Never afford someone the ability that, within a day, they can completely ruin your entire life plan. Because, someday, they will. Even if they don't want to, life will find a way to force them to, just to spite you. Never rely on someone, assign the meaning in your life to them, because life will take them from you, and you'll find yourself drowning in the waters of this world's uncaring, meaningless existence. You have to give it meaning, and a solid, unchanging meaning at that, otherwise you'll end up like me. Lost. Drowning. Slowly dying. Maybe even just as cold and uncaring as the world that's drowning you.
I remember this old minecraft fan movie (it was insanely long, from what I remember) that basically brought me to tears, not an easy feat considering almost nothing I've watched has done that in a decade. It had this huge and really deep plot, or at least I remember it that way (maybe it's one of those r/iam14andthisisdeep type of things) and I'll probably never get to see it again because I don't remember enough to go find it and I couldn't look in my watch history because watch history isn't saved for ANYWHERE near that long. Kinda sad about it honestly, would love to see what I think of it these days.