parents.. but like idk- cuz i talk back a lot and use my phone all day but nobody tells me anything, mostly cuz it's no use I'll never listen.. but other than that i don't thing my parents are chill. I'm not allowed to go anywhere. My mom takes me everywhere, drops me off to school, picks me up etc.. I've had great difficulty making friends cuz of it. I can't go anywhere with my friends, suppose a friend asks to hangout, so my mom would be there with us. I've hidden basically everything about myself from them cuz ik they love me but they can be excessive and ik they'll never understand or love the actual me. They love the idea of me as a part of their family not me (based on my thoughts).

I am a 17 year old girl who has very strict parents. I am not allowed to date, have don’t any social media, or have any video games. They normally don't let me hang out with any of my friends. If I get a grade below an A- I get grounded. I don't really have a curfew because I can't go out much. I’m not aloud to have sleep overs or hang out with any guys. I’m not even really aloud to have guys numbers. They also check my phone all the time. And they make me put my phone win my room every night before bed.

They are pretty nice. I get along with my mom pretty well. She’s like a sister to me sometimes. She and I share a car and I can’t use it unless it’s a good reason to go out. Like running to the store or something. I can’t just leave to hang out with my friends. They are also very strict about my phone….

Lmao these quizzes keep telling me my mum is average and ain't really strict at all. I'm 15, not allowed to wear makeup, not allowed to date, if I eat too much of something she takes it away, she denies everything she's done, she blackmails me by threatening to get rid of the cats, if she finds out I'm dating something she doesn't ask any questions she just separates us. Not strict my ass.

Your Result: Totally Strict Parents! 91%

Wow! Your parents are totally strict! They won't let you do a lot of things that people your age should be doing. Maybe you should talk to them and arrange things a little. That sometimes helps. Or, if you think that's not going to work, just think that sometimes strict parents do things for your own good!

I have kind of strict parents. Not in the way of they start yelling at everything I do, they'll make fun of anything I like that they don't. I once bought a body chain WITH MY OWN MONEY and was told I could never wear it. My mom makes fun of my interests, my hobbies, my style... I have my phone, and if my parents are in a bad mood, then there's a good chance of that being gone for no reason. My google access was non existent until recently, and now it is heavily restricted. She always tells me about how much I eat and how much weight I'm gaining -- All I did was stop starving myself as a punishment. She blamed me for my s/h urges. She always tells me that I'm "easier" now that I'm not open about a goddamn thing with her. She wants to talk about politics all of the time (and is often very scientifically and politically illiterate anyway).

She pisses me off really easily. I can't wait to move out.

I'm a trans boy under sixteen years old, and I'm not sure if my parents are good or not. I'm autistic and have ADHD.

To start, I was adopted by my biological cousin and her husband. I'm the sixth kid they had. As of now, my mom's 54 and my dad's 59.

If I mouth off to my mom, she'll wait for me to turn my back to her and then she'll swat me on the butt. If I don't, she'll usually hit my arms or anywhere in her range. And that's just the physical. When I bring this up to her afterward, she'll either call it a 'love tap' or deny it ever happened. Granted, I am extremely snarky. Any attempt at sharing my identity with my parents is shut down.

My father is a lot less scary to me. I feel a lot more safe sharing things with him than I do with her. He avoids any conflicts between me and my mother.

I have very strict parents. I don't like how they say I can open up to them but when I do, they yell and lecture me about it. I have to use a password on my phone and download an app to make passwords for my apps so my parents don't see it. My dad tho will get angry at the most littlest things, spilled some water? Got the silent treatment and grounded. Got an A but not a A+? Grounded. Talking back when they're talking? Grounded. My mom will always try to be nice but at the end of the day she will just yell at me and ground me for not opening up to her because she says that I have to give "family time". I hate every single one of it, I cry myself to sleep and my parents don't hear it cuz I cry silently, I'm to afraid to cry in front of them cuz they would just ground and lecture me and say " I'll give you a reason to cry if you do". I hate it.

Do you have strict parents?
Your Result: Totally Strict Parents! 95%

Wow! Your parents are totally strict! They won't let you do a lot of things that people your age should be doing. Maybe you should talk to them and arrange things a little. That sometimes helps. Or, if you think that's not going to work, just think that sometimes strict parents do things for your own good!

I definitely have strict parents

I already knew I have strict parents but I think this quize mad me realize how had it was.Like I'm like 15 now and I'm not allowed to visit an friends house if there no parents,I can't have sleepovers (with my cousins and/or friends).They say it's since I'm the youngest,but they've been letting my brother go out to like theme parks and sleepovers since he was like 13.So they only strict with me,I can't quite talk to them about it since I would just be under a more strict schedule.I would end up with a lot less freedom than I have right now.

i don't know if this is strict so please correct me if i'm wrong <3. no phone after 9, no devices in general after 10, no crop tops or anything revealing, if i DARE question them on their authority they will yell at me, bring something up i did wrong 2 years ago, then ground me, if i start to like an app again after ditching it for a while they will do the " since your starting to veg out on this app, only 1 hour, and you have to EARN it more time." if i DARE raise my voice even the smallest bit they will go bonkers then blame me, if i try to ask them something when there angry they will take their anger out on me then say " oh i'm sorry i will try to do better, i was just hungry" (then does it 1 day later), if my sibling does something wrong to me they will make it how its my fault" if i talk to quiet " SPEAK UP LIKE IS IT THAT HARD" if i talk to loud " SHUT UP STOP TALKING SO LOUD YOUR BEING DISRESPECTFUL BLAH BLAH BLAH etc" if i talk in my normal voice then its either to quiet or to loud, if i just listen to them yelling at me then i just "don't care" and "breaking out of the conversation" if i don't do my chore properly then im being irresponsible, they tell me to just be a kid while i can BUT when i do something that a kid will do then i need to grow up and be more responsible, also TW: im sewer sidal but to my parents i just have the blue's :), if i even TRY to say that there doing something somthing strict they will say, QUOTE ON QUOTE " nah if you wanna talk strict i'll show you strict i'll make you wake up at 6 am and make you cut the grass with scissors," finally there thinking now on becoming "strict" (even though i think they are) well that's my parents , toodles! :>

im am 13 and my parents dont let me do anything . they always ask who im going out with (only friends) and if they arent super close with their parents then its a no. im so used to no at this point. i hate my parents to the point i dont eat anymore, and i cry myself to sleep every night without fail. they expect so much from me but im still a kid, i beg them to give me grace but nothing ever changes. im counting down the days until i leave for college. only 5 more years

Im just wondering what you think. Im almost 15 btw. So, my mom is pretty strict, abd it can kinda get weirdly strict. Like I understand the "no social media" & "no crop tops" and stuff, but let me just start with my clothing choices. The rule that bothers me most is "no leggings" rule. I cant wear leggings, the reason for this is because "its not for my age" or "im not grown". And whenever I pick out my clothes, she'll find a way to completly change the outfit or call what I picked out "ugly".

During my 8th grade gradution, I took a picture with "kiss lips" and my eyes looking up to the keft while standing straight forward. My mom got mad at me & said it was inapropriote, said I wouldn't understand.

Their were many times I was called out for "not being black" because I haven't seen or remember movies like "Friday" or "Martin".

Or heard "Soak City" or any other "Black music". When I ws in 7th or 6th grade I wouldnt be allowed to listen to certain Kidz Bop songs. One of them is "Trampoline".

I don't know, but for sone reason since I was 12, I was the main person my mom would look at when a lighter, or her "Swisher" would go missing. I got older one day & all of a sudden "I was smoking", "vaping", or "having sex". The amount of times I would be living my life & my mom would start accusing me is actually hurtful. "Im not a fool" & "don't let me find out" is what she says when I tell her im not doing anything. Im also not allowed to go to the food places or the park after school with my friends. Only school & The Teen Center.

My mom will tell me how she is proud of me, and im the best daughter, then she'll go to sleep & her vape and stuff will fall out her pocket and stuff, then blame me & my nine year old brother for "pick pocketting her".

When I was around 12-13 I was using face wash, then all of a sudden my mom decided i couldnt use it anymore. Im also not aloud to shave anywhere but under my arms. This makes it really diffcult

GOD it's honestly emberaassing and humiliating how strict my parents are.... I'm 16 (turning 17 in a few months) so to start off I"m pretty irrelevent in my school like I have terrible social anxiety and very few friends and definetly not guys in my life. My mom is crazy strict like if you are asian (like me) you might relate. I've never in my life had a sleepover, I get to see my friends outside of school like ONCE every month or twice a month, yep I'm not even allowed to hang out with people. i feel like this is a huge part of the reason that i'm so bad at socializing I'm like a prisoner in my own house and i hate it. I have a terrible relationship with my mom and ugh i just can't with her. when it comes to grades I'm expected to have all A's I have a B in calculus so she took my phone and laptop and yes it's taken FOREVER i guess.... so i'm pretty much dying of boredom in this horrible house. and all i ever hear from her (if she does talk to me its just fighting because she ignores me and acts like im a monster 24/7) is about how i am stupid and worthless and dumb and a difficult kid, as if i dont have a 4.36 gpa :) I can't believe im going to college in a year and i dont even know how to interact with people. i mean i guess (unlike a lot of people in this thread) she isn't that strict about the clothes i wear cuz i do wear like crop tops and revealing clothes a lot but that's pretty much it. god i literally never leave my house besides school its depressing. and my parents are extremely stingey (even though my dad makes 250k a year) LIKE MY MOM WONT EVEN LET ME GET GLASSES TO WEAR FOR MY EYES OR GET ME JEANS BECAUSE I DON"T HAVE A SINGLE PAIR OF JEANS TO WEAR. yep i love her xoxo. my biggest joy is whenever i come home from school and see the Tesla isn't home, because that means that my mom is out and i love when shes not home.

Im a 14 year old turning 15, Ive got strict south Asian parents. Hitting kids in Asia is normal here..so even at this age, even if I make small mistakes I get punished. The fact they never get happy from things I do good on and always focus on my mistakes make me insecure, I try my hard but doesnt matter to them. Today I got yelled, hit by a wooden ruler as well was got grounded for next 2 weeks because I disagreed with my dad. This because he heard a compliment from my little brothers teacher saying that my brother was getting polite nowadays, and my dad was shocked because my little brother isnt like that at home. So I told my dad my brother is either being nicer or is only nice at school and not at home and he thought what I said what stupid and he got mad at me and I just stayed quiet and started doing my work and apparently according to my dad Im rude and not polite but as far as I know I didnt do nothing. Then he got mad and brought ruler and told me to take my hand out and hit me, I tried held back my tears. He even said that i was thinking negative when I was just saying my brother either got nicer or is just nice at school which was nothing negative or bad to say. I still dont know what Ive done, but Im hopping the scar that he hit stays on my hand so every time I wanna disagree with someone Ill look at my scar and think the consequences before I disagree, sometimes its better to keep your opinions to yourself because there are some people who think they are better than anyone and their opinion is better than others. Please dont do same mistake as I did today! But I dont hate my parents, its not really their fault they are raised like that, its not their fault because I know they mustve felt worse than I did but I really wished they could be less strict

Average,eh I honestly don't like my parents that much but I pretend I do so we don't fight as much then and there is less drama. They lie alot to me but I will admit they do help me with something's but I'm tired of always having to walk on eggshells often for them so no they aren't strict just kinda screwed up. Cool quiz anyways mate though.

I have overly strict parents, I turn 17 in 3 months and ive been saving for an apartment so the day i graduate im moving out. they make so many rules for everything and then change them when i make a small mistake just to punish me. for example, i was at my boyfriends house (they think were just dating cuz i cant have a boyfriend) and i had to be home by 11:59 and on my way home there was a car that almost hit me and it scared me then they were going 25 below the speed limit, it was a one lane road so i couldnt pass them. when i tried telling my parents what happened they just said i should have left sooner. how was i supposed to know this was going to happen?? then i went to bed and the next day they said im grounded all day when i promised my boyfriend i would go to his lax game. they wait up for me to come home every night. and they never told me i was going to be grounded until i was getting ready about to leave for the game. this crushed my soul and they wouldnt let me text him that i couldnt make it so i feel super bad and i still dont have my phone because they keep making excuses. ive been having sleeping problems for the past 6 months and they wont let me take melitonin because they think its the same thing as marijuana. so i have a hard time waking up and getting to school on time. i have all a´s so why are they getting mad about me getting to school late. ive tried having sit down talks about me needing to see a sleep doctor or someone to help with my panic attacks or ptsd attacks but they say nothings wrong and that mental health problems are not real and are just excuses. please help me find ways to help them trust me more i really need all the help i can get. please, and thank you

Really? Well I just slapped my narcissistic ass dad so hard in the face that he just fell on the ground. (He is dead) I'm not getting any pulses from him so yeah I am going to run away from home now and go to mexico (I'm 15 btw)

I have a strict mother. A the age of 17 youd think I would have some source of freedom but thats completely wrong. My mother never has let me hang out with my friends outside of school, I have never had any device, Ive never been in any relationships. My social life is completely messed up. I have social anxiety so it doesnt help that she keeps me away from people my age. People love to say that their parents are strict. But they dont even know the half of what it feels like to have a parent that consistently makes you feel like you have no control, not even over yourself. Now this doesnt mean that your parents are purposely treating you this way. There intentions may be pure. Now one benefit that I see I have is that a lot of people who have strict parents say that their parents make them have all As. To my surprise my mom excepts Cs. One thing about have strict parents is that if they dont realize how they treating you and how it is affecting you it can make things ten times worse. But then people say ok why not sit down and have that talk. Talk about how you feel. Most strict parents and parents period dont like for their kids to tell them what to do, how to do something, or have any sense of control. Trying to take control of them ( as they see it) isnt the best route to go. So sadly it seems as if the only thing you can do is wait until you move out. Parents like this seem to have a hard time letting there children go. One thing that I think about a lot is when a baby bird leaves the nest and learns to fly the mother allows it to do so. Im pretty sure the mother bird doesnt want to see her baby leave but she wants the bird to be happy and free. Parents are suppose to be like this. Allow their kids to leave there nest and experience life. I mean we do only get to do this once. To anyone who has strict parents or a strict parent eventually it will get better. You will have to leave that nest and experience what it is you need to experience. And if your parent