This sorta belongs in the d&r forum, but it involve more
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Thread Topic: This sorta belongs in the d&r forum, but it involve more
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Rainicorn NewbieLast school year, I was kind of liking this one guy named Kaden. He had a girlfriend at the time, and I was really good friends with his girlfriend so I kept quiet about it. After a while, though, I just couldn't contain it anymore and I told his girlfriend. The reason I told her was becayse I didn't want to be a total b-word and like him behing her bck. A couple days later, Kaden told me that his girlfriend told him I like him. I was so mad at first, but then Kaden became more open with me. One of the last days of school, he was silently crying to himself. I went to talk to him, and so did a couple other people. We asked him what was wrong and he would just shake his head or say no. Finally, we were heading to lunch, and he told me. Just me...
When he was younger, he and his sister were playing ball in their front yard. He threw the ball a bit to hard and it went into the road. His sister went out to get it... He paused before sayin this next sentence. He said "It was a gruesome way to go. Blood went everywhere, even on me[him]. I[him] was still crying a week later when we[his family and him] were still cleaning her up." The last day of school, everyone was signing each others yearbooks and everything. Every time I sign anything I put 'Stella loves you' or 'I love you ~Stella' I wrote on his paper(because he didn't have a yearbook) that I loved him, becaus that is just what I naturally do. Then summer came... I got his number and so I was texting him. He asked me what I meant when I wrote that I loved him, and I told him that it was just as a friend. Then funky things started happening! He told me that he liked me. Then he was saying how him and his girlfriend were planning to do 'it'. I tried talking him out of it and eventually it worked. He went to his girlfriends house, and her being the nasty butt she is, she took off her shirt and bra in front of him. He told me that he wasn't happy being with her because he felt like he was just a toy, then he told me he loved me. He said he wanted to go out with me and just break up with his girlfriend, but he couldn't. When I asked him why he couldn't, he said that his girlfriend threatened him. She said that if he ever broke up with her then went out with someone else, then she would kill the next girl. I told him he was being stupid but he said that she was serious about it and that he didn't want to put me in danger for him. We had a little thing, behind his girlfriends back. I knew it wwas wrong though, soafter a week of it, I stopped texting him. (I was visiting another state since the first day of summer so I didn't see him at all during this 'thing') We didn't talk anymore. My phone ran out of minutes and my mom hasn't bothered to get me anymore. The first week that school started, his girlfriend started talking to me. She told me that they broke up. Tge next day, my bet friend told me that Kaden moved to another state and that he wants me to text him. I am so scared. I really want to text him, but I also don't want to. I hve no minutes either, so texting him right now is impossible. I was going through my contacts today and saw his name and picture. My heart is aching! The last thing I told him was that I also loved him... I was just stupid enough to d that. I really miss him, but I feel that if I ever talk to him then go out with him, that he will b planning his next girl like he did with his ex. His parents hate him and told him that he was responsible for his sisters death. I am torn, though and I just had to tell someone the story or else I would die inside. Thank you for reading this an pleasetell me what needs to be done. I honestly do love him... it's sorta fading though... -
Rainicorn NewbieIam shaking so hard. Sorry for all of the accidental speeling mistakes. Me shaking just caused me to ruin a bunch of words. *deep breath* I can't cry right now. My mom doesn't know anything about this. No one does except my sister knows half of the story...
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If you love him then do your best to get to him, but if you can't ...well, you know what they say, distance is nothing when the love is true. Talk to him, if his parents areike that then he NEEDS you, so take care of him, be there for him
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Rainicorn NewbieBut there isn't a way to talk to him nd I feel like if I do go out with him, then he'll just be planning his next girlfriend... Yes, I do love him but it just seems wrong...
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Well, I would say to start out by texting him, but you have no minutes. You could try emailing him.
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Rainicorn NewbieI don't know his email... I guess I could ask my friend to get him from him... Then I will recieve it by Tuesday. Thanks Megan
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rockgirl08 Novicetext him. you need to talk to him, he obviously cares about you, he moved so that he dumped his ex so that she wouldnt hurt you. just be careful
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Rainicorn NewbieI forgot to ask for his email. I was kind of zoned out today, like a zombie, but only every now and then. /: I really want to talk to him but... I dont know if I can
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NeonHedgehog NewbieMy gods! That is sad! You should go talk to him! He likes you back, doesn't he?
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Rainicorn NewbieI told this story to my 7th period today and they gave me great advice. They have no clue who he is, I kept it anonymous. They said that since it wasn't important enough to tell his ex- girlfriend, then He isn't important enough to risk getting hurt. Keep in my that his ex called me her BEST FRIEND. My class is life management and we were talking about something like this so I just shared my story.
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Rainicorn NewbieI told this story to my 7th period today and they gave me great advice. They have no clue who he is, I kept it anonymous. They said that since it wasn't important enough to tell his ex- girlfriend, then He isn't important enough to risk getting hurt. Keep in my that his ex called me her BEST FRIEND. My class is life management and we were talking about something like this so I just shared my story.
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