Need a finishment
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Thread Topic: Need a finishment
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Nature NoviceI am still in grade 2 Junior High School. To my left, sat Henry and to my right, sat Cicil.
At first they were a good friend, they always talk about anime, sharing picture with each other and everything nice.
But last week, on the BBM, they fought because Cicil sent a picture to Henry and pretended to send to other people. Henry said go ahead. They fought and fought until Henry said "You're just a little piece of s---" - if I'm not mistaken - it was all on BBM. And "Pantasan satu kelas bogo-bogo, depe ketua kelas kwa peteng-peteng" - in English means "Our class is stupid because our class 'leader/president/or what I don't know' is bad."
Today I asked Cicil. She said that she is not the type of person that can broadcast, for example that picture, so she didn't broadcast that picture - that picture is about Henry and a girl. But they're not a couple - just friend. I asked Henry. He said that he won't forgive and talk with Cicil if she doesn't ask for forgiveness.
That is the problem. I can't choose side. To my left, or right, even if Henry is my cousin.
Can anybody give a solution?
P.S Henry got angry quickly.
P.S the cause of the problem was a picture that she pretended - not real - to send. -
Nature NoviceCan anybody help me??? Please???? Pretty please?????
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Sit them both down and get them to talk. Play referee to make sure neither one starts attacking the other. Honest discussion until a consensus is made.
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Nature NoviceTo : barberbob2
Thank you very much, I will try that.
To : others
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Stay out of it. If your friends want your help dealing with and chosing theirs, they will ask.
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Nature NoviceBut I can't!! Slim t,, Henry is my cousin and Cicil is my new will be best friend! I swear, they won't ask. They will never speak with each other, whatever the matter is,,,, and Cicil said this : "Nahh, I won't attack him, just want to ignore him. He could say all of weird things, stupid things about me, however it won't reaches me. It has nothing to do with me if it's about sin. I don't do anything to him. He's the one who starts to think and speak bad about me. He will face his sins himself"
And this too : "I don't care about him. My choise is my choise. I don't need somebody who can't choose my choise" -
Nature NoviceCicil said this : "Just attack me so much as he can, I will feel nothing. After all, I got friends who still cares and protect me"
To : barberbob2
Your idea didn't work, sorry -
So sorry to hear that! And don't know what I can really do! Wish you luck, Nature!
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Well suit yourself.
But id invite you to consider this: life moves on. If they they hate eacother for the rest of their natural lives, it wont be the end of the world. Far from it. Theyll be ok either which way. Every thing will be alright. Period. And at the same time, you cant control other people even if it did make a difference. Let them do them. Let them live their life, and spend that energy on yourself.
In short, i invite you to approach the situation from the old adage "live and let live." -
Nature NoviceOkay Slim t
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Nature NoviceHi
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Nature NoviceDoes...... Any....one.....have......a......solution.....????
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Nature NoviceHey, I made Henry rethink of his actions with some pyscologhy-like questions...
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