I'm seriously going to cry now

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Thread Topic: I'm seriously going to cry now

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    MusikRox Novice
    ...That's really sad... ;3; I almost cried.
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    @HK thst makes you sound prejudiced against lesbians because they're gay females T_T
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    DragonKitty Junior
    Can you explain HK? Not meaning to start an argument here...I'm actually just curious.
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    NO ONE ANSWERED
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    Moyashi Experienced
    HK, No one said all straights are against it. Many people support it. No matter what they are. And if you have and accept friends whom are different, then obviously it's not that wrong to you.
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    musicgirl Experienced
    If you think it's morally wrong to be lesbian, gay, or bi, then you're saying that you have friends against morals. Most people look for people with the same morals to be-friend.

    Also, you can't "not let yourself" be bi. It either happens or it doesn't. If you were attracted to girls, there's nothing that would stop you.

    I honestly don't care about why you feel that way. I know it won't change how I feel, and I know it will just make me mad, and closed off to any other ideas.
  • Ok, I knew people would take me wrong. I'll try to explain...

    I think it's wrong because it's unnatural. It causes diseases, hurt, prejudice, etc.. I don't believe it was ever intended. The whole reason for a romantic relationship (when you get right down to it) is to create life, and a woman and a woman and a man and a man cannot do that...

    Also, I'm a Christian. And the Bible is very clear that homosexuality is wrong.. But God never tells us not to be-friend gays, lesbos, and bi's... He tells us to love everyone.

    I respect the fact you believe it is not possible to stop yourself from being bi. But it actually is possible. Attraction is just emotions. You don't HAVE to act on them. True love is a CHOICE. It's Not a feeling or an emotion. Emotions can be swayed and changed. And when you feel attracted to someone, it doesn't have to stay, because you aren't trully in love. You have to choice to love someone, and I chose not to love girls in that way...

    IDK if I'm making any sense... I'll post later and explain better. I can't think late at night =\....

    I don't want anyone to be offended. Pleeeease don't!! Because I HATE prejudice and judging of any kind...
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    It's too late for me to reply in a rant to that so i can poke holes in everything so Imma make small comments

    "It causes diseases, hurt, prejudice, etc.."
    Everyone get's the same STDs no matter what sexuality, prejudice exists everywhere, and there are more heterosexual relationships so theres MORE hurt from that since i always hear people complainin bout their gfs/bfs

    The bible ALSO says you should kill your family, friends, everyone thats innocent just because they don't believe in god

    You cannot control your emotions
    True love is NOT a choice, if it was, I wouldn't love that sonofab---- and he wouldn't love me to the point he can't live without me

    Emotions may be changable, but it hurts, it hurts more to change who you are and try to stop the love than the s--- you get for being gay, believe me, I tried to change

    I choose to love everyone regardless, I'm not gay/bi but if someone of the same gender happens to like me, I'll give it a try, not for me, but for them.
  • @04 - not to be rude, but do you ever read the Bible?? The bible ALSO says you should kill your family, friends, everyone thats innocent just because they don't believe in god I'd like to know WHERE it says that!!!!

    Emotions are controllable. Ok, I haaaate to say this, you have no iiiiideeeaaa how muchhh, cuz i get s*** for this, but that's where maturity plays in. And true love is a choice. If it was just emotions, everytime you fight with ur lover, u would fall out of love. And that's not true love if it's THAT unstable. You have to choice to love someone, or it will never ever stay...
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    Moyashi Experienced
    It's not really much of a choice. Sometimes people aren't attracted to the opposite sex at all. Like Uruha. I have a great feeling that he's gay. Why? He seems really CLOSE to Aoi and he hates to see a woman's body exposed. So it's not a choice the majority of the time. Bi-curious is probably a choice, to figure out if you're truly bisexual. And ya know, God says to 'love everyone' yet homosexuals and non believers are supposedly damned to hell. So it appears 'God' is a hypocrite.
    By the way, I'd talk to Ana about this sometime if I were you. She'll probably have some points of her own.
  • @Moyoshi - yes, love everyone. Hate the sin, love the sinner... Yes, they are damned to hell, IF they know it's wrong and never make an effort to change. It's proof you are not really His child if you do not try to follow His teaching.

    If you are not attracted to the opposite sex, cool! Saves you the drama of having romantic relationships... Single people aren't always miserable, ya know...
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    I studied the goddamn bible woman, I can't pull up the exact page at the moment cause i can't find it but i KNOW it's in there, ask anyone.

    Then that's not true love. True love is uncontrollable. You're talking about petty crushes.
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    Carri04 Hot Shot
    I meant I can't find my bible, it's somewhere in the living room..
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    Moyashi Experienced
    Uruha probably isn't single...I just told you. He's VERY CLOSE to Aoi. Which means, guitarist homo love! :D
    Yay~ for Uru-kun and Aoi-san.
  • @04 - It's not there. It's not. Good luck finding it :)...

    May I be so bold as to say it's vice versa?? Petty crushes are when you just "fall" for someone, but the next sweet, hot girl/guy you meet steals ur heart again. True love is when you chose to love someone, and chose never ever to fall in love with someone else!!!!

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