Das saD

Thread Topic: Das saD

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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    I want to be there for people and talk to them. For example, I'll be typing out a response, and then I just give up. What if I say the wrong thing? How can I help? The end result is that I don't even try, and that's not right.

    I just don't want to mess things up more.
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    The fact that I end up answering most of my questions can be kind of annoying. Like, dude stop. Let someone else give it a shot.
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    Dulcinea Experienced
    Ugh, I know how you feel. <3
    I can't tell you how many times I've stared at a blank space trying to come up with something to express my empathy and support while feeling utterly inadequate. And even if I do come up with something, I tend to second guess myself and end up re typing the whole thing a dozen times. XP ;)
    But the thing is you never know just how much it might mean to them. It's nice to be able to write out long explanations or flowery encouragement, but more often then not, it's the simpler things that mean the most. Just knowing that someone is here for you, ready to listen, and genuinely cares can make all the difference. I know that's true for me. I can't tell you how many times I've been having a hard day and someone's kind words made all the difference.
    I guess what I'm trying to say is don't give up.
    Maybe they won't respond to you, but at least they will know that someone IS paying attention to them, and you never know just how much someone might need to know that. <3
    :)
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    Thank you! That helped a lot, actually.
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    Dulcinea Experienced
    <3
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    Sometimes the world can be depressing, so I must be happy so others can be too ❤
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    ^
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    I miss him a lot. I really wish that he would drop by sometimes or contact me at all, but that probably sounds selfish. I'm sure he's got a lot on his plate right now and I just need to be patient.

    But it's been so long.
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    My first thoughts when you said that- “She’s talking about a bulldog.”

    Lol, I actually don’t know what you’re talking about. Do you maybe want to vent out to me? I’d be happy to listen ^^
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    "She's talking about a bulldog" XD

    Spice has been cured
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    ChameleonLeap Experienced
    😌

    Happy to hear!

    But being serious, are you alright? I’m always here
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    SprinkledSpice Experienced
    Thanks for the consideration, Cham! I am alright, just a little confused and stuff.
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    Honestly, this whole situation with Sins is so confusing. Are we friends? Are we dating? What the heck is going on right now?

    I'm just going to be friends with him for now. Being pretty much ghosted for a month by someone kinda sucks, because I don't even get an explanation.

    So...I'm a Single Pringle now!
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    SprinkledSpice Advanced
    I'm pretty sure I'm straight, but sometimes I'm just like "If we were bi, me and (person) would totally make a good couple xD"

    Because if going on a walk which leads to stargazing DOESN'T sound romantic to you, idk what to say ;-;

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