Please can someone help me

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Thread Topic: Please can someone help me

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    1714 Hot Shot
    I need help
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    Dark22978 Hot Shot
    With?
  • Relevant Novice
    no
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    1714 Hot Shot
    Problems. Relationship problems.
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    Dark22978 Hot Shot
    Tell me more and I'll try to help
    I might move this to the front porch just because of mod duties but I'll still be here
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    1714 Hot Shot
    Thanks for this and I understand.

    So there's this guy that I am dating and ever since Monday (this week) he started acting strange. He would usually talk to me normally like we always do, nothing wrong, and then throughout like maybe 5 minutes of the conversation he would just leave all of my messages on seen and would barely respond to me. I would keep begging him to tell me to answer me and to respond to me but he would keep kind of dismissing me. Today I screwed up badly. As he would ignore me and we only had like a conversation of just bare words being communicated (with absolutely no reason he has told me yet but he was in class so he was preoccupied) I accused him of hitting up another girl and then he said I was wrong and that what I accused him of was that it was just a groupchat to be in with his friends and we argued about it for a short amount of time with him saying, "yeah I did send it to girls because that's how a groupchat f---ing works" and then he said that he knew those girls longer and that it's all them over me. To have someone you're in a relationship say that to you f---ing hurts, especially when you were trying to get them to communicate more to you. I believed him but then I kept sending messages to him and asking, "Why do you keep ignoring me?" and he said that I b---- all of the time about everything. And I sent a rage-filled paragraph saying that if you can't communicate with me well of course I would have something to b---- about because you're not even telling me what I did wrong and you're not even trying to tell me what I did wrong. So I'm afraid of losing them and I am pretty much going to avoid them because right now all he's doing is just making me depressed and upset. I want to cry because I don't even understand how I "b----ed" earlier on and he won't even hear me out, he just continues leaving me on seen.
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    Alli Advanced
    f--- him . Get a better guy. But I'm in middle school don't know s---
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    1714 Hot Shot
    lmao
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    Dark22978 Hot Shot
    I'm gonna need some time to type advice
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    Mused Jade Experienced
    I don't mean to but in, or intrude so I hope I'm okay in saying the Drew.

    He doesn't sound like a person you should be with. A relationship requires communication and if he isn't going pick up his end of the load and straighten up, you need to find someone better. A relationship can't be one sided, and from the way you are describing it, he doesn't want to help in maintaining a healthy relationship.
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    1714 Hot Shot
    Okay


    True
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    Irrelevance Junior
    dump his ass
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    1714 Hot Shot
    I don't even know anymore.
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    Alli Advanced
    ^
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    breadboy69 Novice
    I didn't read it but dump his b---- ass
    If you gotta type that much it's not worth it

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