Is it worth the exclusion?
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Thread Topic: Is it worth the exclusion?
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I'm always asking myself, is it worth the exclusion? No matter what I do, I never seem to fit in anywhere. Not with the artists, not with my friends, not even in my family. Is there something so damn wrong with me that I fit in not even with my family?
Is it worth being different for the price of being alone? ;~; I don't even fit in with you guys. That's saying something because you all seem to be able fit a puzzle piece. -
Tingy, I don't fit in hardly at all. .3. Especially in real life. I mainly hang out with my parents. ._. You all should have seen me in when I was in school. Ignored and unwanted, I couldn't relate to anyone.
You do fit in with us, dear. Honestly, you guys are the coolest people in my eyes. Even if we don't all have things in common we're an adorable, quirky bunch of individuals that were placed all across the continent. :o -
I agree with what Ana said.
I don't really have anything to add though :I -
I don't fit in with anyone either,lol.But hey,that just makes you unique y'know.Who wants to be another face in the crowd.Its a breathe of fresh air to see someone diffrent.
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I don't fit in anywhere really either. I made a thread just to talk to myself what does that say about me?
Anyways, you fit in here. Since I joined I've noticed you seem to know everyone. The reason some people may not talk to you (most newer users) is you're mostly in the anime forum or you're talking to someone already and others don't want to intrude. -
As for real life, the fact remains that the only people worth knowing are the ones who don't fit in anywhere. Fitting into a perfect little cookie cutter stereotype is bland and shallow. Not feeling like you belong anywhere is a sign of depth Ting. Showing that you are human enough to not be just one way. To be able to change and adventure with yourself personality wise. It's a beautiful thing.
The fact that you're not fitting in anywhere is a situation I can sympathize with deeply. Trust me sweet heart, we've all been there . I guess it's not really the advice you'd expect, but if you feel the need to adjust to specific groups, like family or friends, find a middle ground. Somewhere that you can be yourself and yet still feel like you belong.
I can't speak for your situation but look at it this way;
When I'm with my grandparents, I'm quiet and a generic "good kid" like you see getting murdered on the news all the time.
When I'm with my friends, I'm big brother. I baby sit them and help them fix their messes. But I'm also supposed to be friendly.
When I'm with my dad, I'm one of the guys. I'm laid back and chill. But a sarcastic douche bag whenever I can get by with it.
When I'm with my mom... actually it's been so long since I've seen my mom that I can't remember.
And when I'm with you, I am honest and caring. I am patient and caring. And I am happy and more myself than any other time.
Find your way sweet heart. I'm sure you can.
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