Ummm..... Guys.
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Thread Topic: Ummm..... Guys.
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Bisexaul.
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Yep. I'm bisexaul.
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*Bisexual
You can certainly be bisexual, or in a bi-curious stage. -
I'm bisexual. Wow. I don't know how to tell my parents. Especially my dad.
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But I'm going to throw it out there--
It's really not a bad thing. Even if you're religious, I do believe that God would not send anyone to hell for loving someone. Being bisexual, gay, lesbian, or having any sexuality other than straight does not make you a bad person. -
Ok Raven I need you to be clear here ( these questions are just to satisfy my own Curiosty )
Have you ever been in a real relationship with a girl?
Have you ever been in a real relationship with a boy?
Do you feel an attarction to both genders? -
Are your parents religious? If they are against the LGBT community you might want to tread cautiously.
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No
Yes. I wasn't bisexual until today.
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No they aren't. But I'm scared that they'll freak out though. :(
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Going with what Dark is saying if you plan to come out to them give it a year at least , this also includes everyone you know this way they can't claim its a phase or you won't feel awful if you never have an attarction to a female again after coming out.
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IDK how this happened. WTF?
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Well, no, you can come out whenever you want.
The important thing to remember is if they hate you or say you aren't their child, it's not your fault. No one chooses to be attracted to the opposite gender. No one would ever chose to have their family go against them. If you yourself are religious, remember that God theoretically loves his children no matter what (mostly). You can pray for forgiveness if it eases your mind.
Start off with a light conversation if it will help. "hey mom, hey dad, how was your day?" ect. That can help calm you down. Sometime in that conversation, say that you have something to say. Ask them to hear you out and be reasonable in their response. Then.. Let it out. -
You often find our you're a part of the community in your teenage years. I also recall seeing something mentioning that the majority of all children have been in a bi-curious stage in pre-teen through teen years.
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I know but in my opinion it's best to fully come to terms with it yourself and give it enough time so they can't dismiss it as just a phase.
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*find out you are
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