Help Me.
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Thread Topic: Help Me.
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I Don’t Wish To Reveal My Identity, But I’ll Just Say I’m Fifteen.
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You need to tell your parents. Talk to them about it and see what options you guys have. Always remember that none of this was EVER your fault.
If you ever need support or if you ever need to talk, just drop by and say so, okay? You are so strong and perseverant. Stay safe. -
I Don’t Know How To Do This.
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You have to, it’s seriously for your safety and your happiness.
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I Hate Myself For Hiding It, Especially For So Long.
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A lot of people do that, unfortunately. But you can't blame yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. I agree with everyone else.
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You probably feel ashamed and not willing to share this but PLEASE, tell your parents about it. Hiding it for any longer won't make things better.
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i don’t know what i’m doing. i keep thinking, i keep thinking about the disappointed looks on their faces, the shame. i feel so stupid and afraid,
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You are not stupid. Do your parents and the police know?
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no, they don’t.
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i was never brave enough to tell anyone. i tried and tried so hard, but i feel so insignificant that is not even going to bother them. nothings going to happen, i’m just going to have to deal with this for the rest of my life and remained traumatized and think about it every night before i sleep and cry over and over again.
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You are NOT insignificant and neither are your thoughts, beliefs, and dreams. Let your parents know.
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what am i supposed to say
my boyfriend molested me everyday i saw him for the entirety of a year and i never told you, but i’m telling you now
and i’m expecting something to be done
how am i supposed to prove that it ever happened -
It is not easy to talk about traumatic events, a majority of survivors stay silent for years. I myself stayed silent for several, several years. It does not make your pain any less valid, nor does it make you lesser than anybody else.
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If you do not feel comfortable going into detail to your guardians, you do not have to.
"I am struggling with something major in my life right now. I believe I was sexually assaulted and I need your help and support overcoming this."
I am unsure if something like that would help.
Practice writing what you want to say until you feel comfortable. Tell them you need to have a discussion with them, let them know it is important.
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