If you like two guys, which one should you choose? | Comments
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Person 1 & I have known eachother for 6 years, talking on & off for 2years. After 3 months of being in a relationship, long story short I found myself saving him from going to jail, arguments, & being alone BUT hes very supportive, a provider, & caring. Vs. Person 2 & I been official for 2 months. Hes sweet, patient and kind. Hes going through a rough patch so right now im holding him down and I know tough times dont last forever but I can only put up with so much.. besides his financial situation. I went through his phone & found he was talking to other females & elaborating on how he would perform oral sex.. not 1..2 but 3 times !! AND changed his password & that hurt me because I told him my hurt from my past relationships & it really messed my trust. When I confront him its im sorry, its my fault. Even if he doesn't cheat on me physically, he could be cheating mentally. Neither man or relationship is perfect & I love them both but refuse to go through disrespect just to be happy.
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This kid we met in 6th grade so I didnt really think of him that much we had almost all our classes together, there was this one class I hated it was hard for me. So him and I sat next to each other he helps whenever I ask and he always knows a way to make me laugh like when Im mad and wouldnt smile somehow he knows how to make me smile again. His really funny,kind,and Cute. One of his friends told me that he made fun of my last name I asked him in class if he did he was like Noo I would never do that and he stands up and talks to the guy that told me . We always tease each other and smile a lot whenever we are together There was times we cant stand each other it was like love and hate kinda thing but he would never say anything that would hurt me. I tell my best friend about him and she tells him and he smiles and talks to me everytime there was a time he left for a vacation to another countrys and he told me before he told anyone Elsa and he said he would be back in 3 weeks but it seemed longer than that I started missing him and stuff I ask his friend and his friend tells him that I was looking for him. He knows I like him and I know he likes me but we cant tell each other I still have feelings for him. This other guy we go way back I have known him since elementary and we hated each other in elementary school we always get each other in trouble we fought the most said the most hurtful stuff to one another so after a year it was time to go back to school we had all the classes together he would look at me and roll his eyes, after a week He comes up to me and asked me if we could be friends I said no he was like I wont take no for a answer so he goes back and gets his books from his table and comes and sits in my table Im like no a girl sits here his like I dont care. He was like I know we couldnt stand each other but I hope we could be friends now Im like no I dont want to be your friend than his like go out with me and I say no He kept talking and the teacher co
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Person 1 and person 2 are two guys i'm friends with. Person 1 is totally my type, he's serious, has a good sense of humor. We both have romantic interest for eachother, we always act like a couple when we're together. Kissing/ cuddling and stuff. But he consufes me, because he said that he's better off alone so he can do whatever he wants, yet tells me he misses me like crazy everyday. Person 2 is a guy who likes me and would want a relationship with me. we kisses a couple of times. He's sweet and kind and we laugh a lot, but i just don't feel all the emotions i feel with person 1 with him... he's not my type at all either.. i can't even think of getting in a relationship with him, instead i wish i was in one with person 1
kikis1-
Dude... person 1 is leading you on for nothing and still keeping u treating you like a toy as if he owns you. Person 2 is the ideal choice
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I've been dating this guy for months now, but I realized recently that my feelings just arent as strong for that person as they are for the new person. I dont want to crush the person's heart I'm dating though, as they love me very much. The person I am interested in has made multiple moves on me. So yeah.
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Just tell the person you are dating that you think its time to take a break and its time to see other people. Also say that you still have feelings for them but its not as strong as it used to be then go from there
Girl1231
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I like this guy named Tad and he always looks at me but I dont know if he actually likes me what should I do?
G1Brad1-
Well I would say you should try to get close with him and start asking people if he likes anyone or if you are up for it ask him if he likes anyone
Girl1231
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So I just met person #1 and he is super cute and nice and person #2 I have known for a while and we love to tease each other and I like him a lot and my friends don't know I like him but they tease me saying that he is my soulmate and stuff. I don't even know if either of them like me. I have no idea which one to choose!
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Which one makes you more happy? Which one can you see yourself with in the future
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Person 1 (a guy i met recently) is really nice to me and we tease each other all the time. He makes me laugh and he will always try to get my attention and makes sure im in a good mood. I never really thought of him as anything until recently cause he grabbed my thigh (ik ik so childish) but he had done this 3 times now and sometimes he says things to me that i cant get out of my head for the rest of the day. Person 2 (my first boyfriend) him and i go way back and dated for half a year. We broke up because we were starting a new year at a different school and thought it would be beat because we wouldnt see eachother. He got a girlfriend 2 weeks later and i really wanted him back. I have liked him for 3 years now(ik such a long time) I always felt like i missed the relationship but then him and i staryed talking again recently (friends) and then he started looking at me like how he used to. He knows so much about me and i know alot about him and he makes me laugh and we can both just talk about things for hours. We tease each other. So I really dont know what to do.
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Someone please give advice
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I understand, I like someone I go to a gifted program with but I think Im being friend zoned I need help too!
G1Brad1 -
I feel like you should see which guy truly makes you feel happy. Does either of them make you feel safer and more comfortable to be around? Idk thats just my opinion you might want others
Girl1231 -
Chose wisely. It may be the best one u chose, or the worst. For more advice visit my advice column but I'll chose one that is cool comfortable and friendly with fierce loyalty
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I'm in a very similar situation rn. Could you please telk me which one you chose and how it went? I would be most grateful.
Anon56011
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I got person 2. But i know i love person 1 more. What do i do?
Quest251-
If you truly love person 1 more then you love person 1 more. This is just a test but it honestly means nothing cause a test can be wrong sometimes so if you think person one is the best then go with person one
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The guy1 is my ex he really loved me but somethings were there coz of which I couldn't love him when we were in the relationship the second guy seemed sad but he didn't show anything so I can stay happy with him but at a point it affected me , my ex was really really overprotective for he didn't like any of my male friends he wanted me all for himself he always wanted to talk to me even in my study time this realllllyy pissed me of . The guy2 is my best friend we know each other from kindagarden and he loves me from7th grade but never expressed he always respect my decision , he never treats me like only his gurrlll he takes me as an independent girl whom he loves and helpful me to recover my grades my mind etc he confessed me his feelings a month ago and I was really happy coz I too wanted this but after one month of our breakup my ex is madly trying to contact me and cries saying that he wants sends me gifts Sketches he left everything i hated , takes me out Pampers me and he when he new my best friend proposed me he was all mad crying and telling me not to accept it he even drunkdiled me once crying and stuff .. look I am really happy with person2 and can Imagine myself with him but my ex always pokes between us and it's difficult for me to see someone like this I don't know what to do I asked him to move on and even helped him to move on but he never understands this
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Person 2 all the way!
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Person 1 is the guy i've had a crush on since last year. at first i thought he liked my friend (lets call her taylor) who liked him since childhood. one day, however, she asked him who he likes and he said that he liked me since last year. even if she said that it was ok, i didn't tell her that i liked him back because i could tell she was heartbroken. a few days later, person 1 told her that he has mixed feelings for me and another girl. i ended up trying to get over him because i could tell he liked her more, even if he showed some affection towards me. for some reason, it got awkward between us. we stopped talking and i felt we were drifting a bit. taylor got more closer to him, and i felt like he liked her because he treated her so differently and cared for her so much. recently, however, i found out that the girl he liked started dating someone else. he started to act like normal again. i can tell that he sometimes tries to mess with me by taking my stuff, making weird jokes about me, and smiling every time he talks to me. he also doesn't like it when i talk to other guys.
Person 2 is the guy who confessed to me recently. coincidentally, during the period it got awkward between me and person 1, he and i got closer into really close friends. he started texting me everyday and i've felt like i've been nicer to him because he has a low level of confidence. there were times i felt like i did like him but i quickly dismissed it, thinking that i thought of him as a brother. however, he started dropping hints that he liked me, but i thought we were really close "sibling friends". he finally confessed to me but told me that he knew i didn't like him...he asked if we could be friends. i told him to give me time, and i talked to my friends about it. i figured out that i most likely do like him, since i feel so happy when im with him. so i told him that i do like him but just isn't ready to date. he said "i understand and im not surprised. i wasn't going to ask you out
mishmish0-
Hey I know sometimes it happens that you like the person but you aren't ready to date them maybe some personal issues fear and etc... But I think that u should not think about person 1 as he seems like a playboy and he is just playing with girls and the other guy loves you a lot and is ready to do things in which you are comfortable too if you want to take things slowly he is ready to wait for you if you don't wanna date him ok but talk to him , hangout etc maybe it brings something that makes things more clear for you . My was answer was totally bases on your comment and was a little help I can't judge someone but that's what I feel after reading ur comment so I hope it helps.
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Guy 1 is my boyfriend and guy 2 is my Bestfriend which also happens to be my boyfriends Bestfriend, but Heres another thing, guy 2 is ALSO...... my ex. I know its messed up in a way and I already confessed to guy 1 (boyfriend) that I still had feelings for guy 2 but I also liked him, he wasnt mad about it he was thankful that I was honest with him and he said he kinda knew about it already and we talked blah blah blah but he states that as long as nothing happens between me and guy 2 and as long as I soon get over my feelings for guy 2, I can continue my relationship with him (guy 1) but what makes it even worse is that I found out guy 2 also still has feelings for me....... my results in the test was guy 2 btw......
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Guy 1 is this boy that I have a weird relationship with. First, I liked him because he was cute. But then, he started being rude and he was insulting me. Soon I hated him and never wanted to talk to him again. However, a few weeks ago I saw him again and he smiled the best smile I've ever seen on his face, and we talked for some time. I started crushing on him HARD. But I didn't see him after that and I'm scared that he'll go back to insulting me. So I've been trying to hate him, but I can't stop thinking about him. ALso, I'm pretty sure he has a girl
Person 2: is this boy in a lower grade than me, but the same age as me. He's funny and nice, but i don't think that he likes me that much, and once he ignored me.
There's this other thing that they both look related. Maybe I have a type, and I've seen then together. But I dont know........
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This comes down to you and you just have to think about who do you truly like more like who do you see yourself with in the long run. Who do you see your self with when you are older
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Guy 1 is me ex with whom I've been in love for the last 3 years. We ended pretty bad, he found a gf, but we recently started talking again (friendly) and there's sth about the way that he still looks at me idk, I think I'm still kinda in love with him. Guy 2 is one of my greatest guy friends. We've known each other since we were 5 (we met at a playground lol). He is a really sweet guy, he's hilarious and caring, though I never saw him more than a friend till recently. We were teasing each other (I was telling him that he'll never get a girlfriend) and then i realized that the reason for that was that i wanted him. He's not as nearly as hot as my ex, but he's so sweet and we get along so well, we can talk about everything. Anyways I'm kinda lost because I've just started to talk again with my ex after 8 months, but even though I don't want to admit it, I think I'm catching feelings for my friend. Plz help me
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Its all down to you! If you feel like person 2 could be great at lifting spirits and would never lay a finger or hurt you in anyway I think he could be the better choice. In my opinion looks is just a bonus personality is the main thing we seek. And I dont know the whole story about person 1 (your ex) if he found a girlfriend within the relationship he had with you then that could possibly repeat which you dont want however you and him split and he found a girlfriend straight after it may be a no no. In my opinion person 2 is the better option, hope this helped?
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Yes Taylah! I seriously am still confused. Guy 1 has a gf,, but I still like him. Guy 2 is super nice, he likes me and is super funny, but he's younger than me. Neither one would ever hurt me, I kinda want to have a fun relationship with guy 2 for now and date and possibly marry guy 2 when I'm older.
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Person 1 is my current boyfriend of over a year. Recently, my best friend, Person 2, revealed that he has feelings for me which I had begun feeling as well. I attempted to break up with my boyfriend, but it was so difficult for me that I felt I was meant to be with him. Things were okay for a while and then my best friend started arousing feelings again.
My boyfriend is so safe. He is calm and my family loves him. My best friend is so not safe. I can tell he would create chaos in my life and I am unsure if he would care for me like I wish for. My mom doesn't like him nearly as much as my boyfriend.
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DONT GO FOR PERSON TWO HES NOT WORTH IT
If you are already in a secure relationship that your family know about and support you for dont give up something as precious as that for your best friend. Simply say to he/she that you are already in a relationship and that you hope that you can stay friends
Hope this helped
ThatOneBiLoser
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I like 1! Person 2 basically broke ma heart! Person 2 said he liked me back one day. I said me too! Then he never even TALKED to me! So 💔!😠But it's cool now cuz I fell hard for a guy in ma school who's name is Carlos. But he only talks to this girl named Lindsay.😰 But ma BFF here says Carlos likes me and I asked how? She said she just knows. She's never wrong. Which is true. She said in the past Person 2 likes ma! AND SHE WAS RIGHT!:0
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Ok so Person 2 is my current boyfriend. He's an amazing boyfriend and he cares about me a lot and brings me presents like flowers and earrings. I always had no problem being committed to him, but I recently befriended a girl (Person 1) who I started to develop feelings for too. Her and I have kissed before, and I feel like it's a possibility that she's interested in me. The quiz said I should go for Person 1, which sounds like it would be a good idea, but I don't know what to do and I'm scared of losing my boyfriend and then regretting it. Does anyone have any advice for me?
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If you have been getting feelings for another people while dating someone. You obviously don't like person 2 if you are thinking and kissing person one. I would try not to drag the boyfriend on too long because it's no use if you don't think you like him and you are also wasting his time.
ldndjd1
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fell in love with person 1, a gentleman named Khoi, but person 2, a weirdo named Seth, hit on me and now I'm developing a small crush on him! but I'm in love with Khoi, and the quiz said person one. but he doesn't like me...
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Person 1 is my guy best friend. Person 2 had a crush on me earlier this school year.
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So... Person 1 called George gas been my crush for 5-6 years! He knew this but we just stuck to being friends. He has a girlfriend though. Then for a few months i have had a second crush on person 2.. Matthew. The funny thing is they are best friends! Now me and matthew were together for only 24 hours!! He said it was too awkward and we should be friends... he knows i like him still but has made it clear he isn’t interested.. the test said Matthew.. i will try!!
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Omg I thought I was the only one who loves two different guys... it’s really hard for me because Ryan is person number 1, he lives in South Carolina and I live in jersey city and it’s complicated being in a long distance relationship with him and mostly we argue and other negative things coming but we always find a way to come back closer again... sometimes I think we’re gonna break up again because we argue too much because it happened the first time, we broke up because he said that we argue too much and I was heartbroken for one whole month until person 2 showed up name Eric... he was like a friend to me but he loved me ever since I’m the beginning and I mean this dude literally has very strong feelings for me and he’ll do anything and I mean anything for me... he says I love you to me every single day and he says that he does everything for me and he wants me to be happy everyday and have a good life with me and love me forever until the day he dies... he’s very passionate and sweet, funny, cute, smart, funny, goofy, etc... I still love Eric but I’m also with Ryan but it’s hard to choose who I love, I can’t choose between both of them, I mean wow
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I got person 2.
Well person 1 is a player and he dosen't actually like me, I think. But I really like him. Person 2 is a friend who likes me and I like him but I dont feel so entusiastic as I feel when I see person 1 and when I hug him or kiss him..
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arrrg help needed!!!!!!!!So I LOVE 2 boys and der both great they make me laugh and whenever im with them i feel so happy. the thing is ive loved person for years, hes 1 year older and i thought i got over him because i started having feelings for person 2 who is the same age as me but then all of sudden my feelings for person 1 has come back and my feeings for person 2 has pasted the crush stage. Also their both my bestfriends i dont know how they feel about me but their both big flirts and always flirt with me and i just dont know what to do!!!!!
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I knew I liked person 1 before but I thought I moved on to 2... Once person 2 found out I liked him it kinda got weird and my feelings are going away. I honestly think I love person 1... I don't know what to do... Person 2 likes me. Person 1 doesn't only as really good friends. But I really do like person 1. I don't even know
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I got 1
