Help Me.

Thread Topic: Help Me.

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    F26 Newbie
    I Don’t Wish To Reveal My Identity, But I’ll Just Say I’m Fifteen.
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    You need to tell your parents. Talk to them about it and see what options you guys have. Always remember that none of this was EVER your fault.

    If you ever need support or if you ever need to talk, just drop by and say so, okay? You are so strong and perseverant. Stay safe.
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    F26 Newbie
    I Don’t Know How To Do This.
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    You have to, it’s seriously for your safety and your happiness.
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    F26 Newbie
    I Hate Myself For Hiding It, Especially For So Long.
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    NeonSpectere Experienced
    A lot of people do that, unfortunately. But you can't blame yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. I agree with everyone else.
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    You probably feel ashamed and not willing to share this but PLEASE, tell your parents about it. Hiding it for any longer won't make things better.
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    Jayfeather310 Senior
    i don’t know what i’m doing. i keep thinking, i keep thinking about the disappointed looks on their faces, the shame. i feel so stupid and afraid,
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    You are not stupid. Do your parents and the police know?
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    Jayfeather310 Senior
    no, they don’t.
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    Jayfeather310 Senior
    i was never brave enough to tell anyone. i tried and tried so hard, but i feel so insignificant that is not even going to bother them. nothings going to happen, i’m just going to have to deal with this for the rest of my life and remained traumatized and think about it every night before i sleep and cry over and over again.
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    You are NOT insignificant and neither are your thoughts, beliefs, and dreams. Let your parents know.
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    Jayfeather310 Senior
    what am i supposed to say
    my boyfriend molested me everyday i saw him for the entirety of a year and i never told you, but i’m telling you now
    and i’m expecting something to be done

    how am i supposed to prove that it ever happened
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    2016 Advanced
    It is not easy to talk about traumatic events, a majority of survivors stay silent for years. I myself stayed silent for several, several years. It does not make your pain any less valid, nor does it make you lesser than anybody else.
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    2016 Advanced
    If you do not feel comfortable going into detail to your guardians, you do not have to.

    "I am struggling with something major in my life right now. I believe I was sexually assaulted and I need your help and support overcoming this."

    I am unsure if something like that would help.
    Practice writing what you want to say until you feel comfortable. Tell them you need to have a discussion with them, let them know it is important.

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