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So I have a massive crush on this guy and he calls me all these names like "cute" and "babe" but we aren't together and he's actually not into me......
And he agreed to be my boyfriend for a day to see if he could develop feelings for me but I feel like that just won't happen...
What do I do,
move on? if he's calling you those names he's also just playing games with you so literally just drop him from your life
.... Rain... even though I'm not in love with him, I can't just do that. He's a friend of mine. And as much as I hate to say it, i kinda need a friend I would rather make myself miserable by talking to him than not have him in my life at all....
Puppet master12 Hot ShotThat’s an extremely toxic relationship. You’re not better off having a friend like that, honestly you’ll put yourself through a cycle of pain.
I’ve had a bunch of people like that.
Maybe look for clubs or hang out days or even conventions, that have something to do with one of your interests,that’s a somewhat simple way to meet up with like minded people.
There’s some other ways to do it, but I’m not to sure what you area has.
If he is playing with your feelings then is an awfully toxic relationship, he doesn’t care about you. On what basis do you actually have feelings for him?
therealminime SeniorFrom experience with girls playing with my emotions, I can certainly say that leading people on with no intention to date them is seriously f---ed up. Which is why I'm not really friends with her anymore. I hate the thought of you having to go this, so as much as it sucks, everyone else is right
if you're not willing to cut him off, then don't come here asking for help. I think you know that and you just need the extra push to grow up and cut him off. sorry if you were looking for alternatives; you won't get any. and if you really want to keep being friends with him? fine. but don't whine about it, because no one will feel sorry for you.
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