How do you get rid of someone that you fell in love with?
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Thread Topic: How do you get rid of someone that you fell in love with?
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...... So, while I was going to a different school in Tennesse, I met this boy. He was a lot like me, except his mom is dead. Anyway, he had the same problems I did. We would hang out and forget our problems. I dated him three days, but he broke up with me because we will never see each other again, and he doesn't want to be hurt twice as bad....all I know of his contacts that he has Skype....I need to let him go, but I don't know how to.
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Me either.
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Same problem.
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like hthis
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just takes time :/
or someone else to distract you -
Even if it's extremely hard, block his contact on any social media/contact you have with him. Give him time and space alone, away from you. Focus on your friends and family, keep yourself busy. You'll often find yourself thinking back to them if you give yourself any spare time to just sit and let your mind wander.
After giving him time, you can unblock him if you feel it's necessary. Let him make the first move to talk to you, though. If he still wants you in his life, he'll feel much better about it establishing contact again. If he doesn't message you, then it's likely he's over you as a person and you'll have to completely move on.
It's hard, trust me. I've fallen deeply in love with two people so far, but I've had to leave them behind. One, I had to let go because I knew we were better apart. Not to mention, they strongly dislike me now anyway, so it was a bit easier. The other let me go because he believed he couldn't "do" what we were doing. At first, we agreed to be friends, but that completely crashed in less than a day. I think about both of them a lot. However, I've given up trying to contact them. I put more time into my friends, hobbies, etc. and I'm doing okay. You might even consider talking about it to someone. I've found that admitting you love someone out loud, even if you feel that it's wrong, can help bring ease to your mind. Talking about them sometimes helps too. What they were, what you remember, happy moments... It's okay to stay in the past, as long as you accept that they're gone. -
^that was helpful. Although this ain't my thread, thanks Jill. :)
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