Advice from Br0wnieBunny.
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Thread Topic: Advice from Br0wnieBunny.
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I thought I would make my own little thread for giving advice. Since THE Directioner's didn't work, I wanted to build off of that and I wanted to be serious about it. So, credit to her.
Give me a problem of yours. A thought you had, something you were wondering. I'll do my best to give you advice for that particular situation. -
I can't ask question that involves someone in case they see this post, what do?
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Ryan273 NewbieSay you were in love with your ex for the past 5 years and you were still like best friends. If he was thinking of asking this girl out... would you tell him?
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Then don't ask it here. I'd be alright with you emailing the question to me if you want to talk about it privately. Drama isn't needed.
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This may be hard to hear, but if he's planning on asking another girl out in the near future, then don't pour your feelings onto him for a second time (seeing as if he's your ex-boyfriend). It would make him feel awkward and he would be unsure of what to do anymore. Don't make him go through that pain.
What I'm saying is that you've already had your chance with him, and that chance was dismantled. He isn't the one, if he's content with just being your friend. -
How do I stay more focused?
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More focused on what? Come on, don't be vague.
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Work.
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Ryan273 NewbieOkay. He did the same thing to me last year when I was talking to a different guy... I was upset so I guess I don't want to do it to him too right? But the difference is I actually WOULD have rather been with him :/ sorry it's complicated
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More focused on work? Well, if the work is vital, cut off your distractions. Just do your best to force yourself to engage in the work. Don't do anything else until it's completed. That's what I do.
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Been with who? Your ex boyfriend, or the guy you were talking to?
If you wanted to be with your ex-boyfriend while talking with another boy, then that's your own fault. You probably chased him off and you hurt his feelings. Now, give him some space to grow and move on. -
Ryan273 NewbieI'd rather have been with my ex... He pushed me to leave the guy I was talking to and made me feel like s--- about it so he kinda ran me off and that's when I realized it... Idk I'm not sure why I'm explaining it. I just haven't talked about it. I'm not trying to change your mind but thanks for listening I guess.
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I think it was for the best, then. If you guys are making these decisions like cutting off verbal communication with particular people for no logical reason, then I can presume that you guys are a tad bit immature for love. You might be ready for it now, but like a bunch of boys, all of them but one won't be the one. You just gotta keep looking.
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Ryan273 NewbieWell he wanted me to leave this guy for him
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I think this is all the advice I can give you.
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