This thread will not be ignored.
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Thread Topic: This thread will not be ignored.
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Because I have something to say. I'm not going to hold back anymore.
First, I've decided to be more assertive and I have been for the past week or two. But that isn't going well because when I do try to be open, some of you get upset and/or angry. It's like everything gets twisted up. It isn't fair that when I come out, you get an attitude, but when others do.. you don't? Am I not taken very seriously in this matter? Am I not that important as other users? Why is it that when I say something upfront, I get all these attitudes? I don't deserve this. I want to be honest and upfront as well, just as much as you all want to. And the fact that I'm being treated like this is unfair completely. There really is no equality in this site, huh? You guys make me feel or look like the bad guy when I am not. That's for the past week when I started to be more open up.
For example, there are the tbh threads and I get lashed out for saying my own opinions? What is this? But others get a more respectful response? Fair enough. That is totaaaallly fair.
I honestly feel like you all want me to shut up. To be passive forever and to never have a say in anything when I want to. You want me to feel trapped again? I'm not going to go back to my passive self. I am not going to face the old weak Rosio. Because I'm not the one doing anything wrong. I am aware of what I do.
I got chewed on simply for saying something on here not too long ago and I asked a couple of friends "did I do something wrong?" "was I being mean?" They answered no. That just makes me think that I am not one of those users that should be respected. I'm not as important as Dark? Maru? Pine? Maddie? Or maybe the newer users such as Care_bear? And the other users many of you "respect"? I'm not them but it really isn't fair either. To not be taken seriously when you want to be and to not be as loved. You all give all of your respect to them. You all understand, accept, and nod your heads when they speak the truth, give opinions, and give straight forward comments. But when I try, I get this:
A: shut up rvelez!!!
B: why are you mean?!
C: *insert attitude here*
You guys get angry with me. Then you dislike me afterwards.
Oh, and this is why no one says anything straight up anymore. Because people have the nastiest attitudes. Because we get lashed out for no reason. We end up not trying anymore and YOU get angry because we are talking about your behind your " back".
I also don't like all of these fake friendships. If you're going to be petty and get upset/angry with me when I say something simple, you were never my friend. I hate people that like me only because the most " popular " users do. You don't get to know me. You just follow along. Just to fit in. Just to please others. Just to be accepted. Then what happens? You get upset or end up disliking me at the very end because you saw the real me. Because you can't "handle" the rest of me you never bother to know because you've been too focused on trying to get the actual people that you like to be pleased with you. Because I "grew" serious and not fun all of a sudden. Some of you are try-hards, and you kiss up. I would rather not continue these fake friendships. Heck, some of you don't even KNOW me. But...lol.. I'm still your friend? How? How did this happen? Was I dead for a while? Okay, " friends", answer these:
My favorite land animal:
Favorite flying animal:
Favorite water animal:
Favorite color:
Age?
Favorite anime character?
BET. BET some of you can't answer all of those.
Stop calling me your friend if you're going to turn against me that quickly. Stop calling me your friend if you're going to be like this towards me.
Oh, and I understand if I just met you. This goes for the people who are fake. Those who only care about me because their idols (lol yes I am saying idols because that's how you treat some of them) do.
And someone on here who I thought was my friend said I have been acting different or something like that. Or that they didn't like how I've been acting recently. So in other words, they don't like how I'm trying to be upfront, maybe? Not a real friend. You know who you are. You dropped me just like that.
I just want to be like everyone else. I want to be able to be up front about things. I don't want to keep things to myself anymore. If I can't say anything that I want, we have a problem here. -
I respect you for saying all this^
Not that my opinion matters, I'm just saying. I believe people should say what they want. I'm glad you have the nerve to stand up for yourself. You don't deserve that, no one does. -
Thank you.
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Finally, someone finally saw a flaw in all of this. This whole f---ing business is ridiculous and someone's social standing shouldn't depend on the way they conduct their opinions and thoughts on a website. *claps*
Even though I was one of them to not take your "assertiveness" into consideration, at that time I was just not in the mood to take any kind of "I don't feel like it" attitudes and I totally took it as a personal offense. To me, it totally just rubbed me the wrong way, because you were presenting yourself with much more emotional snarkiness than just the run-of-the-mill sarcastic and pessimistic rhetoric as it was much more brought with vigorous anger than "assertiveness". I'm sorry, I just took it the wrong way if I'm one of them. ._. -
I don't know the answer to some of those, but that doesn't mean I dislike you, Ro. And I believe you're free to say all of this and I think that you deserve the right to speak your mind.
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If I ever come off wrong, tell me. I don't want to be lashed out. But I also don't want to come out wrong. Either way, I'll eventually realize what I did wrong or if I didn't do anything at all.
No Dark, you see, you aren't one of those fake people. You might not know ALL things about me but you actually present a real friendship.
Thank you. -
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I'm going to do homework. Someone please bump this.
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