>wakes up from a nightmare
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Thread Topic: >wakes up from a nightmare
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So, it's Thanatophobia or Phobia of death.Hmmm...It's very complicated and one who has Thanatophobia is afraid of dying.And sometimes when they see someone death they are very afraid of it!
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Gracious I know the goddamn phobia. I don't want your help!
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Oh, well I can relate to that. I actually have a fear of people I love dying as well. It's not your fault though. Your mind is taking your worst fear and making you face it. A dream is a lie. You're not at fault. Maybe the best thing we do with dreams about our fears is try to use them in a positive means in real life. As in, tell the people you love how much you care and cherish your time with them while they're here.
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But...I can't handle seeing it happen. She keeps telling me it's my fault...that dark part of me that never goes away, she keeps telling me that everything is my fault. Then when it gets to Nick...*starts crying* I-I start to lose i-it.
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Sorry anri.But that's not fair!If you don't want my help and you can say it Politely!No need to say this:I don't want your help!
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Okay, I'm doing some googling and research on this. This dark part of you as you say is very likely a continuing voice in your head of what you're actually telling yourself in your waking life. Do you tell your this frequently, that the misfortune of others is your fault? That you feel like a bother?
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I feel...like the world is better off without me. But that's been...fed to me by my sister. Along with...all the things that happened to us...was my fault. I believe...I'm to be blamed for everything...*hugs myself tightly*
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But the thing is, with this kind of thinking we don't realize that there are other factors in the world then just ourselves. Just because your sister tells you these things, or even believes them herself, does not make them fact.
You are no more guilty then any other human being on the planet. We all make mistakes, big and small. You're not to be blamed for everything because no human being is to be blamed for everything. -
I guess...
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Can anybody tell me what's the matter ?I can help:)If you want my help?
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