I will answer any and every question that you people ask me.

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    Nuna Junior
    @leah: I was really in love with him...i still am a little bit...we had built ourselves our own little world where there was no distance...but it was just make believe because look where we are now...he's in love with another girl..and im just....here....so yeah....but it is possible for it to happen over the internet...idk if james's answer will the same or if it'll be different...
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    barberbob2 Advanced
    @Lyssa, I remember because it made you so happy. Even though we couldnt see each other, I could feel your joy through the texts. I bet you were blushing. :)
    @Lelouch, what do you mean?
    @Leah, Lyssa and I loved. I use that word because there isnt a word for what we had. Love is compassion. Love is understanding and a desire to be with one another. We had all that and more. I'll admit, I was a fool. I left Lyssa because I was like you. I didnt see how a relationship over the internet could withstand time. After we broke up, I tried dating locally for a while, but with every attempt I found that none of them had what Lyssa and I had. When I finally found the courage to talk with her again, she was with someone. I quietly accepted this. She deserved to be happy. By the time her and the other guy broke up, I was no longer single. And this pattern has repeated over and over again. I still think of her alot. I still wonder where we would be if I hadnt screwed up. I regret it so much...
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    LeahM Junior
    Why don't you get back together?
    It seems like you both have only ever truly loved each other and if that's the case, I hate this word but, you two could be "soul-mates" and therefore are meant for each other. Whatever the distance, or disagreement I'm sure the love you still have for each other will prevail.
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    Nuna Junior
    can't....he's with amanda...they've been together for over a year and i don't he'll ever leave her...as much as it hurts to read what he said...i have to let him go and let him be happy with who he has
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    @barberbob2- I mean, like, does it matter what question it is? You'll answer whatever question we ask, right? Sorry if I was confusing you
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    LeahM Junior
    How do you know he won't be happier with you?
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    Nuna Junior
    because he's been with amanda for over a year...its long distance...if he can be with her for that long over distance...why would he be happier with me when he couldn't handle a month of long distance when we were together? he's happier with her and i wouldn't want it to be any other way...he deserves his happiness
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    LeahM Junior
    What about you? Don't you deserve happiness?

    The amount of time you spent as a couple is - to a certain extent - irrelevant. It quality, not quantity. It's doesn't mean he loved you any less. It really does seem that there are loads of unresolved issues and unanswered questions. The thing, though, is that it can be mended. You shouldn't be hopeless.

    Think about it: what if you let each other slip out of your lives and you'll never love anyone the way that you loved each other?
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    Nuna Junior
    @leah: he wont leave her
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    barberbob2 Advanced
    Leah, I hurt Lyssa. I did damage that I will never be able to forgive myself for. I wont do that again. To anyone. Lyssa was my first love. And with that she will always have a place in my heart, but the fact is that right now,(as far as I can tell) we have made peace with the past. And while it will always be nice to glance back at our past, only memories live in the past. Memories and regrets. The future holds hopes and promises. And the right now, the present, is where we're standing.
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    LeahM Junior
    Whatever happens, I hope you both find happiness.
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    LeahM Junior
    In general, what do you think are the major components to a good relationship?
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    barberbob2 Advanced
    Leah,
    -compassion for the other person
    -understanding for the situation they may be in
    -patience
    -a willingness to compromise
    -and most of all, make each other happy. That's all that matters. If you are both happy, then nothing else is important.
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    LeahM Junior
    Very true!
    Thanks.
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    Loony Luna Junior
    That is so sad you guys... Sorry to barge in like that, but I was just reading over everything and suddenly I felt it in my heart, like it was me in your place.
    I had a relationship with a guy over the internet once, and even though he was really the first one, I could actually say I fell in love with him. It also didn't last very long, but I felt as though we understood each other like we'd known each other for a long time. I miss him, I really do... I hope you can find more happiness than I did, because now I like this boy in my school who has a girlfriend. I think I was too slow in trying to get him, so she did.
    Why am I still obsessing over him though? It's been almost three years now... ~Luna

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