Since I need a quick answer to this question
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Thread Topic: Since I need a quick answer to this question
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Is it a s---ty thing to break up with someone over text?
And it won't be a " I'm breaking up with you" but an actual long drawn out reason why.
I'd say I'd call her, but I can't because someone will overhear and I can't meet up with her because I just got home and my family wants to spend time with me.
It would be nice if someone would answer their opinion so I'll know if I look like a b---- or not. -
Hm. I guess, honestly, it depends on the situation. If you have a very good reason, and you can't find another way to do it, then I'd say it's not b----y. But, you also have to ask yourself how you'd feel if the situation was revearsed. If you have to do it today, then I'd say do it. But If you can wait, I'd say do it in person.
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Okay thank you
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Does this sound okay?
Okay, this is a really b----y move and I know that I should tell you this in person but I've been thinking lately, and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet. I know it was a stupid thing when you said we should get together that I agreed, because my doctor suggested that I shouldn't get in any relationships until I get better with a certain thing. I also think that maybe this will be good for you too, that way you'll have someone who can actually spend some real time with you instead if just texting constantly because I feel like a s---ty girlfriend, trying to sort out my problems instead of spending time with you like I should. Maybe after I get better we could try again, but I don't think it's going to work out for me right now. And I'm so sorry for this b----y move. I know I should tell you in person, or at least call, but I don't want my parents over hearing me. And I also wanted to get this sorted out as soon as possible because I've been meaning to tell you for weeks now and I feel s---ty waiting until now. Please don't take this out on yourself because that's not my intention to make you feel like s--- or that it's your fault. I hope that you don't shut me out either, because maybe I could stay a s---ty friend until I get better. I'm sorry. -
Nevermind I can't wait I'm going to send it before I burst into tears
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Don't cry though.
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Why not? I feel like a total b----.
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Crying just makes you feel worse. Like when I posted the thread called "Our adoption form was denied" I cried for at least a good half hour. Try not to feel the dread. You cry, you feel even worse.
Hope you feel better! -Britney Valentine -
Actually I'm really glad I didn't cry now
Everything turned out better than expected -
Did she understand?
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Yeah she understood and everything is fine.
That's completely fine River. ^^ I don't think I'm ready either, seeing as how I have to deal with keeping everything quiet. Plus I have to deal with getting my personal s--- sorted out before it ends me. Anyway thank you for telling me, I will never shut you out, okay. I care too much about you to do something like that, it would hurt me if I did and it would probably hurt you too and I don't want that. I don't want to see you hurt just because I did something stupid and shut you out of my life. Dork, you're too close to my heart, if anything I care too much about you and worry way more than I should. It's not a s---ty move, okay, I understand. I hope you get better soon so we can get back to soaping and stuff like that. ^^ :3
That's what she sent and oh my god I feel way better now -
Wait, are you a girl or a boy?(sorry for asking)
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Sorry, dear, I was busy ;-;
I'm glad things worked out alright though.
Hopefully things will get better for you from here on out ^-^ -
I'm a girl ^~^ and it's fine
Also sorry my step dad and I are working with fake swords (don't ask)
Sorry for a bit of the teenage drama but thank you guys so much for helping ^~^
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