Okay, so I need some advice

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Thread Topic: Okay, so I need some advice

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    ello Advanced
    I'm dating a boy from school for the first time, and don't know what to do. I don't want my family to find out, cause I'm scared of coming out to them. And, he's really lovey dovey. My sister, brother, and three of my cousins are all at my school, (it's mid and high but still). If I don't like the relationship, because most of the stuff he does, he dies for other people. Like today at lunch he kept hugging me and poking me, and I saw him look back and call some people over. All throughout the day, peoe were constantly asking if I'm dating him, and it makes me so upset that so many other people are in out business. He let's other people read our messages, and.its to the point I don't message him because I don't know who it is.

    Any help?
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    ello Advanced
    I don't even like him that much. He asked me out, and I said give me time to think. I couldn't think because my brother got me pissed to hell, and I just said f--- it. I haven't had the heart to tell him, and I don't know what to do
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    ello Advanced
    Oh s--- that's right
    This belongs here
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    breadboy69 Experienced
    If you don't actually like him, break up with him. It's not fair to him to let him think you feel the same way if you don't, and it will only end up worse

    If you do actually like him, just tell him how you feel
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    ello Advanced
    Ahhhhhhh
    I'm not good with confrontation though. I want to, but I don't feel like it would be fair to him if he thought I was just using him or something..
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    you are literally making everything worse by not telling him, grow up
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    ello Advanced
    Fine
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    Isabel Star Advanced
    o u c h this thread hurts
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    ello Advanced
    S a m e

    He wont accept it
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    Night_Owl Advanced
    What do you mean he won't accept it?

    If you tell him that you're breaking up with him, and he's like "no," then tell him "tough s---" and carry on with your business. You broke up with him and if he can't accept it, then that's too bad for him, but you don't have to go back to him. It sounds like he's trying to trap you into a relationship because he won't accept it and this can lead to an abusive relationship because he now knows that he can basically walk all over you. Not only that, but he clearly doesn't care about you being happy, so firmly tell him that you're breaking up with him and if he's still saying that he won't accept it, tell him that that's his own fault then and walk away from him and find yourself someone else because you did break up with him.
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    ello Advanced
    I did. Thanks

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