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I am currently 17 years old, i still have nightmares from one night when i was 2 or 3, I dont know how but i remember it. My parents beat me and yelled at me for a while and threw me out to the balcony at midnight. I cried and cried.( I think) I stayed there for more than a day. And thats all I remember. But growing up it was awful. One day when i was 11 years old, i broke my leg. my mother pushed me around and made me fall and laughed like it was some joke. That night i decided to pray for the best. Nothing happened for 4 years. Until they decided to kick me out because i was apparently a "fat pig". They didn't let me even bring a anything. I walked for a while and sat near a grocery store and slept there for the night. The next day, my friend (who ive been best friends with since the 2nd grade) found me. She immediately gave me some water and asked if i was alright. She took me to her house and my parents were arrested for 20 years and now i live with my best friend, or should i say shes basically my sister now. Im glad i will never see those b------s again.
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My parents are absolutely evil and are obsessed with body shaming and laughing whenever I cry they dont even let me go out my mom has to get involved in everything my life is honestly messed up my father blames me for lied my siblings tell Im always left out and are always They are always hitting me mostly my mother then when I say something they are like what about the phone they dont even trust me enough that they go through everything if I dont avoid them or they see me I get screamed at
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Well Im 16 years old . I believe that my mom in some form cares about me but my father he either dislikes me or hates me .
My father constantly yells at me for no reason or tiny things . If I accidentally get a B on a test I get yelled at if I do anything wrong even the slightest mistakes. With my siblings its clear that my father favors the 9 year old . O yea I have 3 younger siblings. With the 9 year old shes spoiled by father. And she can do wrong in fathers eyes . And my parents are constantly upset at each other . My siblings make it so Im late to school everyday . My father every time I try to talk to him he tells me to shut up but then he complains that I barely ever talk ,maybe if hed stop yelling at me then Id talk more. My father constantly says he can do everything better then me for example Im using the microwave and he then says that he could use the stove at my age. And Im just basically making something that involves using the microwave like father just let me use the microwave . I get bullied by my younger siblings and the kids at school . My sibling call me things such as ugly or fat when Im not very. At school I get called fat and I get made fun of because of the way I talk and how my eyes look apparently . My older half sister died in a fire when I was five and I havent gotten over it . I have social anxiety no one knows about it . And I have panic attacks almost every day in the morning when I am getting ready for school . I also have insomnia and I barely get enough sleep if Im lucky I get up to 4 to 5 hours ,and I have a hard time going back to sleep sometimes I get up at 1am in the morning and just stare up at the ceiling .And the 7 year old leaves claw marks all over my arms until she draws blood from my arms . I got abused by my grandmother for years and shed chase me up and down a flight of stairs with a knife . My grandmother favors the 11 year old for some reason . I have a hard time talking in public due to my social anxiety . And
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I think I when out of words I guess so ignore the And
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Disliked by parents, I honestly feel like that's true most of the time sense I have major mood swings due to the way they treat my mental health sometimes I feel like they don't mean it but it still hurts a lot. I wish they would also let me have more freedom and not use my eating disorder against me but it's whatever,I'm able to move out it's just I need to save up the money still along with actually prepare myself...will I have something to do with them afterwards? Honestly depends how much we tolerate each other. Cool quiz anyways though.
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I am 16 years old. My mom used to abusive to me from age 5 to 10 by locking me in a bathroom for hours or locking me outside the house. I also remember one time when I had gotten a bad grade in maths and she threw and aerosol spray can at my face which had torn up my upper lip and her biting my arm because I had bitten an eraser out of frustration at age 9.She never let me spend time with my cousins and would always keep me by her side and would warn my cousins not to speak to me and avoid me. She hates fat people and since I am a bit more healthier than my friends, she tells me that she would stop talking to me if I don't lose weight. In grade 4, despite being told underweight, I wasn't allowed to eat dinners daily. Now, since I have dizzy spells if I don't eat 3/4 meals a day, she can't say anything. Now the physical abuse has turned into emotional abuse. Me being a slow learner at school, I have problems with keeping up with my studies at times and when ever I get a bad grade, her scoldings reach another level of loathing and scathing. She discriminates my love for literature and has torn apart 4 of my books in the past 5 years and yet buys me more on my birthday. She hates that I am an introvert and would rather spend my day buried in novels than talk to people. She fat shames me on a daily basis and tells me that I will always be alone. My father doesn't tell her anything and instead blames me for doing things to break the family apart. Dad has been telling me this for the past 8 years and I can't get it out of my head. I have severe depression and anxiety which seems to make me feel ten times worse. Whenever I am giving a test, I would hear their voices and scathing remarks and would panic as my mind was frozen with the consequences of doing bad in any test. My friends would invite me to birthday parties and I would decline, because my parents didn't allow me even though my neighbor who is from my class, gets to go to parties and school concerts. My friends h
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I am 15 years old. Since I was in around 1st grade (now I'm in 10th) my parents would hurt me for the smallest reasons. One of the big reasons is, they tell me to do like 5 things at the same time and I forget to do one thing because I don't have a very good memory. Because I didn't do that one thing they would hit me and their belt and whatever they had in their hand sometimes it was also a screwdriver and now i have a mark on my head from it. To this day they still do this and now that I have an 11-year-old brother and a 9-year-old sister they treat them like angels. They get whatever they want and make me do everything. Every day I feel like a slave from having to do everything, getting made fun of for how I look and getting yelled at when I ask why can't they do it. They start to tell me that because I am the oldest and I have to be a "good example to them". Sometimes I would yell at my mom because of how she treated me and then she will start to say that she never taught me that when I had a very traumatic childhood from my dad drinking nonstop and my mom hurting him and yelling at him while I am just standing in the corner crying. A couple of days ago I came home from marhcing band and I wanted to talk to my mom and she started to yell at me saying "I DONT GIVE A s--- ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY, YOU ARE SO ANNOYING AND I JUST HATE YOU". This literally broke my heart and I went to my room crying and closed my door. When I closed my door I did not even slam it and starts to unscrew it. I ask her why is she doing this and she starts to yell at me to not talk. As I try to make her not do it, she stabs me with the screwdriver tip on my shoulder near my chest causing me to bleed. The bleeding did not stop and she continued to unscrew my door. When my dad realized what had happened he tried to stop the bleeding but it did not work and decided to take me to the hospital to get stitches. The number of times that I have gotten stitches because of them hurting me is ridi
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Hello, I am 12 years old. I have an autistic brother and another brother, and I have to be like a second mom to them. I always have to make food for them and take the blame for everything they do. Sometimes, when I eat 1 tiny thing, my parents will call me fat or overweight even though I weigh even less than people my age should weigh (105-110) And sometimes, when I forget to pick up one sock in my room, my parents will take away my phone that I had to practically beg them to get me. They always threaten to take away my phone even if I forget to put my toothbrush inside the toothbrush holder and If my autistic brother messes up my room, I get in trouble for it and.. you guessed it. I get my phone taken away. All of the time when I am writing a poem in my journal, my parents ALWAYS yell at me and tell me to read, even if I already read that day. Sometimes, when I am trying to get water or something in the kitchen, my parents assume that I am using my phone and my other brother, makes it even worse and tells them that I was using my phone and, my mom physically and mentally hurts me. I am really depressed but whenever my friends see me, I change into a happy, annoying/cheerful girl. My parents always joke around and say they hurt me because, they love me. I love them too so, can I hurt them (just joking) My parents love my brothers more then me. And get this, I have NEVER heard my parents say that they are proud of me. Not once. Even, I always stay up all night just to study to make my parents happy and when they see my grade, they straight up ask me why I didn't get a higher grade. Anyways, there is more but, I have to go to bed, if I'm not in bed by the time my mom is done making my autistic brother sleep, I will get yelled at. If you are feeling like you need a friend, please email me at: [no emails] I know I need a friend. Please stay safe everyone and, don't hurt yourself. I say this from experience. It won't help.
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My mom she is way better than my dad and she deserves better. My mom can yell at us but I understand, she actually apologizes and lets us talk during arguments which is something my dad doesnt do. When my mom is feeling sick or not feeling well my dad tells us to help her but she doesnt need it but he should be the one to take care of her not a 14 year old and 12 year old. Im am definitely willing to help my mom but i just find it annoying why he tells us to do stuff that she should be doing. She needs to find a better husband and divorce him.
Me and my siblings are all treated differently besides me and my brother we are both treated the almost same. They praise one of my littlest sister for anything she does, apologizes, lets her get away with a lot of things, they praise her for preaching at the age of 7 and we should be proud of her. Ive always gotten in trouble for her mistakes or little things Ive done to her or said. Me and my brother use to get hit almost every day with the belt/ hanger/ sticks but my sister not so much I mean she does but not a lot, which I dont want her to of course.
I dont think they understand that keeping me from people, staying away from people, not having friends is increasing my social anxiety. I did use to have Depression and I was suicidal very lots of other things but I dont want to really get into that. They thought that almost sending me away and to a counselor was going to help. I helped myself and I had to. I think about death a lot of times but do I have the guts to do it.
Me and my brother plan on leaving on her bikes (me walking if we dont fix the bike) bring our poster its something we made to figure out everyone and stuff cant really explain it. We are going to go atriums the neighborhood maybe even out of it and not return till later at 8:00, I plan on not returning but we will see how that works. New and my brother also plan on brining his smart watch too.
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Hey, I am 14. My parents arent the worst, but they also arent the best. I dont know why but my dad cleans up one time one time and then unplugs all of electronics that includes my computer, tv, Phone, and IPad. At the time I was watching Hunter x Hunter and I was so furious but it aint nothing new. My brother is use to this tho he gets grounded almost every week for the littlest things. But Im trying to say that they think they are all of that because they clean up for one day and then talk too us for an hour on how we shouldve and how they shouldnt clean up.
My dad is the scariest person I know, the most controlling, and thinks he knows it all. He does this face where he is smiling but yelling at the same time. When someone else is in his house he trues and acts like he is the best parent or yells at me more, hes just scared because there is another adult in that house and he wants them to know that he is head of the house. He also tells us that we are wrong and he is right, he never likes being told he is wrong but if we are right he just tells us shut up or he doesnt want to hear it. He still whoops/beats my siblings I use to get them all of them time but I stopped getting them at 9. My dad never apologies only if my mom tells him to because I be hearing there conversations, also i use to hear them argue a land it would be about me. I dont understand why he so nice to other women and girls but treats my like crap. I try to impress him with good greases alls, take advance classes, orchestra, and reading. Im done doing that stuff that he wants me to do and not what I want to do. He forces us to do stuff we dont want to do which is a pretty parent thing to do. Im pretty sure he is a crappy he is very creepy. He can stay somewhere then hear our conversation and then come out and be like I heard yall like I dont care. He finds about hints Ive said or done weirdly but doesnt say anything about them.
My mom she isnt as bad as my dad she can get really mean but
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I am 13. My parents aren't the exact worst.(whenever I say this they go on about some kid who lives on the side of the road or whatever) I get blamed a lot and I can't test anything that my parents say because the do the whole "you are too young to understand" charade. I get threatened a lot. I kind of stopped paying attention to the threats because they never really follow through with anything. With my mom I just snap back at whatever crap she wants to throw at me. but with my dad, when he gets angry it is straight up SCARY. He's really strong and has a lot of power in my house. My parents are still thinking that I'm gonna buy them some private island when they get old or something crazy like that.
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I am 11 years old. My parents aren't the worst, aren't the best. I still want to suicide. I was playing roblox yesterday (my fav game) and they got mad and uninstalled it (and put a tracker on my computer). Then they found out i was on the phone with my best friend and they blocked her and told me not to talk to her. I really miss her, she thinks its all her fault. It isn't! Anyway, my mom is the physical one. When i was 7 i was playing soccer and my mom took me and my sister to the library. She made me carry the books back to the car and into the house. I stacked them up and walked carefully to the house but i forgot one. My mom counted the books, grabbed a wooden spoon, and slapped me on my cheek with the spoon. I had a scar and she made sure I didn't let anyone know by making me to tell my soccer friends that i fell out of a tree. She told me if i didn't she would do it again. From that day on, I've never had a very close relationship. My dad is also the same, but he doesn't use weapons. He uses his hand and he smacks my back and my hands. Although, when i was younger, he would grab either a wooden spoon or something they use to mix paint (i forgot the name) and would smack me with it. I love my parents, mostly. He wants proof of whatever I do. So, i plan on suiciding and writing a note saying, 'This is proof that I suicided'. :)
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I know how you feel. My dad hit me with a wooden spoon once.(the spoon broke and my mother got annoyed so he didn't do it again). I sometimes feel like doing suicide but you really shouldn't. we will get through this. Maybe when you are a super famous idol (or something) you can talk about this and the rest of the would would probably dislike them too, causing them to change their ways.(idk just a thought),
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meannafia1
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I am 12 yrs old and I got 90% on the test. That's how much my parents hate me. My dad would always yell at me for not remembering a homework assignment. He would never believe me whenever I say, "I've never seen it!" or "They posted it just yesterday! I haven't seen it!" My dad would also accuse me of lying whenever I'm telling the truth. One time my brother and I were playing Roblox. My dad asked if we were playing with other people in the game. I said yes since Roblox is an online game, while my brother Said no. My dad said I was lying but I never was. So he started to hit me with his belt to the point that I had to say I was lying while I was telling the truth. My mom is the person to never solve something by herself, She would always confront me then tell my dad about it. And when my little sister came everything went downhill, I was said that needed to protect my sister while I'm doing homework, and My brother is using his phone. My parents have never said 'congrats' whenever I do something or get something amazing.
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I'm so sorry. I love roblox, its so fun. My parents hate it for some reason. I find it annoying. Just know that your strong and I'm sure they would want nothing to happen to you. Maybe, you can have a talk with them. I hope everything gets better :(
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Do your parents hate you?
Your Result: Your parents HATE you. 90%I'm really sorry, but your parents definitely don't want you around. Maybe deep, deep down, there might be a drop of love left, but it hasn't shown. Just keep your head up high and don't let them bring you down.
30% Your parents dislike you
0% no, your parents love you!
it hurts how accurate this is.IZgoldRK1 -
guys is it normal if i am banged on walls and thrown around and kicked and stored in hampers to the point where i have to cry myself to sleep? i need some advice. but i do know how to do somethings but i just dont feel like i could make it. i tried to stop breathing, stabbing my wrist, and even punching the critical spots in my neck, trying to neck snap and i just wont die... Any advice?
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My parents know I have really bad fears, but instead of trying to help me cope, they just purposely throw me in situations and make me deal with it myself. For example, I have a separation anxiety disorder and it's pretty bad. In fact, I can hardly be in my room by myself. I call them a lot during the night o get them in there with me, but one night they just decided to ignore me. And, because of my fear of the dark, they turned off every light in the house and took away what I call my "security light". (like, a security blanket, but it's a light I turn on when I get scared.) Another time, I was gasping for air and could hardly move. My dad had some heart and tried to help me, but my mom told him not to. It was so scary. I don't like them.
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I have anxiety, too. My parents dont know. I am NEVER telling them (or my sister). I am also afraid of the dark (its very embarrassing) since someone can be in there ready to kill me. I think they might be trying to help you face your fears. If anything goes wrong, you should call a friend. You can also try talking to them (i know its easier said then done). Good luck!
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My parents are ass holes I wish they would die in a fire and I would not feel any empathy for them at all first I have a grandma who would hit me several times and say Im doing this because she quote on quote say they love me but I dont feel any love I have scars brewses and 3 of them I hate them oh and dont even get me started on my mom so let me tell me stories so me and my mom and my sister used to live over at my aunts house on till they had an argument and then me moved to our grandma and thats when my life went over board it was only a week I spent there and I already said I hate her I wish she would disipare and then something or somebody hint hint possessed my mom and she started to agree with the madness my grandma was saying and when they told me to explainmy for bad grades they would say shut up I dont wanna here it if you dont explain or make up for you attitude and your grade I will punish you ( by punishment they take away my laptop for weeks sometimes a month) and this happened in about 2 weeks from when I moved in with her ) I wanted to kill her but we had a religion and I did not want to go to hell so I just wrote in my notebook where one day it got out of the place I put it my little brother gave it to my parents ( my mom and my grandma ) I just in brace my self for the smacking I had my face ready and every thing that was the last time I told my family I loved him the end
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i can relate. My "mom" looks for reasons to put her hands on me and never my sister. I hate her so much I wanna kill her or hurt her. I haven't told her or anyone else in my family I love them. You are strong, just know that they will pay for doing that to you one day, just keep your head up high and you'll be okay. and remember keep your head up high dont let anyone silence you. Not even yourself.
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yep. i just got a few b's and i am only 10, when i have been an a student for years
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so i was beaten up
IZgoldRK1
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i need advice please ..it says they don't hate me but ill start with that i am 11 yrs old and i started when i was around 8. when i do thing wrong or thing they don't like but still a small thing like not doing your chorus good engogh the overreact big time giving me long lectures ...and then punishing me. i talked to mutual friends and now im not allowed a phone till im 18 yrs old. is this normal can someone help me with advice please.
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no this is not really normal because this happened to me... some advice is to learn your parents every move and avoid things based of of how you know your parents. Then pick the right time to speak to them.
IZgoldRK1
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Your result: Your parents hate you.
Took the quiz cause I was curious, but yeah, already knew. ^ You can't possibly love your kid if you say things like "Go die." or "You were a mistake." or "If you don't want your friends to kill themselves, don't make suicidal friends." or "You say you want to kill yourself? You're a f***ing liar!"
Really feeling the love, Mom. Thanks.
It's sad when you get older and realize that she grew up in a home worse than yours, and had a pretty tough life even after she left, along with a good deal of unresolved health/mental issues, too.
That's still no excuse to hit your kid or say those things to them (or to anyone tbh.)
I'm glad I'm finally old enough to get a job and start saving... Once I leave, I'm never looking back.
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I got yelled at because of my report card I have to get 90 Obove and my mom didnt like me to put the plant in the sunlight she said why are you playing around with the plants and about the report card I got a 57% for science but I havent started science((Im going to start science next week for this year) do you think my parents hate me ?
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what thats so unfair! im so sorry...
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I got 70s in all my marks and my parents were mad. They are now making me pay for my own tuition.
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My mom and dad always yell at me for just a small small small thing. Sometimes I wish they treated me the way they treated my brother. My brother such a naughty child! I hate him so much. He is super annoying.
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i dont know anymore but one day i was super stressed from online school and my mom get angry for me for stressing out. i swear i didnt lash out or anything but maybe it was shown on my face. She told me that i dont deserve to be stressed out because i dont even work and bring money to them. She said she might hit me because of that. I was really sad and lonely at that time but the anger just burning inside while i need to keep a straight face because i was so afraid of getting yelled at by her. I am the oldest among my siblings so every time there are something wrong she always directed her anger towards me. It seems like she turned a blind eye whenever my siblings misbehaved but whenever i did even a little mistake she would lash out like crazy. I dont even have my own room and the only time i can cry was in the bathroom. I have no one to talk to because i dont have friends and my siblings hates me. Whenever she looked at me she always criticize my face because yes i admit i am really ugly. We are always short on money so i cnt afford braces. She also called me ugly. I dont know what i did wrong but what to do if my life arent getting better?
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sorry about your situations... try to talk to them, call someone to talk to, or even try to avoid them.
IZgoldRK1
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everytime i'm not doing school they harass me to do it then when i yell the truth that nobody loves me i get yelled at then they continue their day like nothing happened.
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I also think I have depression. My parents and parts of my life itself are the reason.My parents only make this worse.
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My dad is so awesome. We get along really well. Well,most of the time. My mom,on the other hand,hates me. She never actually says it,but she uses other words to describe that. I'm trying to figure out if my parents secretly hate me or if they are using me to show me off. Does anyone know a way to figure that out? If I make the smallest mistake,she yells at me,then gives me a huge,over the top punishment. I even tried running away multiple times,but first I got scared and then I got caught by my parents. I guess I'll have to wait a little while to try again. I am also somewhat abused by my parents. I get perfect grades in school,but my parents don't really care. I'm pretty sure the only reason my parents sent me to day camp for a week was to get me away from them. Whenever they yell at me,I yell back. They think they're better than me only because I'm just a kid. I always get answers from my parents that are like: "because I said so." or: "I'm the adult." I so and totally wanna live with my BFF.
So here I am,telling my problems to the I internet. I wish far better for you. Bye!
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hi, im serenity tyson, and Im 14 years old, and my parents seem as if everything i do is stupid, and I fell like Im not apart of the family, they seem as if they look at me stupidly, and they think I was a mistake. i dont know ifi should try and talk to them, or ingore them and run away. They look at everything i do and they call it stupid, they call my stupid, and they seem as if they dont care.
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im 16 ive been through foster care and dss and broihill and been sent off i recently got adopted by my Cuzan and his w9iife but sometime they get mad at me for the lil things and when they do its yelling i have a dream and its football my mom took it from me and i cried a lot she told me to drie it up i was acting ridiculous she tells me i was acting like my dad and mom and i disrespect her by having a bad grade she asked me to get it up so i tried to work on it when going back to school she got mad and thats when she took football away from me when they call me crazy or dumb or say im not gonna be succeful my heart hurts my head hurts and my hands go numb i cant descide weither to move out or stay cuz i love them so much i dont wont to leave but need too ,if i wanna fallow my dream
moore331
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