I got in a fight with my dad again.
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Thread Topic: I got in a fight with my dad again.
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It wasn't even that bad. He was just teasing me and telling me to shut up and to go to my room, and I was staying quiet and just walked to my room and locked the door. But then my mom called me back out and said that she's sick of me and my dad fighting and that I need to stop being disrespectful to him, and that he also needs to stop telling me to shut up, and then I started crying and my dad started arguing with her saying that he did nothing wrong, so I just went back to my room, and I had a hair tie on my wrist, so I just snapped it about fifteen times, and I didn't really want to stop because the pain wasnt that bad for me, but I forced myself to stop anyway and threw it across the room, so I wouldn't be tempted again, and now my wrist is red and a little sore.
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are you gonna be ok?
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Yeah, I'll be fine. I'll shove everything deep within me again, not talk to him for a couple days, and then never tell him how much I despise him like I always do. Or maybe I'll just completely shut him out and not say anything.
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if you need to talk im here...
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I think I've finally reached the point of just not caring anymore and stopping fighting with him.
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Remind your father, if you do get married, never allow him to give you away. He's despicable.
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I guess I just don't understand why he's more nice to my sister than with me. I mean, aren't daughters suppose to be close to their dads?
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Oh yeah, I've already told my mom if I ever get married, my dad is not walking me down the aisle. Either my mom or my brother is.
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Yes, or your grandfather could give you away. Or walk the isle yourself.
I think since your sister is older, your dad is kinder to her. Possibly. -
The only grandfather I have left is on my dad's side and he's kinda creepy.
My sister is younger than me. My brother is older than me. -
Well, anyone but your dad. Your dogs have more sense and sensibility than your father.
The youngest ones get the most attention. -
I already know this. I've had that planned since two years ago.
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I still can't comprehend why your dad is acting this hostile. Was he always this way, since you were little?
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I'm not the best person to talk to about dad problems because, well I don't have one, but if you want to talk about anything anytime I'm all ears.
Also, I'm really proud of you for not hurting yourself. That in itself shows how strong you are. -
Well, he's always called me retarded, but it didn't really start getting bad till about two years ago when I actually stood up for myself and said that the way he's talking to me is like bullying, and he didn't like that too much. I just think that I actually stood up to him, and my brother didn't when my dad would yell at him for all the things he did wrong in basketball games, and he would make my brother cry too because of his yelling. I think my dad just likes to be in control of things, and that may be because of his anxiety and things not going his way, but he's not the only one with anxiety in this family.
Thanks, Brenna(?). But I don't think I'm strong enough if I'm thinking about just letting myself absorb all of his yellings, and then go cry in my room.
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