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I had a school spirit day on Friday, where I actually got my school spirit on and stuff. So, I get like random bursts of confidence from time to time, and I'll just go through my SnapChat quickadd and add everyone on there. It was towards the end of the day, and a guy added me. I was with my friends, just talking and chilling out. I think it was like 3+ mutual friends, so I accepted it.
I always send half-face snaps to people, unless I know them really well, and that day, I had eyeblack on. It was to be spirited and everything, and he snapped me back and asked why I had it on. I told him that it was my school's spirit day, and he asked which school I went to. I told him mine, and he told me his. To be friendly, I asked whether he'd been at the most recent social event at my school. To which he replied and told me that he hadn't. I asked why and he said that it was because he didn't see a good reason to go.
I was like, "No, literally just go with your friends and you'll have smf."
Then he asked whether or not you were supposed to bring dates to these kind of things. I told him that no one ever really did, and then he said something along these lines. (Btw, this is all over snap)
"I feel like people go to find dates. Like is that what you're trying to do."
I was pissed off, because like. Did some guy just tell me that I was desperate for someone to date? Like, no.
He said that he wanted to find a date to the next one. So he asked for my opinion on what's the best way to ask someone. I told him that he should just add random people on snap, and ask them out. Then I said,
"Add random people on snap, that's what I do."
I didn't mean that I was looking for dates on Snap, I just meant that I added a lot of random people.
He said, "Okay, wanna hear my rizz."
I had to search that up because I've never heard anyone said "rizz" before. I told him "sure."
He goes, "So if I add random people on snap. And you add random people on snap. Then we should date."
Weirdest logic imo. I literally replied, this exact thing.
As a joke. A literal joke. So I'm all like, "Wow this guy is so funny like what a good joke."
He goes, "So is that a W?"
Still thinking it's a joke, I said, "Yeah for sure."
Then he asked when our date was. I think it was kind of still a joke, to both of us atp. I said, just to be sure he wasn't being for real, "Okay but idek what u look like."
He sent a face pic, and then I sent him one. He said that we should actually go out together, and I told him to go and date one of my friends. So I gave him her @, and he added her. She asked why some guy had added her, to which I told her to add him back. She's snapped him a few times, but he doesn't seem to be interested.
At that point, I really had thought that he'd just stop asking me and go out with my friend. I think the scariest part about this, is that fact that I've never been asked out. And I know it sounds stupid, but I really don't show a lot of interest in a dating life, so people have taken the hint and just moved on.
I'm also so used to people just having little crushes on me. Thinking I'm pretty, saying they like me, and then moving on within a day. That's always my ideal situation. I also HATE one on one time with people. It's not that I wouldn't ever wanna date anyone, but I don't want to feel stressed out about this stuff. People have always had crushes on my friends, but I've never really had to go through that. And honestly, thank God. Like, I can't hold eye-contact with anyone for more than two seconds.
I'm ridiculous, like completely. I also don't want to have to have "that talk" with my parents. Both of my older siblings have never dated, so why should I? Why do I need to date someone when they've gone so long without having even had a crush. I don't want my parents to think any lesser than me, and I'm really scared that maybe they will when I decide that I wanna date someone that I like.
Back to the snapping stuff. Yesterday, a couple of times, different variations of this scenario had come up:
Him: "So when we going out"
Me: "lemme think"
Him: "L rizz"
Me: "nah just give me time"
I don't want to reject this guy, because I don't think he's a bad person at all. I don't even wanna friendzone him, but I just wanna get to know him better before I just say yes to the date and stuff.
So far, I think he's nice. I'm trying to get advice, but ultimately I still don't have a clue on what to do.
I think the most ideal thing would just be going on a double-date. They always end up really fun anyways, and it's not awkward. Only problem is that I'm kind of in a trio, and I don't want anyone to feel left out, so we're gonna have to make it a triple-date. Again, I'm fine with it. But that also means that they have to find someone to go out with, which isn't gonna be that easy.
Anyways, that's all. I still don't know what to do, and I think I need to work on my history paper now.
OH s--- WHAT.
THIS RANT CANNOT BE ON MY 200TH PAGE. STOP. STOP.
History essay thing is done
I hate myself sm rn
Can I just cry
Eight NewbieCan i cry with you
i feel like I always mess up
idk what to do
wait hold on its masons bday tmrw
ok nvm im happy now 🤠
ok sad again
How come all good things end.
if i just got all dumb and ignorant, do u think life would be easier
yeah thats really f---ed up
like ik im not the best person ever but i at least deserve to be a little happy
like why are a--holes everywhere
fr makes me wanna off all of them
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