AM I IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE THAT EXPERIENCE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE HOME, BUT VERY FEW OF THEM KNOW IT SO THEY DON'T REPORT IT. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS, AFTER ALL, NOT JUST PHYSICAL. WHAT IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? THE NATIONAL COALITION AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DEFINES IT AS A PATTREN OF BEHAVIOR USED TO ESTABLISH POWER AND CONTROL OVER ANOTHER PERSON THROUGH FEAR AND INTIMIDATION, OFTEN INCLUDING THE THREAT OR USE OF VIOLENCE, WHEN ONE PERSON BELIEVES THEY ARE ENTITLED TO CONTROL ANOTHER.

ARE YOU IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? DO YOU FEEL SAFE OR ARE YOU IN FEAR OF YOUR PARTNER? UNTIL NOW YOU COULD ONLY WONDER. THANKS TO THIS GREAT QUIZ, IN JUST A FEW MINUTES YOU WILL FIND OUT!

Created by: PARISH PARKER

  1. What is your age?
  2. What is your gender?
  1. My partner teases me in hurtful ways and/or calls me names such as "STUDIP" or "B----" in private and in public
  2. My partner acts jealous of my friends, family, or co-workers
  3. My partner gets angry about clothes I wear or how I style my hair
  4. My partner blames me for his/her problems or bad mood
  5. My partner gets angry easily, leaving me walking on eggshells
  6. My partner uses drugs and/or alcohol and insist that I do them with him/her
  7. My partner throws or destroys things when he/she are angry
  8. My partner hits walls, drives dangerously and/or does other things to scare me
  9. My partner checks up on me by calling a lot, doing a driving by, and/or getting someone else to do it for him (i.e. STALKING)
  10. I feel isolated and alone and have no one I can really talk to
  11. My partner accuses me of being interested in someone else
  12. My partner reads my mail, email, and goes thru my personal items (i.e. purse, cell phone, check book)
  13. My partner keeps money from me, keeps me in debt, makes me ask/beg and/or has "money secrets or problems"
  14. My partner has threatened to hurt/Kill me and/or commit suicide if I leave him/her
  15. My partner has struck me with hands or feet (i.e. slapped, punched, kicked)leaving visible injuries (i.e. bruises, welts, cuts, broken bones)
  16. My partner has struck me with an object and/or threatened me with a weapon (i.e. gun, knife, bat, brick)
  17. My injuries have been serious enough to seek treatment; (i.e. doctor, hospital, clinic, paramedic) even if I didn't seek medical help
  18. My partner forces me to have sex when I don't want to and/or have sex in ways I don't want to
  19. My partner has threatened to hurt my children, my family, my friends and/or my pets
  20. My partner keeps me from getting a job and/or cause problems at my job to make me lose it
  21. I no longer see some of my family and/or friends because of my partner's actions/behavior
  22. I have thought about calling/actually called the police because of an incident of violence on more then one occasion
  23. I am afraid to call the police because of threats from my partner
  24. My partner acts one way in front of others, and another way when we are alone (i.e. DR. JEKELL/MR. HYDE)

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