woah
Thread Topic: woah
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my parents just told me i can't listen to coldplay at all because they're "gay" and it's a "bad example for my brother" even though they never sing about being gay or any of that, and personally i see no issue with it but then again they're the hypocritic type of people who set double standards ://
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i really hate how much i trusted them, i genuinely feel like they've brainwashed me because they've always been trump supporters and made me believe trump was a "good guy" just because he was anti-lgbtq (which he didn't seem so anti-lgbtq with bill ðŸ˜ðŸ˜) and because that's "right" in whatever world they're living in. my mom is always telling me she's the adult and i'm the kid, and she says "kid" like it's a slang word LOL
literally today that happened just because i was playing some of my music so she started yelling at me and got angry. i think she was trying to dig for a reaction and make me angry but i stayed calm and told her i'd talk to her when she was calm. she wouldn't listen and even after i asked her to please stop like 10 different times she kept going, kept lecturing, kept telling me my negative music is going to shape a horrible life, telling me how "she won't allow this under the house of jesus" even though the music i was listening to didn't curse, wasn't provocative, none of that. it was just simple rock, i don't get why that's so bad. she blew up -
after she asked me to turn off my music i turned it off immediately without question, a little upset, yes, but i didn't say anything. that's when she got mad for whatever reason and started lecturing, and after i asked her to please stop and that i heard her however many times, she kept telling me "no, i won't stop, i'm not having any of that negative bullcrap under the house of God"... so i told her, still upset but keeping my temper, "this isn't negative, you're being negative right now by making a deal out of this" and oh my gosh she would not stop. eventually i realized she just doesn't listen so i went quiet. i wish i'd have told her "if you want to mention God, read james 1:19" but i don't do well when people yell at me and my voice was a little shaky
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why do mothers be this waay
good on you for staying calm, because dang, if Jesus owns your house, then if I was him I would lock her out- which is also another reason I give you props on staying calm, because I could never. I either blow up or just pretend everything is okay -
and so a few hours later i thought she'd have dropped it because it's such a stupid, trivial thing to get upset over. but she didn't. my brother told her she's disrespectful after something small, and so she got really angry and came out to where i was folding my laundry. she pointed at me and down the road and said "if you want to call me disrespectful, and your sister wants to call me negative, then you both can take the long road out of here" (keep in mind my brother's 6 and she's 43). i don't know why she had to bring that up after literally 3 hours and she was the one who insulted me and here she was playing victim, so i subtly side-eyed her but i didn't say anything. theeen she started yelling at me again telling me how bad of an example. i was and how my music is horrible and all of that. also i forgot to mention it but after i turned off my music a while back she played some asmr and because i hate mouth noises, i asked her politely to turn it off and she got angry at me and didn't turn it off. so double standard here.
she told me that she's the "adult" and i'm the "kid" and i need to stop talking back (even though i was calm here and she was the one blowing up, and i wasn't talking back at all? alright. that checks out i guess). i told her i'd talk to her when she's talking calmly and she told me she'd talk to me never if i want to be part of the world (ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ what ???) so i told her "alright, works for me" and went about folding my laundry. she then got angry at me again and it really did feel like she was fishing for a reaction but i wasn't playing that role. i was tired and i was having a good day and i wasn't going to let this ruin it for me. she told me "it's good to talk about problems" and so i asked her "is that what this is now?" because she was yelling... so she stormed off to her room and started shouting bruh
i just put on my music and did work after that. i don't care dude, i'm not putting up with it. i ate some chocolate and i offered her a piece but she was still sulking so she said no. anyway i shrugged it off and got some nice sunset pictures, and also drew a couple pages -
@yukine oh shoot sorry for the late reply! i was immersed lolðŸ˜ðŸ˜
it seems like it's a universal experience with mothers but oh well, the best we can do is learn from their parenting and parent our future kids differently, if we choose to have kids
and thank you!!!:)) i get tempted to blow up too but lately i've been refocusing my attention on patience since i'd say it's my weakest trait sadly💔 -
i love my mom but sometimes it feels more like she's actively looking for drama then actually trying to keep the peace
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than* whoopsies adjskfj
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