Hi, so my friend,
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Thread Topic: Hi, so my friend,
my friend one of my bffs is really upset and ive gone through alot and all but not what happened to her and im uusally good at giving her advice but i dont know what to tell her
Well, what happened?
Alana SeniorWell, I hate to say this, but with the information you've provided we can't exactly help you. In order for us to give you a hand we need to know specifics. We need to know what you've told her and what's happened to her so we can give you accurate advice.
Thank you, Alana, that exactly what I meant.
@luv, it's not to be mean, but we need more detail so we can help you.
okay sorry, i just wanted to see if anyone would respond. this is the situation:
she rly likes this guy, alot, she like him for about 7yrs. hes 1 grade older than us. theyre neighbors. he found out she likes him over the summer. he now has a girlfriend (in his grade) tht my friend was kinda friends with. my friend didnt tell his gf she likes him.
last week she was waiting to get picked up from school. so she was sitting there talking to one of her friends but then her friend left and so she started listening to her ipod. then her ipod died so she was just sitting there looking around. her crush and his gf were there. and they were kissing and hugging and making 'lovey dovey' faces at eachother. so obviously since she likes him she was upset and my friend thinks the girl found out she likes her bf cuz everytime the gf looked over at my friend she would smile, but not a 'oh he whats up' smile a 'haha this is so torture for you' smile. and my friend was holding back tears becuz she was so upset.
so when she got home she texted me and told me what happened so i called her to see if she was okay and i ssaid tht i was sorry and how hard tht must of been, but then she had to eat dinner so we hung up then when she finished we were texting again.
and she asked me if i tought she should try liking someone else. and for her to say that she must of been rly upset becuz she REALLY likes him and has liked him since were in 2nd grade.
so i told her:
yes and no. yes meaning she should look around and if she finds someone and they set off sparks go for them and no becuz she cant just not like him anymore. she liked him for 7yrs and she cant just stop. (i told her the explainations of the yes and no, also i wrote more than tht for the explainations but im just summing it up)
and she told me that i had a good answer bt tht she had to go cuz her mom needed her to do something.
and at school when we eat lunch, she smiles and laughs but its not genuine. like i can tell shes sorta faking it. and i just dont know what to say or do because i know this is hard for her but i dont know how to comfort her.
no one what i can do? :(
Carri04 Hot ShotThere's nothing much to say other than you did pretty much everything. However you did get something wrong, depending on how you look at it.
Sometimes it's better to give up on a love while you can, or else you'll break to the point of no return.
Tell her to stop being a whiney b---- and to expect people to go out with someone when they havent asked. Seriously, if you like him put a metaphoric ring on it.
@carri: thnx and i see what you mean, she is starting to move on.
@boyo it isn't always that easy. Have you ever been in this kind of situation? You sure don't sound like it.
PurPl3Sik3 NoviceYea i think its best if she trys to move on but what you could do is be with her stay close to her and also try and make her get it all out even if she tears up cause its better for her to let it out then keep it all in .. and just hang out with her as much as u can so she could get her mind of of him and slowly get over him
Yes. Ive been in worse situations too, like my father dying. Advice isnt what you need, its best to just find out yourself.
Maybe for you, some people want advice before they go, is that so bad?
My point is that she shouldnt cry over nothing.
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