Question for everyone . . .
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Thread Topic: Question for everyone . . .
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Okay.
So, let's say you're a guy and you see this girl crying in the hallway. She's just a classmate, just someone you've noticed around in the school, passing by every once in a while, but have never really talked to directly before.
You've always wanted to be her friend but never had the guts to do anything. You ask her what's wrong, why she's crying, and she tells you that her parents have both died.
Where do people go from there? What would you do? How would you comfort her? Or would you walk away? How would you get her to trust you and you both can slowly become friends and maybe after, something more (boyfriend/girlfriend-wise)?
School project research . . . :( -
That's really hard.
AND ALLERIA YOU ARE FINALLY BACK OMFGGGGGGG -
I would apologize for the girl's parents' deaths, and (maybe) give her a hug. Then talk to her as an acquaintance.
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Yay!! :) I'm back!!!
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Well, if I were a guy, I'd probably hug her and then lead her to a school closet or something like that and ask her if she wants to talk about it. I'd probably give her my number, saying that if she needed to talk about anything to text or call me. Hopefully she wouldn't be weirded out by all that though. Probably some other stuff too, but I'm too tired to think straight right now.
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Tell her you're sorry and ask if there's anything you can do. People just need a good friend.
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** What would they talk about?
Should he give her advice? -
Ooh, you guys have some good stuff to say :)
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I wouldn't hug her. Physical contact right off the bat is creepy. I'd keep close but a good distance away. I'd speak calmly and politely. I would ask her if there were anything I could do. I'd never try to liken myself to her. But I'll also never fall in love with her out of respect.
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Killerkitten NoviceOk now i know this would be kinda rude to the girl but
I would probley say i have to go and start walking away
I know its rude but thats a dark situaltion -
Keep those opinions coming!! It's very interesting to hear what you would do in this type of situation. :)
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Anything that she wanted to. Her feelings on it, her wishes, and just let her cry or vent out, do whatever she needed to do.
I would give her advice if I were the guy. I'd tell her some things that I did going through some personal losses: writing letters to them, looking at pictures of them, realizing at least you got to see and meet them, no matter how f---ed up some of that seems. -
Killerkitten NoviceI have a question who came up with that dark question for school work?
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DID YOU KNOW??
The song "Every Breath You Take" by The Police is written from the point of view of a stalker. -
Killerkitten NoviceNo i did not
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