I need some help..

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    Mikelover111 Advanced
    I posted in the relationship/dating forum, but I figured it might have to do with some mental health stuff too..

    Hey guys. So, I've had this issue for quite some time. The issue being.. ;;

    Whenever my boyfriend (of almost a year) hangs out with some of his female friends, I get super edgy. It's not every female friend, but there are a select few. There are two girls who just give me the heeby jeebies. I don't know why or how, they just do. One of the girls is as cute as a button and is really sweet, I just don't have a good feeling about her.
    I trust my boyfriend with all of my heart. I just don't trust others.
    I don't know why this is. Please help me come to the bottom of this so I can know why I am feeling this way..

    THANK YOU!
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    barberbob2 Senior
    I'm the same way. My girlfriend of over a year was asked to her prom by a guy who had admitted before that he liked her, and I flipped way more s--- than I should have.

    It's just insecurity and fear. The feelings won't go away and there's no logical reason for them, but all we can do is learn to live with them.
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    Mikelover111 Advanced
    Why would the guy ask her to prom if you were with her? That's just illogical.

    Sometimes it comes in the way of our relationship though. He used to accuse me of not trusting him. And I DO trust him.
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    barberbob2 Senior
    he didn't want to go alone and he invited her as a friend.

    and we've had falling outs before over similar issues.
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    Mikelover111 Advanced
    -.- "Friend". That makes me mad.

    I've learned to control it a bit more, but it still manages to hurt me.
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    6 6 sick Hot Shot
    ^ like James said.I used to get Jealous way too easily,like I'd lose my s--- over the slighest of things.I just sorta learned to cool it down,really.I still have those feelings but I remember its me he's going home to.

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