Well
- Locked due to inactivity on Aug 4, '16 4:31pm
Thread Topic: Well
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It's fiiiine, I swear. It's okay. Whenever you need to get something off your chest, it's healthy to do so, even if you're self-conscious about it. Please, if you do need any help I'm here with open arms.
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Well I know what's bothering me, and I'm pretty sure it won't go away. I just don't wanna make anybody feel guilty, I'm sure I can handle it.. Thank you though, really.
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Okay then my dad's been a total dick this whole week and all I wanna do is enjoy my vacation with my family but he's constantly yelling and he hasn't hit me at all yet (too many people) but I think he might try to soon, and it scares me because if somebody sees then what's gonna happen and I was absolutely sobbing the last two nights and it's pathetic because I shouldn't be freaking out and panicking this and I still feel like a bother to all you guys and I love you guys all so much but I don't wanna upset you and I thought I was done being all depressed and suicidal but I don't even know anymore ;-;
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Lucky, I've been ignored the past few days and I have so many problems I think won't go away but in all honesty if I were to just speak them they'd go away. I won't force you to tell me, but trust me, not saying anything could hurt you. My email is open if you're willing enough..?
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Why is he yelling at you? That sounds f---ing horrible.
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Well...Im gonna split from this thread. you have all the support you need right now kiddo.
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Alright. Thank you, that's good enough.
About your dad. Why has he been acting this way? Was he abusive to you for a long time, or did he just pick up on this recently? And I'm sorry that you've been crying. It doesn't help that your dad is so mean that you've been sobbing for two nights because of him. How are you feeling, exactly? I understand the pain and depression, but is there any anger involved? Any fake feelings of love? -
It's awful. I'm trying so hard to ignore him, but every little thing I do is messin up in his eyes. I eat too much or too little, I'm too nice or too mean to my cousins, I don't do what he says fast enough. He's been hitting me for a while now. But there's so many people with us on vacation that I don't think he wants to risk anything. But he's scary when he's angry. I'm not angry at him, just scared of what's gonna happen if he does get too upset. And I hate crying, I absolutely hate it, but I've just been so panicked the past few days that I can't help it.
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That's judgmental, and not fair in any way. Why can't your father look at you with optimism instead of pessimism? If he saw the pain you're going through because of him, your crying, and the way you truly felt because of him, do you think he would stop? Or would be not care and continue?
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Lucky, that sounds a little too much like abuse. I can see why maybe him being mad at you 'messing up' is normal, but if it's that common and he's hitting you.. You definitely need to tell someone. Your mom, perhaps. Or an adult. Because as much as I know you don't want something to happen to him- or you, for that matter- if you let it go on any more there can be serious issues. Crying is definitely okay if it helps you because this situation calls for it.
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He doesn't care. He knows I hate him, he knows I only love him because I have to. I just don't know how to make him stop because as easy as it is to cover bruises they still f---ing hurt, and I've tried to hard to make him happy and do what he wants but it's not good enough, it's never good enough. I just want it to stop.
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My mom knows. She said it was bbest not to tell anyone about it, not to make a big deal out of it. I don't know but I think he might be hitting her too. It's not abuse, he just gets mad easily..
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It's physical abuse and domestic violence if he hits you and (possibly) your mom often. And he can be arrested for that. You should atleast have someone to talk to, because hiding your bruises won't help. Sure you can hide them, but they still hurt, and you're still hurt. He should just realize what he's doing to you. If he wanted a daughter, she shouldn't be his punchingbag. It's as simple as that.
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