I have something to say on the issue.
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Thread Topic: I have something to say on the issue.
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But it comes around all the time, so I'll make this thread and remember to bump this to remind you.
I've been noticing a cycle. It goes like this:
X person gets sad
X cuts self
X makes 5 threads about it here
Y calls X a crybaby (or whatever similar)
X tells Y to STFU
X and Y argue
Z comes in and says something random
Y apologizes to X
X is still sad
Y makes big long paragraph and 5 threads pointing to paragraph
Paragraph cheers X up
A, B, and C are older users who are pissed at the amount of threads being made
C feels sympathy and tries to cheer up X
B doesn't care and goes to watch YouTube
A is still pissed and calls everyone a moron
X, Y and C have big happy hugfest over cheering up X
Z goes and makes a thread pointing out the logical pattern
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I'm just saying it goes the same way every single time and the problem is never fixed. The next time one of you is sad or has a problem, ask me and I'll discuss solutions. Or at least, everyone try to discuss solutions. You get nowhere with the sympathy, except for making X feel a bit better, and then X goes on and gets sad again because the problem was never solved.
I want to help, but I can't until I know what the problem is or what the situation it's in is like.
It's the engineer in me. -
DON'T FRIGGIN DIE
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Bump.
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I know you're trying to help, but people aren't machines, Tessa. So engineering has nothing to do with problem solving, but it's good you're willing to help.
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Bump.
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some ppl are just too stubborn and hot heads when u try to help
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There must be a person "D". A person like me who doesn't care about the fights and says random stuff :D
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Infinity NewbieHmm....good point.
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