If u were pregnant

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Thread Topic: If u were pregnant

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    TheLoveOfBands Hot Shot
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    TheLoveOfBands Hot Shot
    All

    :V abort it Abort it abort it
    But you don't want to


    Then he gets mad at you for not aborting the child
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    TheLoveOfBands Hot Shot
    Is that even love? Is it a two person decision, or just the mother's?


    Mind you you're 17 and the guy is 19 you've been together for 2 years and both in college living with parents. You don't work only your boyfriend does. He wants you to abort because

    He's not ready to be a dad
    Not economically stable
    Is still a student


    You don't want to abort bc you want the child and because you're scared of dying
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    TheLoveOfBands Hot Shot
    What would you guys do if you were in the mother's situation?
  • bouncebakk Newbie
    Lol
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    Nuna Senior
    There should be no reason as to why you would die during an abortion unless you did some weird back alley shady stuff or this was the 1920's...but I would keep my baby. He only has a say after the baby is born. Until then she gets to make all the decisions because it's her body
  • bouncebakk Newbie
    ^Because keeping the baby and making the dude who's not ready for a child mainly because he's financially unstable have to pay child support

    GTFO
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    Nuna Senior
    But making a girl who doesnt wanna abort her baby do so is the better option. Because that makes total sense.
  • bouncebakk Newbie
    Yeah it does if you understand other people's mindsets but IG that doesn't matter in this data and age
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    Nuna Senior
    But she doesnt want to abort. Her mind is set on keeping the baby. So it wouldn't make sense for her to do it just to please the man. Besides the post said nothing about whether or not she was gonna make him be apart of the babys life. If he doesnt want the baby and she does, that's a pretty simple solution. She keeps the baby and he doesnt have anything to do with it.
  • bouncebakk Newbie
    I'm not even gonna try to read a whole paragraph but I went through a similar experience and all I have to say is lol
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    therealminime Senior
    ^no you didn't


    Abortion is a super sensitive topic for a lot of people to talk about whether you've aborted a baby or have had thoughts of one, etc. It certainly isn't an easy decision to make. It's a human life you'd be taking. I personally think ultimately the mother should make the decision seeing as she's the one who carries the baby, but the two of you should discuss it long and hard, and take it serious before coming to a decision.
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    therealminime Senior
    Not sure if this helps or not
  • bouncebakk Newbie
    You don't know me so you can't say if it didn't happen or not
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    Aborting a child is sad honestly its bith choice but its more the mothers i say its just the mothers because shes going to nurture it and care for it more

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