I hate that sometimes I can be so feminine.
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Thread Topic: I hate that sometimes I can be so feminine.
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Don't be sorry
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1. None of those things are inherently feminine. Being able to cook or sew doesn't make you a girl, it makes you a person who'll be able to survive in the real world. Additionally, everyone has fears. Just because you dislike bugs doesn't mean you're any less masculine. You (and your family) are buying into a forced concept of what it means to be a guy, one that hurts you and other men everywhere.
2. You don't have to come out to your family, unless it's killing you right now to be referred to as a girl. Find friends who you know will be accepting, and treat that as your safe space for now. There will be a time when you can fully express yourself. I'm sorry that that's not the case right now. -
Thank you.
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I'm gonna tell my mom. She's a b---- and she'll get really f---ing mad at me and there will be a huge fight, but she is open minded and I know she'll get over it in the end. She's the least judgy family member. I'll need her help. Plus, I don't see her so often anymore, so I don't have to deal with it all the time.
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You sure? Think about it for a little while before you do anything.
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Yeah. I'll have plenty of time to think since she picks us up at pretty random times and rarely ever makes me go. But I do want to do this, at least her. I don't even live with her. I'm ready. Besides, Mom's family isn't so much of an issue, since my older cousin is bisexual. My dad's family is what scares me.
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Plus, when my aunt somehow found out about my gender preference and was talking crap, my mom (the only other person who knows) got really pissed off and pretty much destroyed her. So I think it'll be okay.
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