How do you get a guy to ask you out?
Thread Topic: How do you get a guy to ask you out?
So basically about five months ago my friend told me that he liked me.
And I just recently learned that it had actually been for almost the entire school year last year.
Anyway, a couple weeks ago I told him that I like him back.
My friend that told me that he had liked me the whole school year told me that he's going to be way too shy to ask me out and so if I want anything to happen I have to ask him.
Except my parents are like, "I know it's the 21st century, but it's still the guy's job to ask the girl."
And I don't really want to go against them.
So basically I have to get him to ask me out.
Or maybe I can get my friend to peer pressure him I don't know.
Like, I know I should be patient, he might be gathering up his courage or something or maybe he doesn't think he's ready for a relationship or something.
snowflake star61 Novice-
Not sure anyone wants my contribution so i'll shut up.
i don’t wanna sound rude towards your parents but what they told you was absolute s--- and you can ask him out if you want to! if he’s too shy then honestly, you’re probably gonna have to ask him out because it might be a long time before he gains the courage to actually ask you, depending on who he is. ^^
@snowflake, I'll hear what you have to say
@Cinna, I kind of want to, but I also value my relationship with my parents, so I'm not going to lie to them, and don't want to go, 'Hey, I asked him out, deal with it.'
(snowflake please don’t say anything sexist like before-)
understandable. you can maybe ask a friend to maybe hint at it or something, but i don’t really know. i’ve only been in this kind of situation from his point of view, so it can really just depend. sometimes a friend can do a lot to influence him
So like I said, get my friend to peer pressure him lol
Spice ExperiencedLOL DO IT
Have your friend be like "So you know Tat still likes you, right? Just in case you didn't know" *nudge nudge* *winky face*
I’d tell him.
That’s what I did with my current boyfriend. I told him how I felt and he was the one to ask. So technically you’re not asking him out, but confirming your feelings to get to that.
You mean telling him I like him? I already did that.
Or do you mean, like, telling him I'm interested in a relationship?
Oh, you did? What did he say?
And then he just changed the subject
He's also converted to having only five minute conversations.
At the longest.
I’d give him time to settle down. Hopefully he brings it back up.
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