i think i need some help :')
Thread Topic: i think i need some help :')
i'll put the rest in the next post,
nothing drastic, just maybe some advice
Cinna_ Newbiei'll be here to help the best i can :>
Eclipsestar228 ExperiencedLEMME HALP CHILD
so, i uh, for a while i've been conflicted on the fact that i like this guy, and uh, now i think i like another guy as well.
one of the guys, i've known for like, my entire life. we're practically siblings. we're really close and i really enjoy being around him. then, i may or may not have liked him, but i found out he liked some other girl. which i was fine with. though i kind of did cry like, when i heard about his sister talking about it. they were sort of together for a while, then the girl didn't like him anymore so that was over. and like, the past few days, i feel like we've gotten closer. and i feel like i like him, but idek.
then there's another guy. we met a few years ago and i guess we've just mutually had crushes on each other. we've held hands, hugged, that stuff (we didn't date tho, considering i can't :')) and i mean, i really think that he's a sweet guy and i think i like them. but, he ended up liking another girl along with me. and then quarantine happened and we didn't see or talk to each other much, so the feelings kind of faded. but then he said he didn't like the girl, but he wasn't sure about how he felt about me.
and so i'm over here, confused as hell and just, having an emotional breakdown :')
if anyone may or may not have any advice for this, please post any.
i need help T^T
i'm so confused.
it's hard to explain, but to put it simply,
i think i may like two guys and idk if they like me back but i don't even know if i like them because i've never liked anyone like this, how should i know? i mean, it feels like i do. and like, one of the guys i feel like we've gotten closer, considering we hang out all the time, but it's not like we've hugged and held hands. then again, with the other guy, we have hugged each other and we have held hands and it just feels really nice when he does hug me and i just-
jesus, i need help :')
anyone got advice for a poor soul??
Disclaimer that I've never dated and probably can't give good advice on this BUT
If you're trying to choose only one, then I'd advise you to think. If they both liked different girls, which one would hurt the most? Try flipping a coin with one boy for one side. Which side would you want it to land on?
Ah yes, my terrible advising is now complete. I'll go fling myself into the sun now
xD ples don't fling yoself into da sun
I mean, yeah, they have, but in my opinion, i don't think either of them would hurt me, at least not intentionally. it makes sense tho. but, what if i choose one guy but he doesn't like me? or what if neither of them like me at all? jesus, i'm overthinking :')
Just let the wind blow and see what it carries u^u
ty for the advice tho :D
No prob 🕶
i don't like emotions :')
i feel like it's just worse now-
i dream about them- like, actually-
i- i'm probably not okay :')
i honestly don't know- i've only ever liked one irl guy at a time. maybe just give it time and study your emotions, try to figure out which one you have stronger feelings for. then maybe tell that one you like him? yeah, that was terrible advice- i'm usually better than dis. imma just be like Spoce and just- *flings self into sun*
xD nU dOn'T dO tHaT
yeah, that makes sense. i'll try that. ty for zee advice u^u
xD too late *has already flung self into sun*
And np uwu
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