i like a guy?

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Thread Topic: i like a guy?

  • heres how i met him.i was sitting alone during lunch because my friend went to go hang out with her other friends.shes not like a b---- though im just really quiet and i get boring to be around after a while.anyways i was just sitting alone and he just sat next to me.my heart was beating a lot and i was so shy to say anything so i didn't but he didn't say anything either(unless he did I just couldn't hear) he literally just sat right next to me the entire lunch period without a word.then it happened agian a few days later.my friend knew him so she sat with us and she just started talking.eventually i got to know him more.he seems really shy too.he has a very quiet voice so its hard to hear in the cafeteria.i just say the dumbest things around him because i like him so much.not on purpose i just get nervous.i wanna tell him i like him but its so hard because im not an emotional person in real life and hide everything so well.im afraid to tell him since it might weird him out and not talk to me anymore.not that we really talk much,we usually just sit together during lunch and watch everyone.sometimes i wonder if he only hangs out with me because he feels bad or whatever.god i feel like a stupid girl venting like this.any ideas on how to orta let him know i like him,or to find out if he likes me? I know its so much easier to just go on and ask but im just so socially awkward and stuff so its not so easy.
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    Haylii2 Experienced
    I find it hilarious that newbs come here to get relationship advice only xDDDD

    Solution to your problem= No, I think he friendzoned you, and feels safe with you. Ask some of his friends if he likes anyone, and watch his body language
  • haha nope.im actually trying to chill here and make friends and kill time before bed haha.

    thanks though!
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    Haylii2 Experienced
    Lol no probs xD I'm just saying most newbies come here for relationship advice.
    Friends? Hope I'm one of them lol
  • haha im friends with anyone who is nice haha.yeah i noticed that lol.
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    Haylii2 Experienced
    XD haha Oh well, I do hope he likes you! Who knows... I may be wrong :3
    Btw, my names Kayla
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    ICEE CHILL Novice
    I'm with artofthegraves on this one.
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    Haylii2 Experienced
    Love you too Icee >.< jks
  • haha i hope so too kayla! i don't think he does though :/ oh well :P
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    Ardeo9999 Experienced
    well what it said above that is kind of cute of him to do and i would say become friends and dont rush things, if you and him are meant to be then things will move along eventually. :)
  • haha yeah,im trying to take things slowly.thanks!
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    Haylii2 Experienced
    Lol art and yeah, I can't love him... I haz a girlfriend :3
  • awh thats cool :)

    haha yeahh aghh this is so weird for me,ive never actually liked a guy like this before.
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    6 6 sick Senior
    You say he's shy,just give some time and he'll come around.Or maybe try asking him out yourself.I'm a shy guy myself and a lot of great relationships started off with the other asking me,it reliefs pressure.Another tip,if you do decide to ask him out do it alone,friends giggling about could embarrass the dude or make him not take you seriously.Good luck!

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