My life is done.
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Thread Topic: My life is done.
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Hailey, it's my mom. Do you know how hard it would be to ignore her? She just stormed out of the house. I have no clue what to do. I know for sure I don't want to go back to counseling, but I just want all this stuff to stop.
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How about sitting down with your mom and talk to her about how you feel. Just you and her. Tell her how you feel about your realationship between each of you family members, including her. Tell her you'd like these problems to change. And tell her why you act the way you do.
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I tried. She screamed at me. I told her we don't talk because we don't have common interests and there's nothing I need to talk out, but she just thinks I'm still a stupid fragil kid that's going to resort to self harm for everything.
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Be stern but gentle. Say, "Mom, we need to talk." "Please listen to me and try to be calm about this." Maybe start the conbersation out with an I'm sorry, even though you've done nothing wrong.
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I've tried that too. She'll just get snippy and refuse to talk. I know you're trying to help, and I appreciate that so much, but I know what will and won't work.
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karzon Newbiemy mums the same. plus she thinks of me as jerk. and she tries to tun people against me. and etc.
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How do you deal with it?
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Hmmm, how about getting to your mom through your sister.
I'm not giving up on you. -
My sister doesn't listen to me. She wouldn't support me when I tried to tell the state about being molested.
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karzon NewbieToday she said she doesnt care about me at all.
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How about gaining her trust first. Do the things she does. It may be a long process, but it might work.
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@karzone Oh..
@Hailey what she does, okay I might be able to do that. She hates pretty much everything that has to do with me though. . . Thanks for the advice though, I need it. -
Just try it untill Sunday. See how it goes. Maybe it will work.
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karzon NewbieHmm it really depends on the type of mother. For example: im the best in my class and have alot of friends. I try to do housework as much as i can. But my mum doesnt look at my achievments. she argues about stuff i havent done
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@Hailey okay. I was thinking try to be nice so I don't have to go to counseling. Like say hi in the morning faster, visit my grandparents, etc.
@karzone that sucks. :/ My mom is kind of like that too. But I'm a b---- so I don't have friends.
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