My parents are getting divorced
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Thread Topic: My parents are getting divorced
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5sos NewbieI feel so numb. Nothing this horrible has ever happened to me. I guess you can say Ive had it too easy. Until now.
My dad cheated on my mom with (according to my mom) several different women for like two years. After announcing their divorce to me, I went to my room. They had a huge fight. After that, my mom stormed into my room and told me very harshly, Dont tell your friends about our family problems. They will only bully you.
For some reason, that set me off. I think it was her tone or that she was taking her anger out on me so I raged at her back, Why are you getting mad at me? I didnt cheat on anybody! This is your problem!
I realize that I may have crossed the line with this is your problem I shouldnt have said that. But it just slipped out.
Now shes ranting like a madwoman. I feel the urge to call the police, I know I shouldnt, but I really really do. Shes going crazy and saying some really mean stuff like, You go live with your father youre going to turn out to be a liar and cheater, just like him. I dont want you to live with me.
Which hurts because if I had to choose, I would choose to live with my mom. And Im not a liar or a cheater. Never.
What should I do? Please help, someone. My mom forbade me to talk to my friends, so I can only seek advice here. -
Fire Fresh NewbieI'm not good at this topic but,
If you really feel that your mom is right that your dad cheated her, and you really wish to stay with her after the divorce, try to calm her down. She must be really upset. Prove to her that there's atleast one person who'll never leave her.
Meanwhile, you can also sneak in to hear what your father has got to say on this matter. Maybe this is just a false accusation due to some misunderstanding.
Try to stop the divorce if you feel both the parties are just seperating due to misunderstandings. If not then, comfort your mum. Say sorry for the earlier behaviour and be the way she wants you to be.
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Girl_Almighty NewbieMy parents got a divorce when I was 4 years old.I couldnt wrap my head around it that my mom was so poor that we had to ride the bus to work,we lived with my gramn parents.We had no money.My biological dad wouldnt pay child support so he hid away from the cops for 7 yeard until they just caught him 3 months ago.Now im almost 12 and I live in a beautiful house with my mom and step dad.I love them.Befor that,we were in trailors.They have better jobs now and my biological dad is in jail.Im said about that.I havent seen him since the divorce.I know I will see him when Im an adult.I miss you daddy.
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Girl_Almighty NewbieJust to lift our spirits,I used to think that my biological dad was mexican because he looked tan and had dark brown hair.Turns out he is tan because hes from Cali.Hes been in the sun a lot.C'mon!I was 4!
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Don't call the cops kid >.> you'll make a bad situation worse. So you're dads disloyal and your mothers a nut case. Parents aren't perfect, it happens sometimes chica. My advice is to realize that this is life and not worry about it
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My parents got divorced when I was seven and I gave no f---.
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