At times I wonder what it'd be like to be friends
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Thread Topic: At times I wonder what it'd be like to be friends
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I think about all of the things we'd do that would make sense with us being friends. We'd probably do three-way roleplays, and make characters for each other, and draw things or create things for each other that would be to our liking. People would be glad for once that "oh hey look they've finally shut up" and we'd be happy that we're able to get along. The world would start spinning normally again, and we'd be three teenage (well, tween) girls that are living normal internet lives and having the time of our lives.
But then I think about all of the things that make us too similar. And then that makes it hard. When you want friends, you aren't looking for people exactly like you. You're looking for people with the same interests, maybe some tributes that are the same, but not like this. Not where you're almost a copy of someone else with different appearances or personalities.
And then it all comes down to this: I've become such an easy person to hate that it's not funny. I'm not funny. I try to make jokes, I try to be nice, and it comes crashing down on me that I'm never going to be friends with them. Br0wnieBunny doesn't like how I have rude-sounding jokes. I don't like how she seems to try to be rude to me. It's funny how similar these issues are, but that's only because we're merely almost copies of each other. AnimePhan doesn't like.. Well.. Everything about me. I don't like how she's a bit of a narcissist. Still slightly similar, right? (Don't answer that.) These are all minor problems that can be fixed. I'm sure of it. I'm sure I can start making real jokes like "omg who let the cat out of the bag wink wink" and Br0wnieBunny can say something like "Oh I'm glad you posted it doesn't matter" and I can be like "Hi AP" and she'll be like "How are you Dark? C:" and it'll all be good.
Right?
NO.
I think our main concern here- and the reason why we can never seem to be friends for too long- is because of the pressure everyone gives. All we're trying to do is be the bigger girl. We're trying to get our friends on our side. We're trying to see who's being the bigger person and so that leads to arguments, fights, drama, hate, and all of this other pointless stuff that I think wouldn't happen if we were allowed to sit and talk alone. But with you guys doing this:
(Bigger view here:
It'll never work. Every time we try to sit and argue out our feelings, someone has to come and and say "It won't work" or "Why do you guys even bother" or "God damn I told you not to be their friend so why are you trying"? Did you guys know that;
-When we're "fighting" or being rude to each other, we're actually just trying to let the other person know how we feel
-When we have these arguements, you guys are forcing it to be a popularity contest
-If you would let us argue/fight/whatever you want to call it out alone without help of the public, you're actually letting us talk to each other
Guys, with every mini war me and Br0wnie have, I feel like I'm finally getting to the core of our problem. And I'm sure she's thought of it that way at least once. She only opens up to me when she's mad or depressed, and I only open up when she does. If you would let us go on, this would be over. We'd be friends. We'd finally know what makes us upset, and we'd have been in the limelight together.
What I'm trying to say is.. I wonder if we can make it work. I want to be their friend. And I know it sounds stupid, but.. I'm tired of hiding. I want to be their friends. I don't wanna wonder, I want it to become reality. I want to finally change slightly. I want to be the bigger person. I'm sorry if you don't agree with me, but this is our chance to be friends. I hope you two (AnimePhan and Br0wnieBunny) will see this and agree. It's time to make the decision, do we want to finally let all of our hate out once and for all, or are we going to keep to ourselves and make everyone.. "Happy"? -
Eh... Am I allowed to give input on this?
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..I can already tell that it might be the same as always, but go ahead.
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That s--- is deep man... *Fake cry like a boss cos i'm bored*
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I only agree because this was really funny. c: And also I am sick and tired of arguing.
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Well, let's be realistic here. After many attempts of being friends with AP it really won't work.
And you always get mad at Brownie easily and such o.o It's been that way for a few months. -
c: I am just not gonna say anything because the more you say that Shido, the more I dislike you.
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Aaaand even if it does work out, it wouldn't last long, either.
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Good o.o
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;-; It was funny? I was trying to be as serious and uplifting as possible. Same here.
DAMMIT I KNEW IT
GO LOOK AT THAT COMIC, READ THAT SECTION, AND COMMENT AGAIN
I'm sure that it will. I honestly only argue with her because I worry my friends will get upset that I won't listen to their opinions. I've been hiding because everyone has hinted in one way or another that I should.
I'm trying hard not to. :/ This was an effort not to get mad.. -
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Now I'm just upset. Why can you guys not believe in us? -
Personally you guys would be good friends, but you all started on the wrong foot and well that in the ways of fate kinda screwed up your guys chances of being friends. Also when you guys are being friendly, it doesn't last very long.
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Are you kidding? That was uncyclopedia material. :P
Dark, the only opinions that matter in this situation is yours, if that makes any sense
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We started on the wrong foot and we've been on the wrong foot. I'm trying to make it so we can be friends. It's not that hard to be nice to someone. ;-;
it didn't ;w; -
^Anri is right on
Dark, because we witnessed it many times before.
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