Are these signs of a toxic person?

Thread Topic: Are these signs of a toxic person?

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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    Like srsly I’ve protected them in almost everything and they’re so freaking ungrateful.



    1) She NEVER compliments anyone. And if she’s forced to, she’lls say things like “Aw that’s cute” or “That’s nice but you could’ve done this.” Always a backhand or extremely vague compliment.

    2) I get vibes from her that she’s looking at all my social media posts, but disliking them because she hates me.

    3) She always makes me feel like I’m wrong/the bad-guy. I’ll tell her something- she’ll correct me. I’ll ask for criticism, she’ll give unhelpful and hurtful criticism as well as making rude remarks about unrelated things.

    4) She lies to defend herself against me. I’ll confront her and she will straight up LIE about everything I’ve said.

    5) She sends people after me and acts like they were simply stepping in because “they’re good friends with her.”

    6) She’ll act like a know-it-all and constantly be telling me I’m doing everything wrong.

    7) She’ll compliment herself and tell everyone she’s perfect

    8) She acts like the good-guy every time someone asks what’s going on between her and I.

    7) She never apologizes even when she’s wrong, like it’s impossible for her to not be correct

    8) I compliment her so much, and when she’s down I’ll say something kind to boost her spirits. She’ll say thanks but never EVER do the same to me, she’ll ignore my feelings.

    9) She manipulates me.

    10) This girl makes you prove yourself to her, even if you don’t think it’s worth your time you still try and impress her (even though she’s literally even on the social scale with you) to try and get her to think better of you.
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    And 11


    11) She’s never happy for anything I accomplish. I’ll be super proud and she’ll just avoid me until it blows over
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    Emowoman Novice
    Those are signs of a toxic person.
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    GuardianOfDark Advanced
    those all sound very toxic but #2 gives me a feeling like you might have a deeper bias and should re-evaluate everything to make sure you're seeing it clearly. im not accusing you of seeing things wrong, im just saying im getting a feeling you should take a second look to make sure
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    pineapple AR Novice
    why do you protect them? do you want to be friends with them?
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    Not really wanting to be friends, but more of I just want them to stop pressuring me
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    Drekk- ikkk, I’ll try and think it through again
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    pineapple AR Novice
    oh I get that
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    She just sounds like a Karen, lol.
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    That sounds pretty toxic to me :/
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    Emowoman Novice
    Who's Karen? A friend at school wants to be a Karen.
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    Gacha_Summer Novice
    That’s definitely toxic. I had someone who acted like that three times.
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    dragonsfire Senior
    Toxic through and through
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    Shattered Glass Advanced
    Sorry for the bump, but all of these signs are exactly what a toxic person is like. Cutting her out of your life will be the best decision you can make. Don't let her try to use you and your kindness.

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