How much do you hurt your lover?

Relationships vary from one to the next but in a fairly straightforward relationship there are certain things that might hurt your partner whether you know it or not. In this quiz I have related some things that have actually happened to me but that I have worded to be interpreted in various ways to suit your own personal experiences. You may have done some of these things through bizarre circumstance but in general you should answer how it really applies to your conscious decisions.

When taking this quiz bear in mind that the circumstances described don't necessarily have to be exact, just similar. If a question seems totally alien to you in that you don't relate at all just say no. Saying no will neither help nor penalize you in any way. This quiz refers to friends a lot and by that it is assumed that they are of the opposite sex or of your preference. It also assumes that you have one lover in mind throughout the entire quiz, not "I did that to this one chick one time or I pulled that on my second boyfriend but this one was with that person."

Created by: edminister
  1. Would you ever stand up your lover by spending the night at a friend's house knowing the friend was interested in you romantically?
  2. Would you ever flirt with someone else in front of your lover to spite them?
  3. Would you go out clubbing/partying/etc. and hit on people you don't even like knowing it would get back to your lover?
  4. Would you ever plan an evening at home with a lover and then bail without telling them to go partying?
  5. Would you go out on a date with a friend you knew was interested in you and leave your lover at home?
  6. Would you mention how an ex was the best at something sexual after performing the same act with your lover?
  7. Would you look up your exes online in front of your lover and compare how you and your ex have made out respectively?
  8. If your lover were injured in an accident and bedridden or house-ridden would you go out partying and leave them home alone?
  9. Would you go out drinking with your coworkers after work and not contact your lover to tell them where you were?
  10. If you and your lover went out together and your partner wanted to leave but you didn't would you avoid them to stay out later?
  11. Would you concede an argument with a lover just to have sex and then start back in on the argument once you got what you wanted from them?
  12. Would you compare a friend of yours that was a stranger to your lover to a friend you shared mutually to justify spending lots of time with them?
  13. Would you insist on sex with your lover when they aren't in the mood and then turn around and deny them if the situation were reversed?
  14. Would you go where you knew you would run into your partner with someone they knew you had a crush on while in an argument?
  15. Would you lie to your partner about something they knew you did and then blame the lie on drugs and/or alcohol?
  16. Would you ignore your lover to chat with your ex online in front of them?
  17. Would you accuse your lover of being hung up on their ex because their name came up in a conversation once?
  18. Would you trust anyone who said yes to every previous question in this quiz in regards to their relationship with you?

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