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  • I am 17 years old girl , I am not allowed to date or have social media or phone number or smart phone or talking with opposite gender or go to friends house or listening to music or lock my door or having bad grades or draw or write my dairy(which Idk why) or wearing short clothes or leaving house alone even to supermarket or having close friends or watching movies or talking too much or loud , they even get very angry when I cry in my room , when ever I want to have a conversation about it they get very mad , if I argue about my mom will hit me, its not like I hate my parents actually I love them more than anything but I hoped they were a little nicer.

    Beza ahmad
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    • Oh I forgot to add that I am not allowed to wear make up or cut my hair or going to party or reading novels and I must go to bed at 11 pa and wake up at 7 am

      Beza ahmad
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  • I have very strict parents. I am a 16 year old guy and I am not allowed to date, have any social media, a smartphone, iPod touch, or have any video games. They normally don't let me hang out with any of my friends. If I get a grade below an A- I get grounded. I don't really have a curfew because I can't go out much. I have to go to bed before 11 every night, even in the middle of summer. If I question almost anything that they do, I get yelled at and then grounded. Also, it's not like I'm a bad kid. I'm in the top ten of my class, have straight A's, and I'm in year round sports (Which I normally bike to, they won't even drive me). Lastly, I am holding a job in which I work many hours a week and my parents are pushing me to get another job. All, and I mean absolutely all, of the money I earn goes into my college fund.

    RunBikeDrum
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    • AGHAJJKAGHHJ

      jainaDeliho
      1
    • That's just wrong

      Ttrish1412
      1
    • im an 11 year old girl and i want to do everything like my friends but my parents only let me wear everything of clothes for women and big girls because im between womens and big girls size but they don't let me have a smartphone like my friends even don't let me date with boys like my friends even don't let me have social media like my friends they only let me have youtube and pinterest i only use tablet for video games youtube pinterest and most apps what they have in the tablet im not allowed to wear makeup im not allowed to go out alone and i f---ing hate it i have to go to bed at 8pm then after school i cant go out before and after school i cant go out with my friends i will write the part 2 next time

      alixee
      1
    • Alixee honestly I think that 11 year olds shouldn't be dating. That is a really controversial subject but I find myself leaning towards waiting till highschool. Also please write in sentences your comment is a little hard to read. I really hope you have better luck with your parents than I do.

      Green_Arrow
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    • stfub

      ilovemyself123
      1
  • It is mainly my dad who is the strict one. He won't let me were shorts, even with leggings or tights, and he doesn't even like me wearing leggings or skinny jeans. He doesn't let me wear skirts above the knee even with tights or leggings and he doesn't let me wear any skirts without tights. He doesn't even like my school shoes because they have a tiny bit of a sole and even my mum bought those for me. I'm not allowed to wear make-up and my mum says I am not allowed to wear nail varnish until I'm eighteen and she sells make-up! My dad shouts at me and slaps me a lot especially when I get an A in Maths instead of an A*. It is really unfair but I am hoping to go to boarding school in 2016. They don't let me have any social network except youtube and pinterest but they won't let me upload any videos of myself. I am also not allowed to wea cropped tops or have a boyfriend but I secretly have snapchat and instgram as well.

    fundollspud
    2
    • did you go to boarding school yet AGAHAJKAJAHAAHA

      jainaDeliho
      2
  • I'm 15 and honestly I wonder how I survived my life. I have to get straight A's. B's are not acceptable to my parents and they either scream or flip out on me by grounding me. Social I have lots of friends but aren't allowed to even VISIT them nor sleep over my house is a prison. I'm not allowed to have social media except Kik and Skype which I barely got. And I secretly have an ig. If I'm on any device for just an hour my mom will come and start screaming at me. My dad is pretty chill and he is the lean parent that doesn't care as much. As for dating I don't even plan to date people so I'm ok with that. No video games in such in weekdays and on weekends I can have a full day with them sadly I hope this will get fixed.

    Primal
    2
  • God my parents drive me up the wall! They just make me crazy with their rules and stuff! I'm not allowed to go out with friends and I have a 8:30 pm curfew, I'm 14 and not allowed to wear make up, or watch any movies which my mom doesn't approve of (She looks up the movie reviews) and also I'm not allowed to wear practically any clothing from this century! No shorts, or higher than the knee skirts, or any shirts which are no sleeve/show any chest, or anything like that! I can't have any social media accounts except instagram, and even that they want to take away! I'm just so fed up with everything and I can't wait until I can just move out.

    thaliag
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  • My parents are so strict and it's not fair. I'm a 16 year old girl who can't go anywhere, not the store, mall, movies, park, etc. I'm not allowed to call my friends otp or hang out with them, I can't sleep over and I can't have sleep overs, I'm not allowed to date until I graduate college that's right. And I'm not allowed to wear shorts in public, capris or skinny jeans or anything that may seem tight to them. The baggier the better. My parents are thinking about not even letting me go to prom because they don't want me out there.

    Lisettemonse
    2
  • I can't do anything anymore. My parents are scared of getting Corona virus so i'm at home, grounded. I cant go on any electronics and i cant see friends (My parents told them that we arent friends anymore). They support me on becoming a mechanic, but I CANT because they dont want me to injure myself. My allowance is $2 a month. And candy doesn't even last an hour! If they died i would just laugh at the funeral. Im gonna move out

    14, Guy

    M92161
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    • dude, school must be canceled in ur state too, kind of a bummer tho cause the corona viruse means i cant take my retests in school

      awp
      2
    • please dont say that

      jainaDeliho
      1
    • Umm, Just saying. That last part is very unnecessary. Plus, your parents do those things to protect you. And they won't do those things if they didn't love you. So yeah. STOP BEING REBELLIOUS AND LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS FOR ONCE. JEEZ. Sure yeah, if you wanna get corona then GET IT. I'M MORE THAN SURE THAT YOU'LL REGRET IT ONCE YOU'RE ABOUT TO DIE.

      bananaaaaaa
      1
    • Do you have strict parents? How would you know how it feels to be depressed and not have freedom. Covid just gave them more excuses to keep us kids home. Were not rebellious, we have freedom of speech and authority to act how we want. Parents just try to take away our freedom to be a person in the United States. Have you ever had a history class? Then you'd know that the amendments say that we are allowed to have freedom of speech and to not be slaves or prisoners to those who cast us wrong. We are allowed to act on ourselves, and be free people. That's what America is about, freedom to the people. So how would you understand if you have strict parents who constantly remind you that you are their property, and you can't do anything of your own self-value? You are belittled every day for stupid stuff, and of course, you can't take this pain and suffering anymore. So of course we're gonna speak up about it, and let our voices be heard. We're not being rebellious, we're showing our parents that we are citizens of America, and we know our rights. Were not the ones yelling at them, or talking down to them, if anything were the ones reminding them of our self-value, and that we're human beings. And if that seems rebellious to you, then you haven't been around long enough in the 21st Century. Umm, just saying.

      TiannaJ
      1
    • have my disocrd divina.raina#8065

      ilovemyself123
      1
  • My parents arent very strict unless they have to be. I'm a 12 year old girl and my parents will let me play on my video games and so on, I even found the courage to tell her a boy asked me out without knowing her reaction. She took it quite well and said (only because she knew the boy and respects him) and told me that I can date when I'm ready or even I could go to the movies with him when ever. I really wouldn't know what it's like to have strict parents but most strict parents are strict because of: religion, culture, incident from the past or even because of how their parents treated them when they were youger and ect.....

    shine4love4hope
    2
  • I am 14 years old and I have strict parents. They yell at me for everything. Grade below and A, forgetting my chores (which I have a good amount of), and talking to my friends past 9 pm (my bedtime is at 10) are just some of the things my parents yell at me about. I am allowed to have NO social media, if they find out about any social media i do have they strictly monitor it or they tell me to delete it all together. They go through my phone almost every night, which I have to give to them before I go to bed. They are ALWAYS tired and cranky. I am allowed to go nowhere with my friends unless my mother is there supervising. My mother has to know all of my friends and their parents, however there is no way for her to know if she knows them all. I hate their guts. I more than once have brought up the idea of boarding school but my parents shoot it down immediately, and get angry. I actually could do with some advice. I am constantly breaking their rules because I need to to be able to breathe. Then she goes around advertising how perfect of a family we are. I am so sick of it. Family is so suffocating.

    Green_Arrow
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    • I should add that I don't mention I want to get away from them when I mention boarding school.

      Green_Arrow
      1
    • Life is so unfair. Im 12 but i already think about my padt and my future. My oast was already miserable because my dad left me and my mom and i lost a sibling. We had no money at that time but i was a sunshiny kid i guess. Now that we have a home, a dad, its great. But my mom gets really strict and wont let me go to sleepovers because they can be "dangerous". Im moving out in highschool so i can get the freedom soon. I hope we can survive together and sometimes, you just gotta be honest with them because they will see it eventually. Good day!

      MysteryGirl101
      1
    • my discord is divina.raina#8065

      ilovemyself123
      1
  • She doesn't even let me go down town before or after school although I do I have a social media Instagram account that she doesn't know about its got a fake name and my friends don't know i just watch there feeds and stuff. But I get embarssed when I have to say I don't have a phone or social media. I think I have depression and anxiety. I get worried about mufti days as my friends chat over Insta about what there going to wear

    XxflowergirlxX
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  • My parents are very strict! The rules in my house are just ridiculous! Mostly my dad. Whenever I think i'm doing good, it is not good for him. He broke my phone, he threw out my gym set, he took away my wallet which has my credit card etc. And now he won't even let me go to work. I have a part time job during school holidays. Before, he always pushed me to get a job, if I don't have one, he would make fun of me. Whenever they are home, sometimes I don't even want to talk to them. I feel like I'm not close to them anymore because what they have done to me. I'm 17 and I really can't wait till I turn 18. I really want to move out of my house because I can't live like this. Sometimes, I cry and thinking of killing myself. but then I know there are some people out there who love me and I don't want to end it.

    levrands1234
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  • My parents are really strict. I am 13, and I can't even cross the street, go on google or youtube, and when I try to talk to them about being overprotective, they say that thay are not and end the conversation. I cannot even slam a door, ignore my mom, or yell at her when I am angry at he without getting grounded. My dad, however, is pretty normal. And no, my parents are not divorced.

    crazygirl4112
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    • Same. But it's with my dad, which is my only parent (Lucky me)

      The_Quiet_Kid
      0
  • I got very strict parents. I am a 12 year old girl and i wanted to take this test to see if my parents are actually strict. Studies shows that if you have strict parents, you can have sleep deprivation, eating disorders, anxiety, low self-esteem and poor academic performance. Lately, I sleep late and i always take naps so my mom gets really mad and shouts at me. Sometimes, i think about either killing myself or running away. If i run away, i think about how to survive, where to go, etc. My parents wont let me go to sleepovers just because they could probably be "dangerous". They expect me to have A's. My mom is the most strictest and we usually fight about why i dont talk to people my age, why i always take naps during the day, how chores needs to be done, and she wont let me dye my hair or pierce my ears. If i want something, they would always say, "Is it because your friends have them too?" and i would get really mad because thats not the reason. The reason is because i want it. And sometimes, they would be like, "Oh look see? Theyre more behave and they respect their parents" and when i say to stop comparing me to other kids, they would say that they are not.

    MysteryGirl101
    1
    • Im also adding that i had a miserable childhood. My dad was drunk so we left him (he still texts me but i block him. He wants to call me EVERY SINGLE YEAR on my birthday), I lost a sister, we had no money at that point and we were hopeless. Also, I can have social media but they control it. I cant have tiktok but i secretly download it and uninstall it.

      MysteryGirl101
      1
    • I was just reading this and my parents are the same way they even abuse me when I don't listen to them or try to run away, they're so strict my friends parents have tried letting me move in with them but then my parents blocked and deleted all my friends numbers so I can't talk to any of my friends, its so hard I don't know what to do and I'm 16 now so it's super hard not being allowed to date or talk to boys til I'm 18

      1lostgirl
      1
    • hey its gonna be fine i m still living on that hope my dicord is divina.raina#8065

      ilovemyself123
      1
  • I need help with my parents p, they treat me like I am special needs or a 7 year old child! I'm only 13 but I don't do one single girls my age do, and that is very annoying! I am a good girl, except that when I was little until I was 10 I used to do thing sneakily because they didn't let me do it and I lied a lot because they scared, and I was always about to pea!! I promise it's true! Now they don't let me do the thing girls my age do because they can't trust me! Like having a phone! But I don't get why I can't wear actually shorts not the ones to my knees and wax my unibrow and my mustache! I really don't get it! People at school make fun of my mustache and unibrow a lot! And they called me terrorists because I was from Iran! It's not my fault that I was born there! Is it?

    Anyways, my life is terrible! And whenever I ask then to do something, like waxing my unibrow, they say that I can't and that God wants us to be different from the world, because my dad is a pastor and my mom is a pastor's wife!! I really don't get it. Help! I asked God, but I think he hates me because I am a very bad person! Sorry, that I was born but it wasn't my fault! It was a accident! That is exactly why I'm adopted! I think being adopted means to have a better life, but in my case it's horrific! I want to be like others! I feel like

    TTR
    1
  • I am 17 years old girl , I am not allowed to date or have social media or phone number or smart phone or talking with opposite gender or go to friends house or listening to music or lock my door or having bad grades or draw or write my dairy(which Idk why) or wearing short clothes or leaving house alone even to supermarket or having close friends or watching movies or talking too much or loud , they even get very angry when I cry in my room , when ever I want to have a conversation about it they get very mad , if I argue about my mom will hit me, its not like I hate my parents actually I love them more than anything but I hoped they were a little nicer.

    Beza ahmad
    1
    • Oh I forgot to add that I am not allowed to wear make up or cut my hair or going to party or reading novels and I must go to bed at 11 pa and wake up at 7 am

      Beza ahmad
      1
  • She doesn't even know I have this is this unfair

    I have split parents my dad is meant to pick me up for my b'day I haven't really liked my dad even from a young age when I was like 5 I used to tell him that I hated him and that I hated living at his house multiple times hoping it would change something but he just asked me whether I still hated him and I would say yes and he would just say ok like it was a normal conversation.anway he didn't pick me up for my birthday and said he was going to Aussie for a work trip with the other car salesmen.and his wife went with him and they went snorkelling but his wife's b day is in the Same month as mine so I'm pretty sure that he went on holiday with his wife on my birthday the week after that he took his kids on holiday to the South Island and the went skiing for a week and missed school and they tried to keep that from me .

    XxflowergirlxX
    1
  • I have a strict mother. A the age of 17 youd think I would have some source of freedom but thats completely wrong. My mother never has let me hang out with my friends outside of school, I have never had any device, Ive never been in any relationships. My social life is completely messed up. I have social anxiety so it doesnt help that she keeps me away from people my age. People love to say that their parents are strict. But they dont even know the half of what it feels like to have a parent that consistently makes you feel like you have no control, not even over yourself. Now this doesnt mean that your parents are purposely treating you this way. There intentions may be pure. Now one benefit that I see I have is that a lot of people who have strict parents say that their parents make them have all As. To my surprise my mom excepts Cs. One thing about have strict parents is that if they dont realize how they treating you and how it is affecting you it can make things ten times worse. But then people say ok why not sit down and have that talk. Talk about how you feel. Most strict parents and parents period dont like for their kids to tell them what to do, how to do something, or have any sense of control. Trying to take control of them ( as they see it) isnt the best route to go. So sadly it seems as if the only thing you can do is wait until you move out. Parents like this seem to have a hard time letting there children go. One thing that I think about a lot is when a baby bird leaves the nest and learns to fly the mother allows it to do so. Im pretty sure the mother bird doesnt want to see her baby leave but she wants the bird to be happy and free. Parents are suppose to be like this. Allow their kids to leave there nest and experience life. I mean we do only get to do this once. To anyone who has strict parents or a strict parent eventually it will get better. You will have to leave that nest and experience what it is you need to experience. And if your parent

    tanaya2x
    1
  • Hi, I'm 13 / girl . I love both of my parents don't get me wrong but, my mom is too strict. I can't use my phone whenever I want. I have to put it in her room at 9:30 pm on weekdays and 12:30 am on weekends. My dad lets me use my phone whenever and wherever, but since my parents aren't together, i'm with my mom more often. my mom doesn't let me take it to school which is fcking STUPID. if i ever need to call or text her from school, i can't. i have to use my friends phone . its even gotten to the point where i have my parents' numbers saved in my best friend's phone. and if i do ever use my phone on the weekdays or weekends, i can't use it until after dinner which is stupid! my friends never know when i have my phone and i don't have my phone. i can't ever be put in group chats and group facetime with my friends. i can't have instagram, snapchat, or any other social media. she tries to limit the amount of time i use my phone. she always says "when i was younger, we didn't have our faces stuck in a screen." YOU KNOW WHY, YOU DIDN'T HAVE ONE. maybe if you were my age in this generation, you would. and when she takes it, she says "find something to do." theres deadass nothing for me to do because i'm an only child and there's snow everywhere. i would go live w/ my dad but i'm to nervous to ask.

    dqzzle
    1
    • i can only go on my phone to text them or call them and nothing else at all

      awp
      1
    • yo your lucky i cant watch tv or be on my fcking phone on weekdays she says get a book also my curfew is at 8 on weekdays and 10 on wkends

      jainaDeliho
      0
    • @jainaDeliho okay but like..... i cant even go out on weekdays an when i do go out it is only every other weekend and when i go out i have to be back by 8:00 or 8:30 at the latest. i am not saying your parents arent strict but like....

      hedgehoglover123
      1
  • My parents aren't too bad. I'm an almost 15-year-old girl. I'm allowed almost all social media, I have my own phone, and I'm allowed to go out. They go through my phone sometimes, but only when I'm acting weird. They don't really care who I'm friends with as long as they arent changing the way I act. I do have to go to bed before midnight, and I can't have my phone in my room at night. I'm allowed to wear makeup, even though I don't. They don't really care what I wear as long as my private parts arent out lol. I'm sort of a tomboy so I wear big tees and jeans most of the time anyways. I'm allowed having people over, and I'm allowed seeing other people when I want, as long as we don't have something else planned with the family. I read some of the other comments and I was like "wow i thought my parents were bad," Anyways, hope you guys are staying safe : )

    lexi_0620
    1
  • My parents are STRICT. I can barely go on the computer, cross the street, go anywhere, can't wear what I want, date (which I am TOTALLY okay with), and I can barely say what's on my mind. Thank goodness they don't know the ancient art of grounding . . . not that it would matter though. They actually (sometimes) don't care if I just sit in my room for an hour or three, doing whatever I want. That's the only time they're not strict XD Great quiz!

    Dark_Vampire101
    1
  • My parents are a--holes. I hope they get hit by a train. They hit me for "talking back" if I answer their question, or ground me. Sometimes just for raising my voice a tiny bit when they're yelling like maniacs. Hell, today was terrible! My mom said chocolate had sugar. I thought she meant the pure, no added sugar stuff. I kept arguing with her about it and just had a "really?" face on because I thought she was crazy. When I found out she was talking about the drink at iHop, I told her I was confused. Of course the whole family said I was lying, and my mum pulled my ear (Would be worse if we weren't in public). They canceled my phone and started talking about how they should punish me. My stupid dad said that they should hit me harder. They started calling me ungrateful and said they'd start taking away what I had to make me grateful. I'm not ungrateful. The only thing I'm ungrateful about is that I have a family that's abusive. I wouldn't be surprised if they all out started neglecting me. I'm thinking about telling my friend and asking her to tell her parents since I can't muster up the courage to tell a teacher, and they never let me go to a friend's house out of nowhere. Maybe if its planned for like, a week.

    FlashingSpirits
    1
  • my parents are okay but they are very hypocritical thinking they let me do whatever I want and they don't let me have any social media, let alone a phone, go over to someone's house without permission and clarification from their parents and I am only allowed to go to selected people's house because my parents do not know the parents of my friends. and i am practically a perfect child, i get good grades, i rarely get into trouble and I'm always behaving (around them). i don't understand why they are so overprotective and strict

    livya
    1
  • I think I have strict parents. Im 17 and my curfew is 5am my parents dont care about my grades and I have a $300 dollar allowance I can nearly go out with my friends because my parents refuse to give me any more money and everything that I do seems to not be enough for them fore example I try to go to class at least 2 a week and thats not good enough for them.

    Incognito23
    1
    • OMG YOUR CURFEW IS AT 5 BTCH YOUR HELLA LUCKY TF $300 dollars budget OMGODDD

      jainaDeliho
      2
    • broo u lucky

      ilovemyself123
      1
    • so, u think ur parents are strict bc you get $300, a 5am curfew, AND THEY ONLY MAKE YOU GO TO CLASS TWICE A WEEK

      ? bro, id switch with u in a heartbeat

      1PurpleNinja_YT
      1
  • Do you have strict parents?
    Your Result: Let-Loose Parents 91%

    Your parents totally lets you do whatever you want! There's absolutely nothing to worry about with your parents, but sometimes strict parents can do you a little good (not very much, of course). Parents like yours are dreamed of by a lot of people. If you think your parents are quite strict, then maybe you should re-think that a little!

    30% Average Parents
    20% Totally Strict Parents!

    Kell1617
    1
  • My parents are strict in SOME ways. They won't let me have ANY social media. I'm not allowed to WATCH Youtube videos, or have an channel. Little do they know I have a Twitter, and a Youtube channel. My parents won't let me play shooting games, or watch shows like Walking Dead (I'm 12 and a half). My mom won't let me have a phone until I'm 14..the hell? What's wrong with having a phone especially in THIS day and age.

    Baileygotsswag
    1
  • My parents really strict. I am 15, and they won't let me play my tablet on the weekdays, do social media, get a cell phone, and when I ask for forgiveness, they would ignore me. I'm a great teen anyways, and teens like me reserves the rights to make decisions and do what we want to do in ours and my lives.

    s532654
    1

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