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Yes?
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I really really like phil. however phil seems to be hung up on his ex girlfriend. and i know it wont work out between us because he lives farther away from me. But I dont know how to tell phil how I feel because he might not talk to me again. And I dont know what to do. I dont think he'll ever get over his ex and that he's just leading me on and using me.
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Is this about X?Help him get over his ex, and tell him to stop leading you on. Say you're not a puppet, and you're nobody's second choice. Say that it's either you, or her. -
ithinkiknowphill
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No I dont talk to him anymore. the day we broke up was the last day he was on here. Everyone was so happy about that.
I cant make him chose cuz i know who he will pick. He'll pick her because I know he still wants her. And i dont know...It just kinda hurts. because I just feel like im being used. You know what I mean. Like he was flirting with me yesterday and I knew he wasnt over her yet. So i said I was gonna behave and not do anything back. But he told me he didnt want me to behave. Im getting mixed signals from him and I dont know what to do -
*hugs* You do danny. So does megan...
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I think you should be straightforward with him, be frank and tell him exactly how you feel, in my opinion the honest approach is always the best. Then you can get it all out, and he can have a better idea of how you feel than he would if you just sugarcoat it, though the fact that he might stop talking to you is bad so maybe frank isn't exactly the best way...
Maybe start it off by saying, "Are you really over your ex? Be honest".
Though if he really is using you(so think of the situation more and really look into it so you can determine this) then frank is always best. -
*hugs*
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*hugs*
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yeah but i just dont know how to say it though.
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Believe it, or not, I was in the same situation you are in. There was this guy like I like and he would always flirt with me at lunch, put my feet on his lap, and text me all the time. And then, he turned around and got a girlfriend, and I was hurt. He still continued this flirting, so I had to cut I off, and stop talking to him.
Don't let it go to far because it'll only get harder to break it off, and it'll hurt. He can't have you both, and that's what he's trying to do, so you need to confront him about it. -
yeah im just afraid that he'll pick her over me. and then he wont talk to me anymore. I mean he's become a really big part of my life and idk if i can handle it if he just goes away...I wanna ask him and tell him how I feel...but im scared...
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Hmm...I wish this was one of those sappy movies so I can be all, "Follow your heart" with pretty music in the background but I can't so *hugs*
"Listen with your heart
You will understand
Let it break upon you like a wave upon the sand" -
is that from Pocahontas? *hugs*
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If he picks her then it's his loss. You can't let it continue because he'll get it up in his head that he can play you both, and he'll think that he's smart. You have to do this. Is it gonna hurt? Yes, so just have ice cream and a beloved pet nearby. Will you get over it? Yes you will. And if he gets rejected by the other girl, then it makes you feel a little bit better, but you can't take him back.
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